FabSwingers.com forum: Lil help guys

By *orldSeller0 OP Man
over a year ago

Craigavon

I cant help but feel that there's somethings about my profile that's really putting women off.. I know the big one is no verified meets but i have a few other suspicions.. Any thoughts on my profile from anyone would be appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cant help but feel that there's somethings about my profile that's really putting women off.. I know the big one is no verified meets but i have a few other suspicions.. Any thoughts on my profile from anyone would be appreciated."

Whenever someone goes to the trouble of saying 'not sure what else to say' it screams I don't have a clue! Makes you look very immature on an adult site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where to start?... What's up, don't know what to say, get to know me.

Sorry I sound harsh but I read your first line and nearly didn't bother reading on. But you want advice.

Have a look at some confident, dom like or submissive if that's what you're into, type profiles and use theres as a base to build your own. Don't limit yourself to a type if this dosent bother you...

Hello ladies/couples, thanks for taking the time to read my profile.... Looking to meet (enter type or not) ladies/couples for like minded kinky/passionate sex.

Able to accom, travel or provide a hotel.

Keep it short and direct.

Hint, take pics from above rather than below except when taking penis pix. Camera lens.. Height makes slight, low makes big. Xx

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

There are a couple of things I spotted that won't be doing you any favours.

Your age - many people prefer older than you. Nothing you can do about this so just concentrate your efforts on people who will meet men your age.

"What's up" - sounds quite juvenile and will reinforce people's doubts about your age and level of maturity.

You will "consider" hotel meets for the right girl if she can't accommodate - you will HAVE to meet either at a hotel or club if neither of you can accom (most people split the cost of this).

What kind of person are you looking to meet? What attracts you? If you don't specify many people assume you are the "any hole is a goal" type and that you just want to get your dick inside any woman that shows the slightest interest. State your preferences. Yes, it will put off those who don't match but you wouldn't be meeting them anyway. Be careful how you word it though as you - for example saying "I'm mostly attracted to slim ladies" is a much nicer phrase than saying "no fatties".

Good luck OP

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I have to agree with the above. Your profile text seems immature, the use of winky faces after each sentence doesn’t help.

You should explain more about what you’re into and what you’re looking for.

Not being able to accommodate will put some people off, you need to be prepared to pay towards hotels (some women will expect you to pay all the costs) so saying you will consider a hotel for the right girl isn’t doing you any favours.

Your photos aren’t very flattering, take a hundred from different angles and pic a few of the best to share.

To be honest, at your age you’ll probably have more luck finding casual sex at your local nightclub and it’ll probably only cost you a couple of skittle bombs.

Best of luck!

Lou x

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By *orldSeller0 OP Man
over a year ago

Craigavon

Sorry im only getting round to this now but thank you very much to everyone who took the time and effort to reply and give their two cents.

Im not gonna argue or dispute anything (even though i could lol) because thats not why i wanted to post this, but i will try my best to implement your ideas and suggestions.

Thanks again

J x

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