FabSwingers.com forum: First meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey all hope all is well.

If been on here for a few months now and had 1 cancellation and 1 bail and it seems no one is will to arrange and stick to a meet and now I'm not getting very many responses. Was wondering if I'm doing anything wrong or if anybody has any tips on my profile or anything I can do to help me arrange a meet.

Many thanks

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The content of your profile text is mostly good - gives people a flavour of you and what you are looking for, as well as can offer. It would however benefit from a spell/grammar check - know that's not everyone's strong point but some will take that as a reason to pass you by. For example you have Iv instead of I've several times - defiantly instead of definitely.

Your reference to being open to bareback will also go against you with a large chunk of the site even if you say it would be "only with the right person"

Your biggest problem though is the lack of pics - especially no avatar pic - people will filter out no pics when doing searches and many will want to be able to check your pics when you message them - you state you have some to upload but haven't done so in 8 weeks of being here, it takes 5 mins to do and could pay dividends

Sorry to hear about the no shows and cancellations - it happens but by taking your time to get to know people you can minimise the risk of that being the case.