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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you 'get over it' for your 1st play date?? Had a meet last week and my anxiety went into overdrive and ended up being just a social (thanks to our lovely lady friend being so understanding!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's where alcohol comes in handy!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Believe in yourself, feel the fear, do it anyway. Get lost in the moment.

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By *ichaelsmyMan
over a year ago

doiglas

was it the social side of things that was the problem

or the thought of just meeting someone for sex?

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Something you are going to have to get to terms with if you are wanting to meet but please don't get inebriated as a lot do its not the right way to go and can put a lot off.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

We eased into it gently. We started playing with just each other but in the same room as other people. Building up to a gently touch/caress and then on from there as and when we felt comfortable. It really worked for us and the right people who you click with will be patient and understanding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Def the social side. I had a few drinks before the meet but dont want to get d*unk. I just started panicking and worrying i was letting the lady (and my other half down) both reassured me it was fine. But the more i tried to calm down the worse i got

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"that's where alcohol comes in handy! "

Nope!

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Best thing is not to tell anyone you're nervous and just fake not being nervous. Works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We eased into it gently. We started playing with just each other but in the same room as other people. Building up to a gently touch/caress and then on from there as and when we felt comfortable. It really worked for us and the right people who you click with will be patient and understanding "

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for your advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suffer with this also. The anxiety will just take over

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