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By *oco_bear OP   Man
over a year ago

Harborne

been on here a little while

had a few meets

But for some reason

I get ALOT Of messages from males

flattered but I'm straight...

anyone have any suggestions for my bio or something to get more messages from females or come across that I'm NOT gay lol

much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your message filters so men can’t message you.

Some men will chance anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been on here a little while

had a few meets

But for some reason

I get ALOT Of messages from males

flattered but I'm straight...

anyone have any suggestions for my bio or something to get more messages from females or come across that I'm NOT gay lol

much appreciated "

You know you can block men from messaging you right?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Block men. Simple solution.

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By *oco_bear OP   Man
over a year ago

Harborne

yeah but I do get messages from males asking for cuckolds ect.. im not bothered about the messages wondering of any feedback or insight into my bio or pics to state that I'm straight lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Don't protest that you're straight on your profile, it risks coming across homophobic, which can be a turn off. Either deal with the chancers or block single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah but I do get messages from males asking for cuckolds ect.. im not bothered about the messages wondering of any feedback or insight into my bio or pics to state that I'm straight lol "

Maybe also add something in the profile text stating you’re not interested in men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't protest that you're straight on your profile, it risks coming across homophobic, which can be a turn off. Either deal with the chancers or block single guys. "

Homophobic?? Really. Wow

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"yeah but I do get messages from males asking for cuckolds ect.. im not bothered about the messages wondering of any feedback or insight into my bio or pics to state that I'm straight lol "

Trouble is, so many men on here say they are straight and then message men for sex so those gay and no guys probably think you’re ‘fab straight’ and are chancing it.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Nice profile tbf, get some veris

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By *oco_bear OP   Man
over a year ago

Harborne

im not homophobic at all have gay friends whom I love to peices...

any suggestions on bio description would be much appreciated x

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By *oco_bear OP   Man
over a year ago

Harborne


"yeah but I do get messages from males asking for cuckolds ect.. im not bothered about the messages wondering of any feedback or insight into my bio or pics to state that I'm straight lol

Trouble is, so many men on here say they are straight and then message men for sex so those gay and no guys probably think you’re ‘fab straight’ and are chancing it. "

can I get more clarification on 'Fab straight'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not homophobic at all have gay friends whom I love to peices...

any suggestions on bio description would be much appreciated x "

You won’t come across as homophobic if you politely put it in your profile text. That’s ridiculous. I don’t have that I’m looking for couples on mine but I got lots of messages from couples. Since I actually stated it in my profile text that I’m not looking for couples I haven’t had any messages from them so it worked for me.

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By *oco_bear OP   Man
over a year ago

Harborne


"im not homophobic at all have gay friends whom I love to peices...

any suggestions on bio description would be much appreciated x

You won’t come across as homophobic if you politely put it in your profile text. That’s ridiculous. I don’t have that I’m looking for couples on mine but I got lots of messages from couples. Since I actually stated it in my profile text that I’m not looking for couples I haven’t had any messages from them so it worked for me. "

thank you I'll add something to the profile

appreciate the advice

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"im not homophobic at all have gay friends whom I love to peices...

any suggestions on bio description would be much appreciated x

You won’t come across as homophobic if you politely put it in your profile text. That’s ridiculous. I don’t have that I’m looking for couples on mine but I got lots of messages from couples. Since I actually stated it in my profile text that I’m not looking for couples I haven’t had any messages from them so it worked for me. "

Some people protest pretty vehemently that they're straight to the point where it sounds like gay guys offend them. Which I see and I switch off. (I'm not saying you're homophobic, OP)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I suspect most guys who message male straight profiles don't read profiles, to be honest. They're in the same group as those who send me creepy explicit wank chat and umpteen pictures of their penis despite me saying I don't want them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"yeah but I do get messages from males asking for cuckolds ect.. im not bothered about the messages wondering of any feedback or insight into my bio or pics to state that I'm straight lol

Trouble is, so many men on here say they are straight and then message men for sex so those gay and no guys probably think you’re ‘fab straight’ and are chancing it.

can I get more clarification on 'Fab straight'"
only on fab do guys label themselves ‘straight’ but have sex with men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair you’re really hot. I can see why they chance it

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By *oco_bear OP   Man
over a year ago

Harborne

changed bio...

how's that look now guys

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By *oco_bear OP   Man
over a year ago

Harborne


"To be fair you’re really hot. I can see why they chance it "

DITTO!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"changed bio...

how's that look now guys "

Basic but fine. Those who are chancing, will probably still chance it though I’m afraid. I doubt the majority of them read profiles

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By *oco_bear OP   Man
over a year ago

Harborne


"To be fair you’re really hot. I can see why they chance it "

NOW YOU ARE HOT!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair you’re really hot. I can see why they chance it

NOW YOU ARE HOT!!! lol "

Thanks

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