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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find myself wondering whether I'm bi-curious/bisexual with what now turns me on but I'm nervous as the thought of giving it a try maybe to just a phase maybe I am anyone been in this position and able to let me know how they coped / got on

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By *ustaceSmithMan
over a year ago

Saxmundham

I think we are all fundamentally bisexual. I suggest you arrange an MFM threesome and just go with the flow. You may never turn back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's what I was thinking might be the best option

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"I find myself wondering whether I'm bi-curious/bisexual with what now turns me on but I'm nervous as the thought of giving it a try maybe to just a phase maybe I am anyone been in this position and able to let me know how they coped / got on"

Yes , done it and never looked back ...try it , if you like do it again , if not leave it .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's more nerves really

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent


"I find myself wondering whether I'm bi-curious/bisexual with what now turns me on but I'm nervous as the thought of giving it a try maybe to just a phase maybe I am anyone been in this position and able to let me know how they coped / got on"

Only you can decide if you want to keep it as a fantasy or actually try it for real.

Just don’t be ashamed of what turns you on. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find myself wondering whether I'm bi-curious/bisexual with what now turns me on but I'm nervous as the thought of giving it a try maybe to just a phase maybe I am anyone been in this position and able to let me know how they coped / got on

Only you can decide if you want to keep it as a fantasy or actually try it for real.

Just don’t be ashamed of what turns you on. X"

Thank you think it's what really stops me from doing things

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"It's more nerves really "

I've been bi all my life . Only done something about it in last few years . I was nervous , so I messaged a guy and told him I'd never been with a guy . He told me he'd help and he opened a whole new world up to me , one which I'd Wished I'd opened up in my youth , go for it

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

You'll know when you have a cock in your mouth -until then it's just the anyway the wind blows bit from Bohemian Rhapsody I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's more nerves really

I've been bi all my life . Only done something about it in last few years . I was nervous , so I messaged a guy and told him I'd never been with a guy . He told me he'd help and he opened a whole new world up to me , one which I'd Wished I'd opened up in my youth , go for it

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Could be a journey I went on long ago

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"It's more nerves really

I've been bi all my life . Only done something about it in last few years . I was nervous , so I messaged a guy and told him I'd never been with a guy . He told me he'd help and he opened a whole new world up to me , one which I'd Wished I'd opened up in my youth , go for it

Could be a journey I went on long ago "

Lot of men out there suppressing there feelings ..don't be one of them , life is to short

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's more nerves really

I've been bi all my life . Only done something about it in last few years . I was nervous , so I messaged a guy and told him I'd never been with a guy . He told me he'd help and he opened a whole new world up to me , one which I'd Wished I'd opened up in my youth , go for it

Could be a journey I went on long ago

Lot of men out there suppressing there feelings ..don't be one of them , life is to short "

That is very true, comes down to I like the idea of a women pegging me so what else do I like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The thought of a sexy shemale turns me on aas well no wonder I watch shemale porn

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"It's more nerves really

I've been bi all my life . Only done something about it in last few years . I was nervous , so I messaged a guy and told him I'd never been with a guy . He told me he'd help and he opened a whole new world up to me , one which I'd Wished I'd opened up in my youth , go for it

Could be a journey I went on long ago

Lot of men out there suppressing there feelings ..don't be one of them , life is to short

That is very true, comes down to I like the idea of a women pegging me so what else do I like "

Do whatever turns you on mate , what you feel comfortable with then slowly progress . it's brilliant with another guy btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's more nerves really

I've been bi all my life . Only done something about it in last few years . I was nervous , so I messaged a guy and told him I'd never been with a guy . He told me he'd help and he opened a whole new world up to me , one which I'd Wished I'd opened up in my youth , go for it

Could be a journey I went on long ago

Lot of men out there suppressing there feelings ..don't be one of them , life is to short

That is very true, comes down to I like the idea of a women pegging me so what else do I like

Do whatever turns you on mate , what you feel comfortable with then slowly progress . it's brilliant with another guy btw "

Something I really need to consider

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"It's more nerves really

I've been bi all my life . Only done something about it in last few years . I was nervous , so I messaged a guy and told him I'd never been with a guy . He told me he'd help and he opened a whole new world up to me , one which I'd Wished I'd opened up in my youth , go for it

Could be a journey I went on long ago

Lot of men out there suppressing there feelings ..don't be one of them , life is to short

That is very true, comes down to I like the idea of a women pegging me so what else do I like

Do whatever turns you on mate , what you feel comfortable with then slowly progress . it's brilliant with another guy btw

Something I really need to consider"

Only you can decide . Good luck

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

Perhaps you could kick things off by meeting a bi couple socially and discuss it with them. Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps you could kick things off by meeting a bi couple socially and discuss it with them. Just a thought. "

Sounds like a good idea

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"Perhaps you could kick things off by meeting a bi couple socially and discuss it with them. Just a thought. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps you could kick things off by meeting a bi couple socially and discuss it with them. Just a thought.

This "

Sounds like the right option

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'll know when you have a cock in your mouth -until then it's just the anyway the wind blows bit from Bohemian Rhapsody I'm afraid"

Lol just seen this true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are find the thought of playing with a guy arousing, then I'd say go ahead and try it. Maybe when you turn fantasy to reality you won't like it, but unless you try you'll never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's Andy. I've always said I will try anything once, because I can't rule out liking it until I've experienced it. This had led me into some really awkward moments, mostly because I have a warped sense of humour and usually end up killing moods by making inappropriate jokes. The reason I do that is nerves and anxiety. I openly came out as Bisexual in college, because it was the only way of explaining how I felt, I had an effeminate gay male friend who for some reason I couldn't stop my attention going to. We'd known each other for years and I spoke to him about it one day while we were out having a drink and he summed it up perfectly for me...

"I enjoy what I enjoy because it feels good to me, so fuck everybody elses opinion."

Johnny changed my life In that one single simple moment. I've been in sexual encounters with all sorts of people over the years and there have been times I didn't enjoy it, but that's the thing... don't enjoy it, don't do it. The nerves will always be there I'm afraid, you may find the perfect guy out there to experiment with who you can't stop thinking about, you can spend years playing with one another, you become so close you may as well be one person... You're so comfortable around this person that you'd happily die in their arms. Then something happens and you meet someone new... guess what, the nerves are back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's Andy. I've always said I will try anything once, because I can't rule out liking it until I've experienced it. This had led me into some really awkward moments, mostly because I have a warped sense of humour and usually end up killing moods by making inappropriate jokes. The reason I do that is nerves and anxiety. I openly came out as Bisexual in college, because it was the only way of explaining how I felt, I had an effeminate gay male friend who for some reason I couldn't stop my attention going to. We'd known each other for years and I spoke to him about it one day while we were out having a drink and he summed it up perfectly for me...

"I enjoy what I enjoy because it feels good to me, so fuck everybody elses opinion."

Johnny changed my life In that one single simple moment. I've been in sexual encounters with all sorts of people over the years and there have been times I didn't enjoy it, but that's the thing... don't enjoy it, don't do it. The nerves will always be there I'm afraid, you may find the perfect guy out there to experiment with who you can't stop thinking about, you can spend years playing with one another, you become so close you may as well be one person... You're so comfortable around this person that you'd happily die in their arms. Then something happens and you meet someone new... guess what, the nerves are back."

This is a great response thanks I think it's something I have to really consider either with a make in a couple situation who knows

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"It's Andy. I've always said I will try anything once, because I can't rule out liking it until I've experienced it. This had led me into some really awkward moments, mostly because I have a warped sense of humour and usually end up killing moods by making inappropriate jokes. The reason I do that is nerves and anxiety. I openly came out as Bisexual in college, because it was the only way of explaining how I felt, I had an effeminate gay male friend who for some reason I couldn't stop my attention going to. We'd known each other for years and I spoke to him about it one day while we were out having a drink and he summed it up perfectly for me...

"I enjoy what I enjoy because it feels good to me, so fuck everybody elses opinion."

Johnny changed my life In that one single simple moment. I've been in sexual encounters with all sorts of people over the years and there have been times I didn't enjoy it, but that's the thing... don't enjoy it, don't do it. The nerves will always be there I'm afraid, you may find the perfect guy out there to experiment with who you can't stop thinking about, you can spend years playing with one another, you become so close you may as well be one person... You're so comfortable around this person that you'd happily die in their arms. Then something happens and you meet someone new... guess what, the nerves are back."

superb .....I didn't come out till I was 40 , how silly do I feel . Listen to this couple x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's Andy. I've always said I will try anything once, because I can't rule out liking it until I've experienced it. This had led me into some really awkward moments, mostly because I have a warped sense of humour and usually end up killing moods by making inappropriate jokes. The reason I do that is nerves and anxiety. I openly came out as Bisexual in college, because it was the only way of explaining how I felt, I had an effeminate gay male friend who for some reason I couldn't stop my attention going to. We'd known each other for years and I spoke to him about it one day while we were out having a drink and he summed it up perfectly for me...

"I enjoy what I enjoy because it feels good to me, so fuck everybody elses opinion."

Johnny changed my life In that one single simple moment. I've been in sexual encounters with all sorts of people over the years and there have been times I didn't enjoy it, but that's the thing... don't enjoy it, don't do it. The nerves will always be there I'm afraid, you may find the perfect guy out there to experiment with who you can't stop thinking about, you can spend years playing with one another, you become so close you may as well be one person... You're so comfortable around this person that you'd happily die in their arms. Then something happens and you meet someone new... guess what, the nerves are back.

superb .....I didn't come out till I was 40 , how silly do I feel . Listen to this couple x"

Don't want to leave it too late

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Me and a friend started playing with each other as teenagers but kept it quiet. We both used to enjoy and sometimes I was hoping we could just be on our own when others were around.

We both went off and got married then separated /divorced and we continued where we left a few years before.

He married again but I stayed single. I did have some female partners in the hope that my bi-sexual feelings would disappear, but they never do.

I since learned that this is me, I'm not very open about my sexuality as I consider it private but I'm happy with myself, enjoy myself and would advise others to go with it. If you don't, one day you will wish you done it a lot earlier.

Go with your feelings, you won't regret it.

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By *urvyconCouple
over a year ago

Chester

I started experimenting with guys in my early 20s but then stopped for many years because I was ashamed of it. Since I started again in my early 40s it was the best decision of my life. I stopped listening to all the negative stuff that people said about homosexuality and just went for it and now I adore every meet I have with a man. I say go for it and if it's not for you then you will find that out for yourself and step away from it x

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By *rs PickWoman
over a year ago

North Wales


"I find myself wondering whether I'm bi-curious/bisexual with what now turns me on but I'm nervous as the thought of giving it a try maybe to just a phase maybe I am anyone been in this position and able to let me know how they coped / got on"

What have you truly got to loose if you give it a go? Try everything 3 times is my moto!!

Seriously though if you never try you'll never know xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You all make great points thanks for the advice

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I was straight until I met a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone else get the feeling like i do, in that during day to day life i have no interest in men what so ever, but when horny i'm more than happy to suck on a cock, and in fact really enjoy doing it (i find myself trying to out do any bj's ive had from women in the past). But once i cum myself the feeling completley goes away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get the feeling like i do, in that during day to day life i have no interest in men what so ever, but when horny i'm more than happy to suck on a cock, and in fact really enjoy doing it (i find myself trying to out do any bj's ive had from women in the past). But once i cum myself the feeling completley goes away"

Exactly the same for me as well mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get the feeling like i do, in that during day to day life i have no interest in men what so ever, but when horny i'm more than happy to suck on a cock, and in fact really enjoy doing it (i find myself trying to out do any bj's ive had from women in the past). But once i cum myself the feeling completley goes away"

Exactly the same horny I think no boundaries soon as I've came no feelings whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same too, I'm hoping to have a meet with a bi couple who are open and relaxed for me to try and won't be disappointed if i find it isn't for me but can continue play

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

The post-cum come down is one of the reasons I've been hesitant to explore my bi side (Rob here). In a club, I think I'd be fine to have a play with a guy but I worry that once I've cum, I'm going to feel so awkward around him. So it would probably involve some bi play and then we'd go our separate ways before I've cum.

Finding someone who would respect this hang up would help, I think.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Does anyone else get the feeling like i do, in that during day to day life i have no interest in men what so ever, but when horny i'm more than happy to suck on a cock, and in fact really enjoy doing it (i find myself trying to out do any bj's ive had from women in the past). But once i cum myself the feeling completley goes away"
I know that feeling

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By *rith47Man
over a year ago

Erith

Once you find the right couple you are over half way there. Chat with them and explain your nerves. If they are human they will help you. I had a guy meet me whom had never been with a man. He tried it out by just letting me suck him off. We chatted for an hour and I tried to reassure him. When he came round he was physically shaking poor bloke. I took charge. Smiled. Got him naked laying on my bed and I did as arranged. 10 mins later he was stood up, holding my head and fucking my mouth moaning. What a change. Lovely big cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The post-cum come down is one of the reasons I've been hesitant to explore my bi side (Rob here). In a club, I think I'd be fine to have a play with a guy but I worry that once I've cum, I'm going to feel so awkward around him. So it would probably involve some bi play and then we'd go our separate ways before I've cum.

Finding someone who would respect this hang up would help, I think. "

I would have to agree with this would hate to feel awkward

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

Suck it and see

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I think we are all fundamentally bisexual. "

I always disagree with this opinion. I thin that sexuality is a spectrum. Which means a lot of people will be bi to some extent.

But there WILL also be people at the very ends of the spectrum i.e. gay/lesbian and straight.

And there is no shame in anywhere one might site. But to say all are bi is not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still trying to understand this myself

Have a bit more experience recently but trying to understand why I do it, what am I getting out of it. It rarely turns me on but i enjoy bringing pleasure to some one else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just give it a go, either with a couple or at a club when it’s bi night. People are very excepting of bisexuality now.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Just give it a go, either with a couple or at a club when it’s bi night. People are very excepting of bisexuality now."
I think people tend to be more accepting on here and in swingers clubs than in real life, but even on here you can get people who are aggressively anti-bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just give it a go, either with a couple or at a club when it’s bi night. People are very excepting of bisexuality now."

This sounds like the right thing to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just give it a go, either with a couple or at a club when it’s bi night. People are very excepting of bisexuality now. I think people tend to be more accepting on here and in swingers clubs than in real life, but even on here you can get people who are aggressively anti-bi. "

Very much so agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just give it a go, either with a couple or at a club when it’s bi night. People are very excepting of bisexuality now. I think people tend to be more accepting on here and in swingers clubs than in real life, but even on here you can get people who are aggressively anti-bi. "

Yes that’s true. I suppose that sticking to bi nights you decrease the chances of bumping into those people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try it, you might like it, if not, move on. No big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've a sexy looking cock ,hope your bi lol

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Look at these response mate ...it's normal , end of.....enjoy xx

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

Suspected I was bi from an early age but did nothing about it until I hit 50. Introduced gently by a guy who knew it was my first time sucking cock. Enjoyed it and have never looked back at all the years I wasted by not following my natural instincts.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I think we are all fundamentally bisexual. I suggest you arrange an MFM threesome and just go with the flow. You may never turn back. "
I dont think so!! Im 47 and never once have i wanted to kiss/ touch / lick a females tits / pussy Nope nothing nada!

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"I find myself wondering whether I'm bi-curious/bisexual with what now turns me on but I'm nervous as the thought of giving it a try maybe to just a phase maybe I am anyone been in this position and able to let me know how they coped / got on"

If you have been conditioned to believe the natural order of things is to be with a woman, then yes it can create a sense of trepidation.

If you had spent your life attracted to men, and began to wonder about being with a woman, would that also make you feel nervous?

No right or wrong answer.

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"The post-cum come down is one of the reasons I've been hesitant to explore my bi side (Rob here). In a club, I think I'd be fine to have a play with a guy but I worry that once I've cum, I'm going to feel so awkward around him. So it would probably involve some bi play and then we'd go our separate ways before I've cum.

Finding someone who would respect this hang up would help, I think. "

I think this is a really good point - I go through phases of feeling orally-bi. Sometimes it's hardly there, other times its overwhelming! A regular bi-buddy would be ideal in that you get over the 'awkward' element and meet up when both in the mood.

Whatever you choose, it would be good to hear from you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The post-cum come down is one of the reasons I've been hesitant to explore my bi side (Rob here). In a club, I think I'd be fine to have a play with a guy but I worry that once I've cum, I'm going to feel so awkward around him. So it would probably involve some bi play and then we'd go our separate ways before I've cum.

Finding someone who would respect this hang up would help, I think.

I think this is a really good point - I go through phases of feeling orally-bi. Sometimes it's hardly there, other times its overwhelming! A regular bi-buddy would be ideal in that you get over the 'awkward' element and meet up when both in the mood.

Whatever you choose, it would be good to hear from you!"

I get what your saying

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By *iyguyMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Totally understand. I was the same. Still am even though I've tried it out a couple of times. I just want more now tbh. Go for it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I know it's different as I'm a woman, but the OP really resonated with me. I've only just accepted that I'm bi enough and got over my nerves enough to play with women. It's been incredibly liberating.

A bi couple who are happy to help will be your best place to start in my experience (although, again, as a woman it's definitely different).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The post-cum come down is one of the reasons I've been hesitant to explore my bi side (Rob here). In a club, I think I'd be fine to have a play with a guy but I worry that once I've cum, I'm going to feel so awkward around him. So it would probably involve some bi play and then we'd go our separate ways before I've cum.

Finding someone who would respect this hang up would help, I think. "

I’ve met a few guys now and bi couples and still get this feeling

When I’m in the moment I’m loving it and enjoy bi play so much, however when I’ve cum I don’t feel good about myself and very awkward.

I’ve met a few guys who were great, once I had cum they carried on and preceded to get me aroused quite quickly and the feelings passed to where I’ve spent a whole night with a few guys and couples.

I just wish I didn’t have some of the post cum feelings as you have mentioned.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"I find myself wondering whether I'm bi-curious/bisexual with what now turns me on but I'm nervous as the thought of giving it a try maybe to just a phase maybe I am anyone been in this position and able to let me know how they coped / got on

Only you can decide if you want to keep it as a fantasy or actually try it for real.

Just don’t be ashamed of what turns you on. X"
Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always fancied being cum on by a heavy spurter as I lay there naked

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Take a Trans to dinner .... ...it's a start ... erm... unsubtle hint ...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come over to our house, we will both take it in turns to fuck you or you can fuck us both, whichever you like and then you can decide which you liked best. Simples.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Come over to our house, we will both take it in turns to fuck you or you can fuck us both, whichever you like and then you can decide which you liked best. Simples."
Now there's an offer....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife has been asking me to play with her lover I am not bi but am curious to see if I could just for her

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Wow love the size of your cock, now if you see one and feel the same..definitely Bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow love the size of your cock, now if you see one and feel the same..definitely Bi

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Haha well thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting a bi curious male was the worst experience of my life. Fascinating fact for you there.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall


"Meeting a bi curious male was the worst experience of my life. Fascinating fact for you there."

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I feel your pain

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll comment so that Adam sees the thread and comments. He has been in exactly the same boat doll.

My advise would definitely be to try it with a couple if you can as it should flow a little easier.

Eve. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll comment so that Adam sees the thread and comments. He has been in exactly the same boat doll.

My advise would definitely be to try it with a couple if you can as it should flow a little easier.

Eve. x"

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a MFM and just go with the flow - the worst thing you can do is say “sorry this is not for me”.

Life is all about experiences, some we like and done we don’t - the o my way you will know is to try it. See if you can find a nice friendly bi couple and explain the situation - give it a go.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Been reading this whole thread and everyone is giving good sound advice so probably I don't have a huge amount to add, however, repressing any aspect of yourself is unwise so I definitely agree with people who are encouraging you to explore. Probably the biggest thing is picking a potential play partner who's going to respect your boundaries and back off if you change your mind.

I think your attitude is great and I hope if you have a first bi experience that it's amazing.

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By *7345Man
over a year ago

wakefield

You sound like a very sensible, level headed guy.

I think you have carefully considered this and are beating yourself up internally.

Just take a breath, relax and do whatever you feel comfortable with.

Don’t worry what anyone else thinks.

Most importantly- have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You sound like a very sensible, level headed guy.

I think you have carefully considered this and are beating yourself up internally.

Just take a breath, relax and do whatever you feel comfortable with.

Don’t worry what anyone else thinks.

Thank you for the advice

Most importantly- have fun! "

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By *7345Man
over a year ago

wakefield

You’re welcome. Good luck! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’re welcome. Good luck! Xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of Luck there m8..I spent too much of life worrying about what ifs and what nots and it many years of denying and soul searching to get to where I am today with a loving wife who approves and is fully aware of my various life paths..go for it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best of Luck there m8..I spent too much of life worrying about what ifs and what nots and it many years of denying and soul searching to get to where I am today with a loving wife who approves and is fully aware of my various life paths..go for it!"

Sounds like a good arrangement

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By *ouble featureCouple
over a year ago

Crowthorne

Try it, if you like it try it again if not don't.

Nothing wrong with experiments!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let us know how you get on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try it, if you like it try it again if not don't.

Nothing wrong with experiments!"

Sounds the logical thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What u looking to try?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What u looking to try?"

Do t reay know if am honest

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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

I hear you bro. I'm the same. Go with the flow. I find having a cheeky drink makes it easier. Not tried anything but been close in a 3some etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye maybe just get used to be naked with a guy in mmf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Couple situation sounds the best way to go about things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Some very good posts here OP and a lot that resonate with me and my experience - particularly the ones about keeping feelings suppressed.

I'd suggest getting along to a bi night at a club - there's no pressure to play whatsoever but (so long as you remain a respectable distance away) there will be the opportunity to watch others indulging in bi play, which may help give you an idea of how you feel in that situation, and whether it's for you - I've found bi nights to be more friendly and relaxed than normal club nights and of course if you feel comfortable enough to it will give you the opportunity to talk to others openly about how you feel and may be even indulge in some activity if it feels right to do so.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I realised at an early age that I liked both sexes, not so easy growing up in a mining village where men were men, but I used to sneak of to the nearest town and there were plenty of glory holes back then, so it was never hard (pun intended) to find a cock to experiment with, many years down the line I still like both sexes, not into kissing men, never have been, but give me a nice cock to play with and im a happy bunny. try it you never know, and seriously whats the worse that could happen, better to regret what you did than what you didnt do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find myself wondering whether I'm bi-curious/bisexual with what now turns me on but I'm nervous as the thought of giving it a try maybe to just a phase maybe I am anyone been in this position and able to let me know how they coped / got on"

I tried it and I am bisexual, nothing to fear at all. Twice the fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree.

Spent years wondering and finally contacted a guy on fab on my old profile.

I recognised after that experience I was bisexual and no longer bi curious.

Just make sure you choose a guy who is genuinely attracted to men. Far too many men who are not and will meet you because they are just desperate for sex and this is not the experience you want.

I don 't tell family and friends I am bi and do not want a relationship with a man but I do enjoy my sexuality.

Hope that helps.

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

Another reason for starting with any mmf - ask the couple to start fucking in an appropriate position and then you get your fingers and or tongue in there. You start off stroking or licking her and then can get involved with him as much as you want to in the moment. My favourite is sucking a freshly pussy-flavoured cock

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"Another reason for starting with any mmf - ask the couple to start fucking in an appropriate position and then you get your fingers and or tongue in there. You start off stroking or licking her and then can get involved with him as much as you want to in the moment. My favourite is sucking a freshly pussy-flavoured cock "

Stop !!!...I've just nearly exploded

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