FabSwingers.com forum: No veris

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just after some advise not slagging off...

Wanting to meet up with couples spoken to a few but not interested as don’t have any verifications... I’ve offered to call, cam the works to prove genuine but it seems unless I’ve met someone in the flesh then it’s a no... don’t have time to really go to clubs as appreciate that’s a good way to prove yourself as real...

The fact I don’t yet have a photo doesn’t seem to matter either it seems literally the veris are the key...

Any ideas or advise would be great

TIA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just after some advise not slagging off...

The fact I don’t yet have a photo doesn’t seem to matter either it seems literally the veris are the key...

Any ideas or advise would be great

TIA"

No veris and no photos is a tough one. At least get photos to start and get along to a social if you can’t make a club. If you don’t you’re more than likely wasting your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but people will look at your profile and it will probably be a 'no thanks ' straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just after some advise not slagging off...

The fact I don’t yet have a photo doesn’t seem to matter either it seems literally the veris are the key...

Any ideas or advise would be great

TIA"
meet people who don't have that requirement or put pics up and get a veri, if you want to meet only way

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Can get a cam veri in the chatroom to prove you real or get to a social.

Clubs a good place also but they not for evertone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Appreciate all your comments. Realise I perhaps need to “beef” up my profile, yes add a picture and maybe the socials for a veri are the way forward. I fully appreciate why it’s that way and am I no way playing the poor done by single male card as I know you as couples get bombarded and the choice is yours..

Again, thanks for comments

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Get down a club meet a few people have a laugh, and definitely change the profile it’s shite, empty boring can’t be bothered probably fake is what it’s telling anyone having a nosey

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Get down a club meet a few people have a laugh, and definitely change the profile it’s shite, empty boring can’t be bothered probably fake is what it’s telling anyone having a nosey

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

"Just after some advise not slagging off...

The fact I don’t yet have a photo doesn’t seem to matter either it seems literally the veris are the key...

Any ideas or advise would be great

TIA"

In reality its not just the verifications its everything that counts. You only have one first impression to make with people so maximise what you have. There are lots of single guys many unverified so make sure you are more appealing them them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get down a club meet a few people have a laugh, and definitely change the profile it’s shite, empty boring can’t be bothered probably fake is what it’s telling anyone having a nosey

Question would be what do you see in a profile that makes you think wow.?

I tried to keep it brief hoping to answer more in conversations. Your right I need to update thinks prob photo too ??

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Get down a club meet a few people have a laugh, and definitely change the profile it’s shite, empty boring can’t be bothered probably fake is what it’s telling anyone having a nosey

Question would be what do you see in a profile that makes you think wow.?

I tried to keep it brief hoping to answer more in conversations. Your right I need to update thinks prob photo too ??"

Profile text and a couple of non cock pics are always a good start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get down a club meet a few people have a laugh, and definitely change the profile it’s shite, empty boring can’t be bothered probably fake is what it’s telling anyone having a nosey

Question would be what do you see in a profile that makes you think wow.?

I tried to keep it brief hoping to answer more in conversations. Your right I need to update thinks prob photo too ??"

Why would anyone choose to start a conversation with a two-line, pictureless profile with no veris when there are so many others way more interesting

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Definitely need some photos, how is anybody to cam verify you without any proof of what you look like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just after some advise not slagging off...

The fact I don’t yet have a photo doesn’t seem to matter either it seems literally the veris are the key...

Any ideas or advise would be great

TIA"

We wouldn't even get as far as checking your veris, most are bollocks anyway, but your lazy profile is very off putting.

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By *ightyandLeftyCouple
over a year ago

Funtown

We aren't interested in verifications, we'd sooner you were under 5'10" single (or have permission) and a decent picture so we can gauge what you look like before we contact you.

If you do have verifications we will read them bit it's not a deal breaker.

We're not interested in men who have lots of them as we are not into guys who have...no way of putting this delicately...been on a lot of play meets or men who are really into the scene as we aren't that into the scene anyway.

Righty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband and I don't mind if there's no meet or cam verifications. However to us photo veri is at the very least essential. The way we see it is taking a few pictures, uploading and doing the photo veri can be done in less than 10 minutes and if a person can't be bothered to do that then we can't expect they'll put any effort into a chat or meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I am not at all interested in verifications. I would neither write one nor accept one. I don't feel I need anyone to vouch for me and I would not want to be on someone's list of conquests....but then again I am not looking to met via the site only in person at a club where we both happen to be at the same time and in the flesh.

Frankly just because some person, who you have never met, says some other person, who you also have never met, is some great shag or a really really nice person does not mean you will think they are a great shag or a really really nice person.....I would never trust the word of someone else unless they were an actual friend and whose opinion carried some weight with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris are icing on a profile’s cake.

Make the cake first before trying to get it iced.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all some good replies and a lot of food for thought.

much appreciated and happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just after some advise not slagging off...

The fact I don’t yet have a photo doesn’t seem to matter either it seems literally the veris are the key...

Any ideas or advise would be great

TIA"

Why not put a photo up? Even if you're going to cam with some one i think there would have to be a mutual attraction there. We personally like to chat with people first before we think about cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile lacks effort and therefore your responses from other couples will have the same lack of effort.

I understand that you may feel confused on where to start but look at other profiles for inspiration.

You don’t have the time to go to clubs to get verified in person so at least get verified with a photograph?

I feel your mindset is perhaps also wrong? Paying membership fees and having a profile is not going to get you meets, just like going to a club, paying entrance fees and making no effort will.

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By *umptuous DuoCouple
over a year ago

Teesside

We have a rule that if there’s no veri’s and they are not photo verified then we will not converse with people, especially if the profile is older than a month.

It’s very simple to get photo verified and if people are serious about trying to meet others then they should really put the effort into their profile.

If we’re interested in a new local profile we ask for a phone chat and a social meet so we can verify that they are genuine, it’s funny how people go quiet when this is put to them, it’s a way of ing out the fakes or wannabes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just after some advise not slagging off...

The fact I don’t yet have a photo doesn’t seem to matter either it seems literally the veris are the key...

Any ideas or advise would be great

TIA"

Sorry OP but possibly 70% of fabbers are males and you need to jump through hoops just to get noticed never mind meeting someone. As has been said clubs, cam or socials are the way forward. Male

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