FabSwingers.com forum: Face Picture

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies, is a face picture usually a must on a first message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes me laugh is when people demand face pictures on first message, but have none themselves, or the public pictures are close ups so you can't get any idea of body shape, size, etc never mind face.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"or the public pictures are close ups so you can't get any idea of body shape, size, etc never mind face. "

Anyway I like to see a face pic early on in the conversation yes, if I don't fancy the face I'm not going to want to kiss it, am I?

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Ladies, is a face picture usually a must on a first message?"
ideallybin the first few messages...I always send one back

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

I always send a face pic with first message just saves time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes me laugh is when people demand face pictures on first message, but have none themselves, or the public pictures are close ups so you can't get any idea of body shape, size, etc never mind face. "

I've had men send me messages, with no public pics on their profiles at all. So I do expect something when contacting me and I'd rather it be the face!

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By *oley999Woman
over a year ago

Land of Rainbows and Happiness

I'm new! Am I a bit naive to feel put off by all the cock pics? I really like faces!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you mean just like the public picture (total count 1) on your profile which is a close up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"or the public pictures are close ups so you can't get any idea of body shape, size, etc never mind face.

Anyway I like to see a face pic early on in the conversation yes, if I don't fancy the face I'm not going to want to kiss it, am I?"

That was what I was thinking. As someone said to me yesterday, kissing can be massively overlooked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies, is a face picture usually a must on a first message?"

No, not for me. A person's prerogative to show facial's or not initially & I understand & respect their decision...

Obviously, later down the line a face picture before a meet would be required, but certainly not on intial contact

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ladies, is a face picture usually a must on a first message?

No, not for me. A person's prerogative to show facial's or not initially & I understand & respect their decision...

Obviously, later down the line a face picture before a meet would be required, but certainly not on intial contact

Definitely need it before a meet.

Personally, I don't have a "type" as such. Some people like blondes, some like brunettes, some like very slim people, some like curves so having a face picture to complete a full image would be a requirement before meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face pic first message would certainly save time and save having to back out of a conversation if you don’t fancy him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's on my profile.

So you can decide instantly if you want to kiss the frog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id much rather a face pic than a cock pic !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, I like to see early on in the conversation. Little point continuing otherwise

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

For me it is. I hardly reply to anyone on here as it is, definitely won't reply to a blank profile or no hint of who is talking to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ask for them but I'm more likely to respond to someone who sends one I like.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

They’re nice to receive in the first few messages, not necessarily the very first one, but quite early on..

Helps to see if there is initial chemistry don’t you think?

After all physical attraction is a must as well as personality x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They’re nice to receive in the first few messages, not necessarily the very first one, but quite early on..

Helps to see if there is initial chemistry don’t you think?

After all physical attraction is a must as well as personality x

Yeah I agree. Physical attraction is one of the main drivers as people are looking for the whole package

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By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York

"They’re nice to receive in the first few messages, not necessarily the very first one, but quite early on..

Helps to see if there is initial chemistry don’t you think?

After all physical attraction is a must as well as personality x

Yeah I agree. Physical attraction is one of the main drivers as people are looking for the whole package"

Might send one immediately if they/she are at a 'distance' but many members 'locate' themselves away from 'home' so I also look at how far they are 'actually' away if near(ish) neighbours I don't send one until I am either sure of their genuineness and confident of their discretion (or both) - but I am also up front about any reservations I have in my messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a must for us in any message. We always meet for social first so a blind date is kind of fun. Doesn't have to go further if no attraction from either side.

Plus considering how many people don't quite look like their pics it can be a blind date at best of times.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies, is a face picture usually a must on a first message?"

Not a must. But I will want to see a face picture after exchanging a few messages, and I will return the favour.

I usually get a cock picture sent in a first message which gets deleted and he gets blocked. It pays off to read profiles before contacting others.

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By *handraWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

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By *handraWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Face pic early on, with some public body shots in profile can build the whole image.

The reason I enjoy organised socials is so you can meet the whole person, online isn't always the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you wish to have more luck in getting a reply then you really have to..

Think of your profile as a CV or marketing campaign for a brand.. YOU are the brand you want people to buy..

Marketing images sell more than words do.

If you want someone to buy into you the brand.. you need a good image(s) that they want to see. Then you need a good statement that will hook them into the brand, you..

Words with meaning that takes their breath away..

Of course.. people are people.. some are not shopping, some look in the window and walk by, some come in look a little then decide not to buy anything. Some will even get to the checkout and leave without anything..

It's life.. So don't be disheartened.

But start the with good basics and you have every chance..

Mistress Amelia x

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We do like to see face pics but they don't need to be sent with the first message but helps to receive one early on in chatting, that way nobody's time is wasted. We like there to be attraction all round, not just the body but personality also, so if we don't click while chatting then obviously there's no point but then no point chatting for months then the face pics arrive and you just don't see yourself kissing them lol, so catch 22

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By *rofessJayWoman
over a year ago

wherever

"I don't ask for them but I'm more likely to respond to someone who sends one I like.

Same here

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

"We do like to see face pics but they don't need to be sent with the first message but helps to receive one early on in chatting, that way nobody's time is wasted. We like there to be attraction all round, not just the body but personality also, so if we don't click while chatting then obviously there's no point but then no point chatting for months then the face pics arrive and you just don't see yourself kissing them lol, so catch 22"

Yeah baby well put i normally send face pic when asked.

Try to impress with my charm before they see me.... lol..

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"Ladies, is a face picture usually a must on a first message?"

Its not a must at all you have a choice if you send one or not. However without one your chances of a reply are a lot lot less.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It doesn't have to be 1st one,but early on in the chat.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send face pic if they ask or have a face pic themselves

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always send at least 10 facepics with no dick pics i must add, i know how that infuriates everyone

Still not onee meet, must be really ugly

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By *imAndHerKentCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

"Ladies, is a face picture usually a must on a first message?"

It is for us. We use this to tell if people have bothered to read our profile before messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i send mine and they run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always send at least 10 facepics with no dick pics i must add, i know how that infuriates everyone

Still not onee meet, must be really ugly

Let me see?

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I've met a few with no face pics kind of adds to the excitement sometimes.

Not really been disappointed unless I'm just less fussy

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"Ladies, is a face picture usually a must on a first message?"

It is for me. If I'm not attracted to someone , I don't see the point of chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is for me, yes embarrassing to start chatting without one only to find that you don't fancy someone a few messages in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To young to message you

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Doesn't bother me. I like to chat to people and get a 'feel' for them. If they want to send a face pic that's fine but I don't usually send one back until a meet has been arranged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met couples and single females without face pics, as they have me.

When I first started on this magical road, photos weren't really available, a grainy Polaroid at best sent with a letter, so face pics aren't important to me. I get a feel for a person over several messages whether I want to meet or not.

However I don't send one with my initial message, certainly if they themselves don't have any. If asked, I will send one. Those profiles that say don't message unless you send one, without having one themselves, I wouldn't message.

I think the advent of online swinging has made it more superficial. I tend to judge a book not by its cover but by its content.

I know this thread was aimed at the ladies so apologies for airing my views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think if you wish to have more luck in getting a reply then you really have to..

Think of your profile as a CV or marketing campaign for a brand.. YOU are the brand you want people to buy..

Marketing images sell more than words do.

If you want someone to buy into you the brand.. you need a good image(s) that they want to see. Then you need a good statement that will hook them into the brand, you..

Words with meaning that takes their breath away..

It's life.. So don't be disheartened.

But start the with good basics and you have every chance..

Mistress Amelia x

Thank you. Everything in life is a sale whether people realise it or not.

Need to channel my inner Alec Baldwin from Glengarry Glen Ross haha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think Miss Amelia's point about it being marketing is where I am going wrong. it is my day to day job to sell/ train people to sell but I need to up my level on here

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

It's not a first message must for me. I like to establish we're not likely to bump into each other in a work capacity first, and see if there's a vague chance I'll want to meet someone before I send one. I'd want to see one before agreeing to meet someone though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must for me as like others have said there has to be an attraction and if they are my type I will send one to them

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Absolutely. Been swinging for 10 years, so that's about 36k cock pics. A face pic is always a welcomed surprise.

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

Mines on my profile pic but if I message someone I’d like to see them within a couple of messages...I do get why some are reluctant at first ...as for me I’ve no shame at using a sex site lol

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

I've had men send me messages, with no public pics on their profiles at all. So I do expect something when contacting me and I'd rather it be the face! "
Agree totally - face pic is a must for Anne. But we reciprocate as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always send a face pic in the first message as expected. But I do slightly resent the risk of outing yourself to someone you know in a small town. Tend to meet outside of own area.

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