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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have just changed my profile as I was getting no luck with the old one any advice if it is ok or still needs more to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Screams married man to us. Would pop some body shots, or clothed shots with the head cropped off onto your profile. Maybe go on cam or to a club and grab yourself a veri.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks for the advice

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By *ussexsocialMan
over a year ago

Billingshurst

Too easy to pass on by, no profile pic ( Almost any pic is better than a silhouette) short text with nothing really being said, think of your profile as a shop window, you need to sell yourself, what you offer, what you enjoy, not just the usual “genuine” references ( what does that even mean?) there are plenty of post on the forums with some good advice just go hunting and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't even get to your text as you have no public pics but the bit about a free night out would definitely put me off, once and for all

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"I wouldn't even get to your text as you have no public pics but the bit about a free night out would definitely put me off, once and for all "

Umm could have been chucking in a Berni inn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't even get to your text as you have no public pics but the bit about a free night out would definitely put me off, once and for all "
ok thanks for the advice

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No pictures is a pass. Text is generic. Free drinks reads a bit desperate and will attract the wrong sort if anyone.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I have just changed my profile as I was getting no luck with the old one any advice if it is ok or still needs more to it "

I hate to think what it was like before its nor really a comprehensive profile if I am honest. A lot of profiles are 3-4 times longer with a dozen photos on it. Its your choice after all what you do with it but putting more effort and maximizing interest is what a lot of the more successful men do.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If that's the "improved" version OP I dread to think what the previous one was like

There's nothing there for anyone to go on, no personality, nothing really about you, what you're looking for, or think you can offer - add to that no pics and I honestly don't rate your chances of a better experience very highly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve updated a new profile hopefully I’m along the right track now any comments would be grateful

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I’ve updated a new profile hopefully I’m along the right track now any comments would be grateful "

I don't see you've changed much to be honest and it would benefit from some punctuation.

Take a look around at profiles of other well verified single guys for the kind of thing that works

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

You're unverified after more than a year, have no public pics and can't accommodate. That trifecta would instantly put me off.

The text doesn't really tell the reader much and would benefit from some punctuation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you going to ask the same question every two weeks until others have created a decent profile for you?

You've been on the site for more than a year so no excuse for you not putting in any effort yourself.

Shape up or ship out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just changed my profile as I was getting no luck with the old one any advice if it is ok or still needs more to it "
No pics no profile can't imagine what was there before but you need pics and a decent profile write up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just changed my profile as I was getting no luck with the old one any advice if it is ok or still needs more to it "
yeah you need verifications been on over a year still not one??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you going to ask the same question every two weeks until others have created a decent profile for you?

You've been on the site for more than a year so no excuse for you not putting in any effort yourself.

Shape up or ship out!"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos - don’t have to be face but something (Not cock or ring-piece pics).

Punctuation and paragraphs - I know it sounds picky but people judge you on your profile so make it count. Your profile is your opportunity to market yourself amount thousands of other profiles - what makes you different and memorable?

It is not just about your profile either. If you want your genitals in someone else’s mouth then interact with people; post on forums, up date your status with something positive/funny/unusual, do something that makes the women on her notice you .

Okay that is enough of my inane ramblings - good luck and remember you are marketing yourself. A Ford and a Ferrari both get you from A to B but what makes you want to buy one and not the other.

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