FabSwingers.com forum: Playing with Vanilla Friends

By *BCambs OP Couple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

We are a Stag Vixen couple where we enjoy mmf threesomes. We have done clubs and private meets and been swinging almost three years.

It's fairly easy to get guys from Fabs to join us but Miss A wants someone that involves a bit of a chase and flirt and build up.

We have considered finding guys outside of Fabs and perhaps some real life acquaintances/old friends.

Anyone done this before? (Of course you have) Are we mad to 'out' ourselves to people that actually know us?

Has anyone any advice for taking this adventure out of Fabs and go off road?

Can we just discuss and give a hot wife some tips?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Most of our friends know. Some are part of the scene and some are not. I don't think anyone who talks about their life with good friends is mad.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

More than half of the meets I have are with people I've met outside Fab so it's quite OK to do that. I've found texting to be a great way to flirt and if I find someone I like, I'll try to find some excuse to get a mobby number

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I will say that MAJORITY of my friends in the real world have also been sex partners at some point in time but I often meet up with them socially also. People have asked me whether it's awkward to share a drink or meal with someone I've slept with and the answer is it's absolutely NOT weird or awkward.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Most of our friends know about our lifestyle, and we have shared with quite a few- though they're not swingers, they only play with us, so yes it can be done quite easily. Just be open and honest about what you do, so they realise it's nothing dirty or shameful. With luck it'll go the way you want.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

What is a “stag vixen couple” ???

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I would say the fantasy is usually better than the reality.

- some will be offended by the suggestion

- some will like the suggestion and then back out at the last minute

- some will go through with it and find they can't perform with another guy around

- some will go through with it and you'll realise they are crap at sex

It'll be a tiny minority that can agree, turn up, perform, fuck off and not get emotional about it after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a “stag vixen couple” ???

Vx"

I wondered too. I've never heard the term before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We too have mainly enjoyed mmf fun and one evening after a few drinks at ours we got a vanilla male friend to join in with us.

The conversation had turned to handcuffs and his past girlfriends who had been into kinky play.

We smiled and started to tell him about our 3ft whip ,collar n leash etc which he was amazed at.

Lucy went upstairs and came back down with her latex dress on and whips n floggers ..of course looking hot.

She bent over the kitchen table and I said he could flog her.

He was a bit shy so I floged her for a bit.

Her dress got lifted and we took turns flogging and spanking her bum. I grabbed her hair from behind and slid my cock in and started to pound her hard...he was still stood in shock ...But with a hard on.

Lucy grabbed him by his cock pulled him closer and undone his trousers...took his cock out and sucked him off as I pounded her from behind.

The session went on for a few hours that night.

We play with him every now n then but a word of caution ...if you wish to be discreet then make sure you say to him not to chat about it to others.

Unfortunately we had not mentioned this on the first event and he told most his family about his amazing threesome.

We have since schooled him

in the art of discretion.

It does make his family bbqs interesting with whispers of ..oh they are swingers....

and the envious looks from the vanilla males in the crowd ...

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By *BCambs OP Couple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

"What is a “stag vixen couple” ???

I wondered too. I've never heard the term before."

We are a hotwife couple but not at all cuckold in any way. I like to share my wife in mmf threesome. In order to point out there is no cuckold or humiliation play Stag and Vixen is sometimes used to descibe that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good read.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I don't think you should necessarily 'out' yourselves, rather let things develop naturally with a preffered friend.

My 1st wife had a female work colleague who we both became very good friends with, which then developed into us all being lovers.

If you want a slow build up and something long term, I think you're better finding that in real life than on here.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a “stag vixen couple” ???

I wondered too. I've never heard the term before.

Hi Mr B and Miss A. I read your post with avid interest. As I have been lucky enough in the past to have been that extra guy for a couple. Yes, a long term arrangement can be a good thing for all parties, unfortunately for me it was them that spoiled the arrangement. HE was actually 'pimpimg her' on the side. So sadly I broke things off.

But while it lasted we explored many Avenues. All because of the repeat meets and trust as well as intimacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a “stag vixen couple” ???

Vx"

Couple where the female has other sexual partners. Male watches and sometimes joins in, or maybe takes over after other guy. Male is not 'humiliated' as in Cuckolding.

You should try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a “stag vixen couple” ???

I wondered too. I've never heard the term before.

Stag and vixen is a term that was coined on tumblr, as hotwife was originally used but the term hotwife started getting mixed up with cuckolding.

Plain and simple a stag is a male who loves to see his partner in pleasure but is not a beta to any other male and is secure safe in his masculinity, vixen just other term for hotwife.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We regularly go out into town on the pull. It’s much more exciting than reading through messages on here. Some of our best meets are from meeting vanilla guys. Just be wary some guys don’t believe what your offering and a lot will turn the offer down

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