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"Many women will be put off by your age im afraid especially as you say you’re looking for older women and most will have kids your age. I’m 38 and old enough to be your mum Mrs " You're young, I'm 48. | |||
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"It may not be but when you been sexual inactive for over a year that’s when it gets a little disheartening " I suspect you may want to reconsider your expectations on here | |||
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"Iv message probably over 100 accounts in the last month all different accounts and not a single person to meet. " Can I guess you are mailing anyone and everyone? That's not always the best approach | |||
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"Thank you for help I try to be polite and nice to everyone but clearly that’s not enough being polite anymore " I'm afraid not. Women can get hundreds of messages a day. Polite/ nice might put you in the top 20-50%, but you've got to be doing much, much better than that to get anywhere. I really don't think Fab is the right forum for you. | |||
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"We have met guys much younger, however after looking at your profile and the fact you cannot accommodate or travel will limit you greatly" Much younger?? He’s only 18  | |||
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"We have met guys much younger, however after looking at your profile and the fact you cannot accommodate or travel will limit you greatly Much younger?? He’s only 18 "Much younger than us lol | |||
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"Yeah iv thought about it but just not my thing I enjoy 1on1 intimacy " You muight want to reconsider a user name that suggests something completely diifferent | |||
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"You might want use +quote when you reply so people know who youare replying too "Don’t really want to spend £5 for site support to do that | |||
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"Believe it or not yes I did read all profiles and tailor the message to them I didn’t cannon fire messages like no tomorrow like people have presumed. Social not my thing I’m not a very social person I’m an introvert " Nevertheless - here you are and no one knew that until you said so. Use the opportunity of fab to work on that if that’s what you want to do. Go to a social anyway. It’s usually just a pub and the hosts welcome you and introduce you to people. Take the plunge for clunge as they say in Yelverton. Join in the forum more. Get yourself known. | |||
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"Iv message probably over 100 accounts in the last month all different accounts and not a single person to meet. I know I could expand my horizon try new things to have more interest but right now I’m not looking to try new things I’m just looking for find some 1on1 meets to enjoy and many a fb/regular. It’s just such a shame as I havnt done anything sexual since last October and reason for that as I just havnt had any luck seems like I don’t have any here. " It happens its not a guaranteed fuck site far from it and people like you may be just the same and not looking to expand their horizons too. | |||
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"Ur 18!!! Get urself to a nightclub to meet females be a normal teenager! " He is another young guy looking for a sexual teacher. | |||
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"It may not be but when you been sexual inactive for over a year that’s when it gets a little disheartening " What's does your sexual inactivity have to do with anything?? | |||
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"Ur 18!!! Get urself to a nightclub to meet females be a normal teenager! He is another young guy looking for a sexual teacher. " Aah, bless! | |||
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"It may not be but when you been sexual inactive for over a year that’s when it gets a little disheartening What's does your sexual inactivity have to do with anything??" It means he's so horny and can't see straight! Have a something about Mary pre event safety wank to relax and go say "hi, you look great" to every woman you see from now on. Sure 9/10 of them will slap you. But you only need 1 to say yes  | |||
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"OP. We mean this in a a fairly nice way but being a young single male introvert swinger who only wants 1 on 1 is going to make it ultra tough on you. To the point I would suggest this isn't actually the site for you. If you manage to get a meet you need to know how to sell yourself. When I was 18 I didn't do to much until I had a steady girlfriend. Then I didn't have regular great sex until I was in my mid twenties with who is now my wife. My advice. Don't be tight. Pay the money for a proper dating website and meet a girl who you can have a proper relationship with and have great sex with her. " I understand just moneys tight rn but thank you | |||
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"Having read your profile and this thread they read like 2 different people. Your profile basically reads "any woman, any size, any age come pick me up and take me dogging, then drop me home. Thanks. Ps I'm polite" but what you've written in this thread is almost the exact opposite. I take dogging to mean "an area where strangers go to meet up with whoever turns up and have spontaneous sex". A user name like "young alfresco lover" may be more suitable to what you hope to achieve. We get a few messages as a couple and we chat and potentially meet up with guys/couples that 1 understand our profile but 2 and most importantly we have banter with. As a couple we've been on for months and met 1 guy at a hotel and 2 couples at clubs. Not being funny but are you actually 18? I tried to make contact by letter through porn mag contact pages when I was 16
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"You're 18 years old and within walking distance of Kingston and Pryzm nightclub which is wall to wall with gorgeous young ladies You're lazy if you haven't been laid in a year- even I could pull in Kingston. " It has nothing to do with laziness. I genuinely do not like clubs it’s not my thing due to a lot of well let’s say issues a club really not a good environment. Cool go pull in Kingston then | |||
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"Ur 18!!! Get urself to a nightclub to meet females be a normal teenager! " Once again night clubs are not my fucking thing normal is bullshit and something I’m definitely not | |||
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"Ur 18!!! Get urself to a nightclub to meet females be a normal teenager! He is another young guy looking for a sexual teacher. " Is everyone so blunt and rude here like there’s more to it than that | |||
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"It may not be but when you been sexual inactive for over a year that’s when it gets a little disheartening What's does your sexual inactivity have to do with anything??" Has to do with I came on here to meet people for sexual activity | |||
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"It may not be but when you been sexual inactive for over a year that’s when it gets a little disheartening What's does your sexual inactivity have to do with anything?? Has to do with I came on here to meet people for sexual activity " You are one of many thousands of men on fab. People have spent time giving you good advice on this thread, perhaps use it and lose the entitled attitude. Lots of threads with more help for new members as well. Good luck. | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful " I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. | |||
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"It may not be but when you been sexual inactive for over a year that’s when it gets a little disheartening What's does your sexual inactivity have to do with anything?? Has to do with I came on here to meet people for sexual activity You are one of many thousands of men on fab. People have spent time giving you good advice on this thread, perhaps use it and lose the entitled attitude. Lots of threads with more help for new members as well. Good luck. " If u actually read the attitude is only there when people comment needlessly or have nothing nice to say and thank you and I am taking the advice but also getting a lot of shit rn | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. " It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown " I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. | |||
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"OP. We mean this in a a fairly nice way but being a young single male introvert swinger who only wants 1 on 1 is going to make it ultra tough on you. To the point I would suggest this isn't actually the site for you. If you manage to get a meet you need to know how to sell yourself. When I was 18 I didn't do to much until I had a steady girlfriend. Then I didn't have regular great sex until I was in my mid twenties with who is now my wife. My advice. Don't be tight. Pay the money for a proper dating website and meet a girl who you can have a proper relationship with and have great sex with her. I understand just moneys tight rn but thank you " So monies so tight you can’t pay to be a site supporter, f you can’t accommodate & the other party can’t either, who’s going to fork out for the hotel, or are you just going to go dogging all year round? This isn’t insrtashag & you’re up against some very STIFF competition. Dont think you’re selling yourself very well on here or on your profile & culminated with your age & the fact you can’t accommodate means you will struggle. The more effort you put in the more chance you’ll have, & if sending 100’s of messages isn’t working then look at what else you could be doing. Tbh like others have said don’t think Fab is the right place for you. | |||
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"Many women will be put off by your age im afraid especially as you say you’re looking for older women and most will have kids your age. I’m 38 and old enough to be your mum Mrs " In that case then I’m old enough to be his granny......thanks lol | |||
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"Dick is everywhere. Many shapes and variety's. As you're looking for older women I can say we know what we like and if someone doesn't rock our boxes we will find someone who will. A lot of women also will be the ones to pick/message who interests them rather than the guy messaging them. Make your profile better. Don't make it all about the dick cause right now it seems like you're just throwing toys out of the pram cause ya dicks not wet. It won't fall off just because it's not being used. Just chill and enjoy the plethora of amazing photos on the photos page. Fab some photos. Maybe a fab gets the attention of the photo owner. Don't rush things." But how like advice on improving my profile would be nice I’m not throwing my toys out the pram but I just thought I would been strange that a month without a meet is bad and I’m doing something but I’m seeing it’s quite common | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. " Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) | |||
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"OP. We mean this in a a fairly nice way but being a young single male introvert swinger who only wants 1 on 1 is going to make it ultra tough on you. To the point I would suggest this isn't actually the site for you. If you manage to get a meet you need to know how to sell yourself. When I was 18 I didn't do to much until I had a steady girlfriend. Then I didn't have regular great sex until I was in my mid twenties with who is now my wife. My advice. Don't be tight. Pay the money for a proper dating website and meet a girl who you can have a proper relationship with and have great sex with her. I understand just moneys tight rn but thank you So monies so tight you can’t pay to be a site supporter, f you can’t accommodate & the other party can’t either, who’s going to fork out for the hotel, or are you just going to go dogging all year round? This isn’t insrtashag & you’re up against some very STIFF competition. Dont think you’re selling yourself very well on here or on your profile & culminated with your age & the fact you can’t accommodate means you will struggle. The more effort you put in the more chance you’ll have, & if sending 100’s of messages isn’t working then look at what else you could be doing. Tbh like others have said don’t think Fab is the right place for you. " You know it’s not my fault I can’t accommodate I live with family I pay my family rent I’m paying for my car part daily. Yeah I’m hearing fabs isn’t the right place but no ones given alternatives it’s all well and good saying it’s not right but whats an alternative I don’t know if any | |||
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"Dick is everywhere. Many shapes and variety's. As you're looking for older women I can say we know what we like and if someone doesn't rock our boxes we will find someone who will. A lot of women also will be the ones to pick/message who interests them rather than the guy messaging them. Make your profile better. Don't make it all about the dick cause right now it seems like you're just throwing toys out of the pram cause ya dicks not wet. It won't fall off just because it's not being used. Just chill and enjoy the plethora of amazing photos on the photos page. Fab some photos. Maybe a fab gets the attention of the photo owner. Don't rush things. But how like advice on improving my profile would be nice I’m not throwing my toys out the pram but I just thought I would been strange that a month without a meet is bad and I’m doing something but I’m seeing it’s quite common" I've been on here for over 4 years. Grated I took a lot of time off but since I've been back I've met no one. And that's fine by me. I'm still enjoying the site and what it offers and I've had some very nice conversations. Your profile doesn't offer anything about you. It doesn't tell me who you are. Have a look at other people's profiles. The people who tend to put nothing get nothing. If there's sod all on a profile I'll usually just not botheressaging or winking at the person. Most people want some sort of connection or mutual interests. Your profile is very bland and boring. Jazz it up. People have given advice so take it and run. Make a new profile. Get a better name and jazz it up. | |||
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"TMI, but I was a virgin when I was 18. Spoiler: I didn't die. " I don’t understand how not having sex is related to death ? | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) " A social is a non sex meet in a neutral location, usually. It doesn't have to be dinner, you don't have to buy for the other person. Yes, you might need to pony up the £3 or so for a coffee. So you're at an inherent disadvantage because of your age, you don't have social skills, and you can't travel or accommodate (I travel locally only), and a coffee is too much for you? ... I have absolutely no idea how you expect this to work. Genuinely. I'm baffled. | |||
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"Dick is everywhere. Many shapes and variety's. As you're looking for older women I can say we know what we like and if someone doesn't rock our boxes we will find someone who will. A lot of women also will be the ones to pick/message who interests them rather than the guy messaging them. Make your profile better. Don't make it all about the dick cause right now it seems like you're just throwing toys out of the pram cause ya dicks not wet. It won't fall off just because it's not being used. Just chill and enjoy the plethora of amazing photos on the photos page. Fab some photos. Maybe a fab gets the attention of the photo owner. Don't rush things. But how like advice on improving my profile would be nice I’m not throwing my toys out the pram but I just thought I would been strange that a month without a meet is bad and I’m doing something but I’m seeing it’s quite common I've been on here for over 4 years. Grated I took a lot of time off but since I've been back I've met no one. And that's fine by me. I'm still enjoying the site and what it offers and I've had some very nice conversations. Your profile doesn't offer anything about you. It doesn't tell me who you are. Have a look at other people's profiles. The people who tend to put nothing get nothing. If there's sod all on a profile I'll usually just not botheressaging or winking at the person. Most people want some sort of connection or mutual interests. Your profile is very bland and boring. Jazz it up. People have given advice so take it and run. Make a new profile. Get a better name and jazz it up. " It had info and someone told me it was shit and it was all wrong so I thought they would give me some advise so I deleted it and then they stopped messaging | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) A social is a non sex meet in a neutral location, usually. It doesn't have to be dinner, you don't have to buy for the other person. Yes, you might need to pony up the £3 or so for a coffee. So you're at an inherent disadvantage because of your age, you don't have social skills, and you can't travel or accommodate (I travel locally only), and a coffee is too much for you? ... I have absolutely no idea how you expect this to work. Genuinely. I'm baffled. " It is very much a pick me up, fuck me, then drop me back home situation | |||
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"TMI, but I was a virgin when I was 18. Spoiler: I didn't die. I don’t understand how not having sex is related to death ? " It's called hyperbole (or, I was being sarcastic). I don't think this should be a priority for you. | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) " Personally speaking I would never meet anyone for sex without a social meet in a public place first. I certainly wouldn't be picking up a complete stranger in my car for outdoor sex. It's everything you advise people not to do. Not at all safe for either person. Would you be happy for a female friend or family member to take those risks, OP? | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) A social is a non sex meet in a neutral location, usually. It doesn't have to be dinner, you don't have to buy for the other person. Yes, you might need to pony up the £3 or so for a coffee. So you're at an inherent disadvantage because of your age, you don't have social skills, and you can't travel or accommodate (I travel locally only), and a coffee is too much for you? ... I have absolutely no idea how you expect this to work. Genuinely. I'm baffled. It is very much a pick me up, fuck me, then drop me back home situation" Oh that much I understand. But what exactly is he offering here? | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) Personally speaking I would never meet anyone for sex without a social meet in a public place first. I certainly wouldn't be picking up a complete stranger in my car for outdoor sex. It's everything you advise people not to do. Not at all safe for either person. Would you be happy for a female friend or family member to take those risks, OP? " I couldn’t stop them I’t would depend on circumstances but even if I didn’t I couldn’t stop someone doing what they want | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) A social is a non sex meet in a neutral location, usually. It doesn't have to be dinner, you don't have to buy for the other person. Yes, you might need to pony up the £3 or so for a coffee. So you're at an inherent disadvantage because of your age, you don't have social skills, and you can't travel or accommodate (I travel locally only), and a coffee is too much for you? ... I have absolutely no idea how you expect this to work. Genuinely. I'm baffled. It is very much a pick me up, fuck me, then drop me back home situation No if local I can walk, if they are okay then outside " Just because YOU like fucking outside doesn't mean the woman will. It's getting fucking freezing out and our nipples could key cars. Give me a warm comfy bed to fuck in any day in this cold weather. Do you have the ability to breathe like a fish and spend a while going down on a lady until she's FULLY satisfied. Even if that takes 4 hours and several orgasms? | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) A social is a non sex meet in a neutral location, usually. It doesn't have to be dinner, you don't have to buy for the other person. Yes, you might need to pony up the £3 or so for a coffee. So you're at an inherent disadvantage because of your age, you don't have social skills, and you can't travel or accommodate (I travel locally only), and a coffee is too much for you? ... I have absolutely no idea how you expect this to work. Genuinely. I'm baffled. It is very much a pick me up, fuck me, then drop me back home situation Oh that much I understand. But what exactly is he offering here? " Something Iv never being good at even in jobs is selling my self having something to offer | |||
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"It may not be but when you been sexual inactive for over a year that’s when it gets a little disheartening What's does your sexual inactivity have to do with anything?? Has to do with I came on here to meet people for sexual activity ...and what are you offering? You'll find most women are here for purely selfish reasons, not to alleviate your sex drought." No I understand but I don’t reallyhave anything to offer | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) A social is a non sex meet in a neutral location, usually. It doesn't have to be dinner, you don't have to buy for the other person. Yes, you might need to pony up the £3 or so for a coffee. So you're at an inherent disadvantage because of your age, you don't have social skills, and you can't travel or accommodate (I travel locally only), and a coffee is too much for you? ... I have absolutely no idea how you expect this to work. Genuinely. I'm baffled. Tbh the coffee isn’t the money I’m working 6-4 every day and then go straight to a workshop to work on my car and on the weekend I’m in the workshop 7-8 on my car I really don’t have time during day for coffee it wouldn’t be an issue if I didn’t have such a jam packed schedule But you have time to meet someone for sex?! "In late evening | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) A social is a non sex meet in a neutral location, usually. It doesn't have to be dinner, you don't have to buy for the other person. Yes, you might need to pony up the £3 or so for a coffee. So you're at an inherent disadvantage because of your age, you don't have social skills, and you can't travel or accommodate (I travel locally only), and a coffee is too much for you? ... I have absolutely no idea how you expect this to work. Genuinely. I'm baffled. It is very much a pick me up, fuck me, then drop me back home situation No if local I can walk, if they are okay then outside Just because YOU like fucking outside doesn't mean the woman will. It's getting fucking freezing out and our nipples could key cars. Give me a warm comfy bed to fuck in any day in this cold weather. Do you have the ability to breathe like a fish and spend a while going down on a lady until she's FULLY satisfied. Even if that takes 4 hours and several orgasms? " I like to think I do but in reality I have no idea | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) A social is a non sex meet in a neutral location, usually. It doesn't have to be dinner, you don't have to buy for the other person. Yes, you might need to pony up the £3 or so for a coffee. So you're at an inherent disadvantage because of your age, you don't have social skills, and you can't travel or accommodate (I travel locally only), and a coffee is too much for you? ... I have absolutely no idea how you expect this to work. Genuinely. I'm baffled. It is very much a pick me up, fuck me, then drop me back home situation Oh that much I understand. But what exactly is he offering here? Something Iv never being good at even in jobs is selling my self having something to offer " So, hypothetically, you message me. Because I let single guys message me (hypothetically), I'm getting 50-300 messages a day. Why on earth would I go for someone who doesn't have time for and/or doesn't have the skills for a social, can't travel or accommodate, and seems to have no particular selling point? You've gone from maybe as good as top 20% by being polite (assuming I don't care if you're verified), to bottom 1% or lower. | |||
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"It may not be but when you been sexual inactive for over a year that’s when it gets a little disheartening What's does your sexual inactivity have to do with anything?? Has to do with I came on here to meet people for sexual activity ...and what are you offering? You'll find most women are here for purely selfish reasons, not to alleviate your sex drought. No I understand but I don’t reallyhave anything to offer " So to put it bluntly no-one will fuck you here. | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) A social is a non sex meet in a neutral location, usually. It doesn't have to be dinner, you don't have to buy for the other person. Yes, you might need to pony up the £3 or so for a coffee. So you're at an inherent disadvantage because of your age, you don't have social skills, and you can't travel or accommodate (I travel locally only), and a coffee is too much for you? ... I have absolutely no idea how you expect this to work. Genuinely. I'm baffled. Tbh the coffee isn’t the money I’m working 6-4 every day and then go straight to a workshop to work on my car and on the weekend I’m in the workshop 7-8 on my car I really don’t have time during day for coffee it wouldn’t be an issue if I didn’t have such a jam packed schedule But you have time to meet someone for sex?!
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) A social is a non sex meet in a neutral location, usually. It doesn't have to be dinner, you don't have to buy for the other person. Yes, you might need to pony up the £3 or so for a coffee. So you're at an inherent disadvantage because of your age, you don't have social skills, and you can't travel or accommodate (I travel locally only), and a coffee is too much for you? ... I have absolutely no idea how you expect this to work. Genuinely. I'm baffled. It is very much a pick me up, fuck me, then drop me back home situation No if local I can walk, if they are okay then outside Just because YOU like fucking outside doesn't mean the woman will. It's getting fucking freezing out and our nipples could key cars. Give me a warm comfy bed to fuck in any day in this cold weather. Do you have the ability to breathe like a fish and spend a while going down on a lady until she's FULLY satisfied. Even if that takes 4 hours and several orgasms? I like to think I do but in reality I have no idea Do you really have nothing to offer a woman.... He might be able to fix your car" God knows, it needs it lol | |||
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"You're 18 years old and within walking distance of Kingston and Pryzm nightclub which is wall to wall with gorgeous young ladies You're lazy if you haven't been laid in a year- even I could pull in Kingston. It has nothing to do with laziness. I genuinely do not like clubs it’s not my thing due to a lot of well let’s say issues a club really not a good environment. Cool go pull in Kingston then " I did and it was very nice How was your evening? | |||
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"Most men can eat pussy for days. That's offering something to a woman. We are selfish. If you cannot please us were not interested. But. It takes more than good dick or good oral skills to get our engines running. Social skills are needed. Long story short. I doubt you'll get laid here. Forget about fab. Work on you and what you have to offer in the bedroom then come back when you're older and wiser. This isn't a place for delicate snowflakes. As I said. You need to stand out from all the other dick on this place. " Eat pussy for days? * raises hand * Yup...guilty as charged.. | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) A social is a non sex meet in a neutral location, usually. It doesn't have to be dinner, you don't have to buy for the other person. Yes, you might need to pony up the £3 or so for a coffee. So you're at an inherent disadvantage because of your age, you don't have social skills, and you can't travel or accommodate (I travel locally only), and a coffee is too much for you? ... I have absolutely no idea how you expect this to work. Genuinely. I'm baffled. It is very much a pick me up, fuck me, then drop me back home situation No if local I can walk, if they are okay then outside Just because YOU like fucking outside doesn't mean the woman will. It's getting fucking freezing out and our nipples could key cars. Give me a warm comfy bed to fuck in any day in this cold weather. Do you have the ability to breathe like a fish and spend a while going down on a lady until she's FULLY satisfied. Even if that takes 4 hours and several orgasms? I like to think I do but in reality I have no idea Do you really have nothing to offer a woman.... In a relationship I do but no I don’t really know what to you when you say do you have anything to offer " Youre coming across as either extremely naive or it's more than just not being able to interact socially You're also reacting like so many younger men by calling us rude and being defensive In this environment you're just a boy in a world of men | |||
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"Most men can eat pussy for days. That's offering something to a woman. We are selfish. If you cannot please us were not interested. But. It takes more than good dick or good oral skills to get our engines running. Social skills are needed. Long story short. I doubt you'll get laid here. Forget about fab. Work on you and what you have to offer in the bedroom then come back when you're older and wiser. This isn't a place for delicate snowflakes. As I said. You need to stand out from all the other dick on this place. Eat pussy for days? * raises hand * Yup...guilty as charged.." Man after a lot of women's hearts there haha Hubs isn't happy til I've cum a few times then the real fun starts | |||
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"You know what's the BS thing here? Women asking OP what he can offer. But in general do we men ever ask that of you women? What can you women offer? It's not as simple as flash some stacked tops and lift some skirts and all the boys will come to your yard. Not all of us are that shallow or fickle. OP is brave for wanting to try swinging at his age. I remember starting when I was around his age too and I got crap for it not unlike what he is getting here. Just because you're young doesn't mean you just want to go out and pull some d*unk chick or two. Doesn't always work that way. OP all I can say is look up your nearby socials and get yourself to one. Show your face. It's more important than any online identity on here especially as a guy. Keep faith and just try to meet people, connect and make your move when timings are right. Always have a plan: who you're going for, if you might want to host at least at a hotel or somewhere nice, what's your budget for a night out, and what you're seeking. Get thick skinned. It'll help a lot, cruel as it sounds. Good luck. Sincerely. I was in your shoes once too. " He has no money, no time, no transport, no social skills, hates clubs and can’t accommodate. All he wants is to fuck a woman outside in the few minutes he has spare. Got any ideas? | |||
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"You know what's the BS thing here? Women asking OP what he can offer. But in general do we men ever ask that of you women? What can you women offer? It's not as simple as flash some stacked tops and lift some skirts and all the boys will come to your yard. Not all of us are that shallow or fickle. OP is brave for wanting to try swinging at his age. I remember starting when I was around his age too and I got crap for it not unlike what he is getting here. Just because you're young doesn't mean you just want to go out and pull some d*unk chick or two. Doesn't always work that way. OP all I can say is look up your nearby socials and get yourself to one. Show your face. It's more important than any online identity on here especially as a guy. Keep faith and just try to meet people, connect and make your move when timings are right. Always have a plan: who you're going for, if you might want to host at least at a hotel or somewhere nice, what's your budget for a night out, and what you're seeking. Get thick skinned. It'll help a lot, cruel as it sounds. Good luck. Sincerely. I was in your shoes once too. " Well women offer pussy. And a lot of us some mind blowing blow jobs. Besides all that the shit we do to our bodies just to please a man.... I mean feel free to get all that from a guy including the puss. Give the lady what she wants and you can guarantee she will make sure you are completely drained of all fluids and the will to move. Or at least that's how I treat mine. And for most women we get double or triple figures in messages daily so it really is as simple as getting our tits out. | |||
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"You know what's the BS thing here? Women asking OP what he can offer. But in general do we men ever ask that of you women? What can you women offer? It's not as simple as flash some stacked tops and lift some skirts and all the boys will come to your yard. Not all of us are that shallow or fickle. OP is brave for wanting to try swinging at his age. I remember starting when I was around his age too and I got crap for it not unlike what he is getting here. Just because you're young doesn't mean you just want to go out and pull some d*unk chick or two. Doesn't always work that way. OP all I can say is look up your nearby socials and get yourself to one. Show your face. It's more important than any online identity on here especially as a guy. Keep faith and just try to meet people, connect and make your move when timings are right. Always have a plan: who you're going for, if you might want to host at least at a hotel or somewhere nice, what's your budget for a night out, and what you're seeking. Get thick skinned. It'll help a lot, cruel as it sounds. Good luck. Sincerely. I was in your shoes once too. He has no money, no time, no transport, no social skills, hates clubs and can’t accommodate. All he wants is to fuck a woman outside in the few minutes he has spare. Got any ideas? Hence why I suggested Fab socials near him. It's not that different from drinking at a pub or bar and talking to people there. Just needs to take the first step. That’s been suggested and he has said he won’t do that. " Ehhh... Well... He's not helping his case then.. | |||
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"You know what's the BS thing here? Women asking OP what he can offer. But in general do we men ever ask that of you women? What can you women offer? It's not as simple as flash some stacked tops and lift some skirts and all the boys will come to your yard. Not all of us are that shallow or fickle. OP is brave for wanting to try swinging at his age. I remember starting when I was around his age too and I got crap for it not unlike what he is getting here. Just because you're young doesn't mean you just want to go out and pull some d*unk chick or two. Doesn't always work that way. OP all I can say is look up your nearby socials and get yourself to one. Show your face. It's more important than any online identity on here especially as a guy. Keep faith and just try to meet people, connect and make your move when timings are right. Always have a plan: who you're going for, if you might want to host at least at a hotel or somewhere nice, what's your budget for a night out, and what you're seeking. Get thick skinned. It'll help a lot, cruel as it sounds. Good luck. Sincerely. I was in your shoes once too. He has no money, no time, no transport, no social skills, hates clubs and can’t accommodate. All he wants is to fuck a woman outside in the few minutes he has spare. Got any ideas? Hence why I suggested Fab socials near him. It's not that different from drinking at a pub or bar and talking to people there. Just needs to take the first step. That’s been suggested and he has said he won’t do that. Ehhh... Well... He's not helping his case then.. Yep, we know. Every suggestion has been shot down by him and he’s asked us to solve his dilemma. He’s been here a month and had no sex. Fix it. Shall I come out and say it? Dude sounds like he is on the Aspergers scale." Plenty of people are, and they put the effort in to get by in society. | |||
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"You know what's the BS thing here? Women asking OP what he can offer. But in general do we men ever ask that of you women? What can you women offer? It's not as simple as flash some stacked tops and lift some skirts and all the boys will come to your yard. Not all of us are that shallow or fickle. OP is brave for wanting to try swinging at his age. I remember starting when I was around his age too and I got crap for it not unlike what he is getting here. Just because you're young doesn't mean you just want to go out and pull some d*unk chick or two. Doesn't always work that way. OP all I can say is look up your nearby socials and get yourself to one. Show your face. It's more important than any online identity on here especially as a guy. Keep faith and just try to meet people, connect and make your move when timings are right. Always have a plan: who you're going for, if you might want to host at least at a hotel or somewhere nice, what's your budget for a night out, and what you're seeking. Get thick skinned. It'll help a lot, cruel as it sounds. Good luck. Sincerely. I was in your shoes once too. He has no money, no time, no transport, no social skills, hates clubs and can’t accommodate. All he wants is to fuck a woman outside in the few minutes he has spare. Got any ideas? Hence why I suggested Fab socials near him. It's not that different from drinking at a pub or bar and talking to people there. Just needs to take the first step. That’s been suggested and he has said he won’t do that. Ehhh... Well... He's not helping his case then.. Yep, we know. Every suggestion has been shot down by him and he’s asked us to solve his dilemma. He’s been here a month and had no sex. Fix it. Shall I come out and say it? Dude sounds like he is on the Aspergers scale. Plenty of people are, and they put the effort in to get by in society. " I agree. Being Aspergic isn't gonna mean said person isn't capable of socialising. Wait... why did we get sidetracked to discussing and speculating about a Fab member's mental state? | |||
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"Ur 18!!! Get urself to a nightclub to meet females be a normal teenager! " This | |||
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"Don't expect to get a free fuck or even a meet in return for a short message on here. Get out into the real world, go to a club, meet and play with real people, impress them with your charm, wit and sexual stamina, get some veris then come back to fab with some experience. Once again i don’t do clubs I fucking hate that environment " Have you ever been to a swinging club - they offer exactly what you seem to be so desperate for? | |||
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"Iv message probably over 100 accounts in the last month all different accounts and not a single person to meet. I know I could expand my horizon try new things to have more interest but right now I’m not looking to try new things I’m just looking for find some 1on1 meets to enjoy and many a fb/regular. It’s just such a shame as I havnt done anything sexual since last October and reason for that as I just havnt had any luck seems like I don’t have any here. " you have a veri and at your age you're doing well I'd say just be patient a lot of the older women you know really old women over 40 love young guys | |||
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"Don't expect to get a free fuck or even a meet in return for a short message on here. Get out into the real world, go to a club, meet and play with real people, impress them with your charm, wit and sexual stamina, get some veris then come back to fab with some experience. Once again i don’t do clubs I fucking hate that environment Have you ever been to a swinging club - they offer exactly what you seem to be so desperate for? " No they don't, women will still expect the social bit before deciding if they want to be the OPs instashag. | |||
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"Go to a single guy friendly club. Not sure these exist " You’re right, not one of those clubs exist, pointless me even going as a single woman who meets single men. | |||
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"Thank you for help I try to be polite and nice to everyone but clearly that’s not enough being polite anymore " What you mean your polite and women still won't have sex with you. Oh that's disgusting, they're so shallow. | |||
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"Iv message probably over 100 accounts in the last month all different accounts and not a single person to meet. I know I could expand my horizon try new things to have more interest but right now I’m not looking to try new things I’m just looking for find some 1on1 meets to enjoy and many a fb/regular. It’s just such a shame as I havnt done anything sexual since last October and reason for that as I just havnt had any luck seems like I don’t have any here. " Join the club matey  | |||
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"Let’s just get some things straight. I don’t do nightclubs not my thing, don’t presume I’m some normal overly horny guy coz I’m not there’s more to it, I’m an introvert alway have been since I was little, I have issue which affect socialising therefore it’s very difficult for me to do dinner pre or shit like that, don’t presume every 18 has a fantasy of a teacher coz they don’t I like older lady’s for the maturity not because of a teacher fantasy and finally I’m not a normal teenage kid not by a fucking long shot! Good answered all question now could I have some real advice there have been some helpful people and a lot of u helpful I mean this kindly, but if you have issues socialising, you should probably focus your efforts there. Even in this world, you rarely get to escape it entirely. It’s not exactly as easy as working on them unfortunately but I don’t reslmy want to go into detail as I’m not willing to open up about issues to unknown I'm not asking you to disclose anything. But being able to socialise is a basic life skill. Even if we disregard everything else and just think about sex: you need to be able to convince someone that you're not dangerous, that you care even a little about their pleasure, that you can be trusted. That involves similar social skills to what you're dismissing. Yeah I can totally understand that but from what I have seen on her people think of socialising as a coffee or dinner and right now I don’t have the money to facilitate that because of the car I have (I can’t drive yet I am still leading but I have a car) A social is a non sex meet in a neutral location, usually. It doesn't have to be dinner, you don't have to buy for the other person. Yes, you might need to pony up the £3 or so for a coffee. So you're at an inherent disadvantage because of your age, you don't have social skills, and you can't travel or accommodate (I travel locally only), and a coffee is too much for you? ... I have absolutely no idea how you expect this to work. Genuinely. I'm baffled. Tbh the coffee isn’t the money I’m working 6-4 every day and then go straight to a workshop to work on my car and on the weekend I’m in the workshop 7-8 on my car I really don’t have time during day for coffee it wouldn’t be an issue if I didn’t have such a jam packed schedule So what you are saying is you only have time for an outdoor quickie in between your busy schedule? Yeah it’s shit I know but it’s all I got right now " Well if you have that many restrictions and aren’t able to be flexible it will be a miracle if you get a meet on here. You May need to wait until your circumstances change before you can use this site in a serious way. And a month is absolutely nothing. | |||
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"Don't expect to get a free fuck or even a meet in return for a short message on here. Get out into the real world, go to a club, meet and play with real people, impress them with your charm, wit and sexual stamina, get some veris then come back to fab with some experience. Once again i don’t do clubs I fucking hate that environment Have you ever been to a swinging club - they offer exactly what you seem to be so desperate for? No they don't, women will still expect the social bit before deciding if they want to be the OPs instashag. As a woman I don't expect any social interaction at clubs, and neither do all the women and couples we have met at several different clubs - most go for the anonymous, nsa instant sex without any complications. " I dislike that approach, preferring some social interaction before I offer my cunt for a bloke to stick his cock in it. If all I want is a fuck, I’d charge. | |||
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"OP... As has already been said here, perhaps you need to examine your expectations of Fab. It is a swinging site, not a sex site. There is a difference, and one that you need to understand. Then perhaps you need to look at your apparent negative attitude. It is off-putting, and will not do you any favours. And, as others have already said, your age is not in youd favour. I think that the majority of peoole here are above 30 years old, and are not keen on the idea of seeing someone as young as you. Good luck. " | |||
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"Don't expect to get a free fuck or even a meet in return for a short message on here. Get out into the real world, go to a club, meet and play with real people, impress them with your charm, wit and sexual stamina, get some veris then come back to fab with some experience. Once again i don’t do clubs I fucking hate that environment Have you ever been to a swinging club - they offer exactly what you seem to be so desperate for? No they don't, women will still expect the social bit before deciding if they want to be the OPs instashag. As a woman I don't expect any social interaction at clubs, and neither do all the women and couples we have met at several different clubs - most go for the anonymous, nsa instant sex without any complications. I dislike that approach, preferring some social interaction before I offer my cunt for a bloke to stick his cock in it. If all I want is a fuck, I’d charge." Well said xx | |||
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"Don't expect to get a free fuck or even a meet in return for a short message on here. Get out into the real world, go to a club, meet and play with real people, impress them with your charm, wit and sexual stamina, get some veris then come back to fab with some experience. Once again i don’t do clubs I fucking hate that environment Have you ever been to a swinging club - they offer exactly what you seem to be so desperate for? No they don't, women will still expect the social bit before deciding if they want to be the OPs instashag. As a woman I don't expect any social interaction at clubs, and neither do all the women and couples we have met at several different clubs - most go for the anonymous, nsa instant sex without any complications. I dislike that approach, preferring some social interaction before I offer my cunt for a bloke to stick his cock in it. If all I want is a fuck, I’d charge. Well said xx "£2.50 is a good charge  | |||
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"I didn’t have the confidence or whatever u want to call it, I had my first profile for almost a year before I met. I then met the same person a couple of times before I realised what this site actually was it wasn’t until I read other veris more that I got an idea and even still joe three years later nothing shocks me. It can be a very seedy place, but Iv met some truly genuine lovely people here too. I guess e wet ones experience and motives are individual to them but on the whole.. it is a sex site " Not just a sex site that should say | |||
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"You know what's the BS thing here? Women asking OP what he can offer. But in general do we men ever ask that of you women? What can you women offer? It's not as simple as flash some stacked tops and lift some skirts and all the boys will come to your yard. Not all of us are that shallow or fickle. OP is brave for wanting to try swinging at his age. I remember starting when I was around his age too and I got crap for it not unlike what he is getting here. Just because you're young doesn't mean you just want to go out and pull some d*unk chick or two. Doesn't always work that way. OP all I can say is look up your nearby socials and get yourself to one. Show your face. It's more important than any online identity on here especially as a guy. Keep faith and just try to meet people, connect and make your move when timings are right. Always have a plan: who you're going for, if you might want to host at least at a hotel or somewhere nice, what's your budget for a night out, and what you're seeking. Get thick skinned. It'll help a lot, cruel as it sounds. Good luck. Sincerely. I was in your shoes once too. "  | |||
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"I didn’t have the confidence or whatever u want to call it, I had my first profile for almost a year before I met. I then met the same person a couple of times before I realised what this site actually was it wasn’t until I read other veris more that I got an idea and even still joe three years later nothing shocks me. It can be a very seedy place, but Iv met some truly genuine lovely people here too. I guess e wet ones experience and motives are individual to them but on the whole.. it is a sex site " my wordy...u are fucking hot...I LOVE your pics | |||
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"Don't expect to get a free fuck or even a meet in return for a short message on here. Get out into the real world, go to a club, meet and play with real people, impress them with your charm, wit and sexual stamina, get some veris then come back to fab with some experience. Once again i don’t do clubs I fucking hate that environment Have you ever been to a swinging club - they offer exactly what you seem to be so desperate for? No they don't, women will still expect the social bit before deciding if they want to be the OPs instashag. As a woman I don't expect any social interaction at clubs, and neither do all the women and couples we have met at several different clubs - most go for the anonymous, nsa instant sex without any complications. I dislike that approach, preferring some social interaction before I offer my cunt for a bloke to stick his cock in it. If all I want is a fuck, I’d charge." Whatever suits you is ok. For us swinging is a way of fulfilling our sexual fantasies, and they don't involve social interactions. We have plenty of those with our vanilla friends. That suits us and a lot of others too (as we have discovered) | |||
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"keep persisting. try visit some socials, to plant the seed. soon you will get some nice veris and seem more appealing thats my plan as i just got back onto fab and its the way ive been told "Just beat me to this, what we can say is. Get yourself known, forums or chat room including the above socials. From a look on your profile, we will say put something of interest in there. Make peoples mind think. That's what I did, when I was single and swinging. | |||
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