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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys ...totally straight guy ....thinking , maybe get a few lads together to form a little group to please the ladies and couples . Like minded easy going lads , who like a laugh but well mannered, clean , discreet and know how to treat a lady right ...... what do you think guys and would you ladies be interested ?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

There are already one or two successful groups of men like that on here! They seem to be quite popular from what I've heard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll put you down as our first customer ...lol

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Already got meets planned with another, you are a little late I'm afraid!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i say go for it,..ive held many a party its hard to group good guys together for the lady guests,... never have enough genuine, reliable, clean goodlooking, wellendowed men lol

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Its hard to find the right guys for these groups.. everyone now and then one or two of the guys get the wrong idea, or don't know how to get on with the other guys...

.. hence why I abstain from joining "groups".

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think


"Its hard to find the right guys for these groups.. everyone now and then one or two of the guys get the wrong idea, or don't know how to get on with the other guys...

.. hence why I abstain from joining "groups"."

from what I've seen and heard you don't need to join a "group" .... seem to be able to keep several ladies happy at same time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt have met the amount of women/cpls if it wasnt for my good male friends...and yes we look out for eachother.... never been asked for a cheeky sly bj either lolol-thankfuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good luck in your new venture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys ...totally straight guy ....thinking , maybe get a few lads together to form a little group to please the ladies and couples . Like minded easy going lads , who like a laugh but well mannered, clean , discreet and know how to treat a lady right ...... what do you think guys and would you ladies be interested ? "

If it was what i was looking for(and sometimes it is...) I'd always look for it myself...your idea of easy going, well mannered and like minded may differ wildly from mine...I wouldn't truat anyone else other than my partner to know what I like or want...

But good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys ...totally straight guy ....thinking , maybe get a few lads together to form a little group to please the ladies and couples . Like minded easy going lads , who like a laugh but well mannered, clean , discreet and know how to treat a lady right ...... what do you think guys and would you ladies be interested ?

If it was what i was looking for(and sometimes it is...) I'd always look for it myself...your idea of easy going, well mannered and like minded may differ wildly from mine...I wouldn't truat anyone else other than my partner to know what I like or want...

But good luck "

wile I totally agree, I an safely say ive met around 10 couples with my friends,and for the most part we can dicuss the tpes of meets that are good for us them (not every couple/fe) will be interested in me,a mixedrace type,some wont want my over 40s friends....

but all communcation can be sorted way before a meet

and like Ive said...Ive never really had any of the ppl omplain my pals(and me I hope) are overbearing,pushy,disrespectful etc etc etc

half the battle for alot of cpls/single fems is that they seem to complain there is no decent single men out there and most they meet are timewasters,stalkers etc etc etc....when there is a group of single men(or married whatever) that are pretty well established as being good for most meets.

take from what u will about single men banding together in some fashion positively and not see it as a group of immature twats thinking of the next "whore" to fuck,

we really arent that different from the way cpls behave...Oh...maybe tht due to one half being male too.....

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

It worked for The Blues Brothers...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the feedback ladies and gents , please feel free to furnish me with any other advice, tips , etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well good luck to you! You have a hard job ahead of you, find the suitable guys, then of course you will be going head to head with some established groups of guys who have verifications as to what they provide whereas as you don't even have a single verification! On top of that you don't accommodate so you are going to have to sort a venue etc etc. Not as simple as it looks really!

Are you sure you have thought this through chap?

Think I will stay as i am and muddle on through Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there are 3 Farnborough's in England and all over an hours drive from me, which is a little too far though not as far as the one in Australia, in fact funnily enough RAC route planner couldn't calculate the route

Sounds a good plan to me though and I know someone who might like to join your little group

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems like everyone is putting me off this idea ...maybe joining an established group is a better option I'm thinking ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not trying to put you off, more like trying to help you explore the cold hard facts! Hehe

Joining another group would be a good idea, you could gain inside knowledge on the mechanics of it all!

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

To the OP, I'll just say this... be wary of guys that want to join your new group with the sole aim of you sourcing the contacts (ie, the ladiers in question, hence the legwork) while their contribution is to turn up, shag and go.

The same goes for groups that are happy for you to join, but the catch being you go through the initiation of "referring" so X number of ladies over Y amount of time before you are acceted as a ull fledged member - in essence, they sit back while you "hand over" your contact list but in turn they have no intention of inviting you to any of their get togethers.

Yes, you learn a thing or two over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the OP, I'll just say this... be wary of guys that want to join your new group with the sole aim of you sourcing the contacts (ie, the ladiers in question, hence the legwork) while their contribution is to turn up, shag and go.

The same goes for groups that are happy for you to join, but the catch being you go through the initiation of "referring" so X number of ladies over Y amount of time before you are acceted as a ull fledged member - in essence, they sit back while you "hand over" your contact list but in turn they have no intention of inviting you to any of their get togethers.

Yes, you learn a thing or two over the years"

I'm guessing that if his 'contact list' is so huge he wouldnt be needing to join an established group!!!

I occasionally play with such a group and the only request made of me has been to be to turn up to an event when I have said I will. Nothing more.

Whats the worst that could happen. He turns up and theres 6 guys and no women, and he's the entertainment!!!!! Lol. Seriously hook up with a group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i say go for it,..ive held many a party its hard to group good guys together for the lady guests,... never have enough genuine, reliable, clean goodlooking, wellendowed men lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to put you off, more like trying to help you explore the cold hard facts! Hehe

Joining another group would be a good idea, you could gain inside knowledge on the mechanics of it all! "

Only if you are qualified

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Quite a few people have mentioned "established groups" if one were in the market for such a group, where would you find such a list? Just curious... A friend wants to know...

D&K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I take it Kate would like a visit from more than one gentleman then ..lol

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"I take it Kate would like a visit from more than one gentleman then ..lol "

Apparently she's asking on behalf of a friend...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the OP, I'll just say this... be wary of guys that want to join your new group with the sole aim of you sourcing the contacts (ie, the ladiers in question, hence the legwork) while their contribution is to turn up, shag and go.

The same goes for groups that are happy for you to join, but the catch being you go through the initiation of "referring" so X number of ladies over Y amount of time before you are acceted as a ull fledged member - in essence, they sit back while you "hand over" your contact list but in turn they have no intention of inviting you to any of their get togethers.

Yes, you learn a thing or two over the years"

Like Jimmy Greaves said - It's a funny old game

Wolf

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"Quite a few people have mentioned "established groups" if one were in the market for such a group, where would you find such a list? Just curious... A friend wants to know...

D&K"

You could check out city_slickers - I've been to a few of their parties and was very impressed.

They arrange organised club nights or can set up a private meeting with a few guys of your choice from their stable

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Quite a few people have mentioned "established groups" if one were in the market for such a group, where would you find such a list? Just curious... A friend wants to know...

D&K

You could check out city_slickers - I've been to a few of their parties and was very impressed.

They arrange organised club nights or can set up a private meeting with a few guys of your choice from their stable "

+1

Would also recommend their parties.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"Quite a few people have mentioned "established groups" if one were in the market for such a group, where would you find such a list? Just curious... A friend wants to know...

D&K

You could check out city_slickers - I've been to a few of their parties and was very impressed.

They arrange organised club nights or can set up a private meeting with a few guys of your choice from their stable "

Thanks all.

Op - sorry for the slight hijack!

D&k

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I don't know much about city_slickers, apparently turned down someone I know female) for being ugly.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I don't know much about city_slickers, apparently turned down someone I know female) for being ugly."

Can only speak from our experience but have always found those we have met through them to be really nice decent guys.

But understand others may not agree.

x

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

There is also LondonGreedyGuys, but they only really do the London area, so might be a bit out of the way for you.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

It's probably been suggested before but wouldn't it be handy if instead of male/female/couples people could also register as a "group". Would make searching easier?

Ignore my stupidity if this is already possible.

D&K

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There's a group in Bristol (on my veris) and one in Liverpool (do a search for 'gangbangs' on the forums) if either of them are closer to you.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"There's a group in Bristol (on my veris) and one in Liverpool (do a search for 'gangbangs' on the forums) if either of them are closer to you."

Thanks will do...

D&K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't worry about the hijacking D&K ...but it is gonna cost ya ...lol

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