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By * and C OP   Couple
over a year ago

Runcorn

We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.

Any advice please.

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

Had you thought of putting pictures of the male on your profile?

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

Sorry think you have already!

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

as a couple I'm surprised. you have the keys to the kingdom! try contacting people with meet verifications? and more pics would help too. do you visit local clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, there are many of what you describe but there are also many genuine, friendly and very sexy folks on here also.

You have to be patient, friendly and be yourself for people to judge if you are right for them. Take it from a single guy....

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By * and C OP   Couple
over a year ago

Runcorn

Thanks for the responses, we are so bored of it now to be honest we are thinking of deleting our account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to see you go.

Stay safe

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Being honest, your first sentence would be a little off putting to me. Maybe reword and put it a little further down your profile? Just my thoughts.

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

We have met a few people from Fab but get fed up with ping pong emails & people who say all the right things but won’t meet.

We have more luck in clubs & if we don’t find people that we click with, we will have fun with each other, but always in a room where we can be watched as tests a huge turn on for us.

Have you tried going to clubs, there’s a chance of meeting nervous newbies but less chance of meeting time wasters?

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Lots of clubs in your area. I would go to one make some friends and begin a swinger social life. The rest of what you want soon follows

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By * and C OP   Couple
over a year ago

Runcorn

We have been to townhouse, play in the public rooms but for our first foursome we would rather do it in private so thought here would be better.

Will re-word our profile too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm looking at a couples profile I like to see a picture of them together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny ole game this it’s a bit like fishing ,you can go for weeks /months without a bite then all of a sudden you meet up with some lovely people , it’s just how it goes at times even when going to a club there’s no guarantee you’ll play with a couple / single that float your boat . We don’t get bogged down with it all just pretty much go with the flow , but all the best with what ever you guys do

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Lots of clubs in your area. I would go to one make some friends and begin a swinger social life. The rest of what you want soon follows "

This.... there are certain things you can’t shop for online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don’t give up....

Just start going to social_ and clubs....

Once you’re known, you will be beating the couples away with a stick

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Please don’t give up....

Just start going to social_ and clubs....

Once you’re known, you will be beating the couples away with a stick"
this, if you don't want to play in a club, get to a social and meet the type of people who are happy to socialise. There are lots like yourself who don't want to be in the spotlight and would rather be having fun behind closed doors.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

9 months isn't really that long. Try clubs and socials for networking. If you are really not enjoying your time on fab then take a break.

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By * and C OP   Couple
over a year ago

Runcorn

Thanks everyone for all the advice. We have taken all of it on board and will try again. x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.

Any advice please."

Maybe they think the twattish unenforceable ‘legal’ warning puts them off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.

Any advice please."

I would message you but can't due to filters

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

The clubs are a far better place to meet first.

Take it from there if you want privacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.

Any advice please."

Many couples of your age group requirements will have childcare issues. At least if you find a couple at a club, childcare and accommodation issues are sorted. Many clubs have closed off areas/rooms to use.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.

Any advice please.

I would message you but can't due to filters"

Perhaps post your advice here then?

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley


"We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.

Any advice please."

As a couple on here we get about 40% fake and leave, 30% not our type, 15% don't reply who seem simular to us, 10% possibles and 5% are interesting and meet of which 1% turn out ok.

As a single guy well let's just say it's fun trying although in over a year I've met 2 couples who I have partied with, which I'm told is a good result lol

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.

Any advice please."

There is no magic wand when it comes to fab all you can do is put meets up, message those that take your fancy (and hope), go to clubs and organised socials and try and get your face know.

In our time here on Fab we have found that things go in cycles. We can go weeks/months with out any meets or contact then suddenly be inundated with offers of parties and meets.

Would suggest that you post a few pictures of you both and try to avoid any negativity or something too demanding on your profile, I can only speak personally but as soon as I see moaning status updates and the likes I dismiss the profile.

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

We'ed play with you both, but been outside of your age range it's not worth trying.

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

You state on your profile your soft swap and whilst that’s perfectly acceptable it does reduce significantly the number of people as potential play partners.

The one strange think about swinging is how incredibly hard it can be to actually arrange a meet.

Good luck

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By *arshellCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield


"You state on your profile your soft swap and whilst that’s perfectly acceptable it does reduce significantly the number of people as potential play partners.

The one strange think about swinging is how incredibly hard it can be to actually arrange a meet.

Good luck "

We are put off by profiles that pretty much say soft swap only, it's not for everyone and browsing generally you don't find many couples that prefer only soft.....it may be putting a lot of people off unfortunately.

And yeah, if it's a couple's profile we would always like to see at least 1 photo of both of you....there are too many fake profiles for a lot of people to take a chance...

If we saw you in a club we would certainly chat and see where the night leads...

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been on fab a while and have messaged lots of people. For one reason or another nothing comes of it. Starting to think that fab is a total waste of time full of fakes, bullshitters and attention seekers.

Any advice please.

I would message you but can't due to filters"

Because they are not looking for single guys..say what you want to say on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would remove the warning.. it's a bit toy and totally unenforcible,and can put folk off if you are that gullible regarding it .

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Why not go to club's and then if you don't want to use the private rooms, you can always swap details and go to their house or hotel or a club on another time.

I think it's far easier meeting people face to face, than sending out messages.

You have plenty of club's within an hour from your area.

And as others have said, remove the daft warning . It is nonsense and does put people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes a message can be misread if they don't know you and may cause offence.

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By * and C OP   Couple
over a year ago

Runcorn

Once again, thanks everyone. x

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