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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Evening all,

Yes it's probably been raised numerous times in the forums, but i'm in need of some constructive advice and tips on how to get some meets.

Ladies..perhaps you could be kind enough to tell me what you think I need to change/add

Gents...perhaps you can tell me whats worked for you!

Sorry I can't change my face if thats the big issue lol

Thanks for taking out the time to read this and help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

I think your profile is good and nice selection of pics. Maybe get yourself along to a social or club and get to know people?

Mrs

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Your name sounds like a dessert. You could maybe change that to something like - smoothfit or something a bit less cheesy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes a social is on my list, and my last hope to be honest.

bit of a downer, when you get zero response.

trying to stay positive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol never thought about it like that.

picking a name can be a job itself as it's gotta be catchy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening all,

Yes it's probably been raised numerous times in the forums, but i'm in need of some constructive advice and tips on how to get some meets.

Ladies..perhaps you could be kind enough to tell me what you think I need to change/add

Gents...perhaps you can tell me whats worked for you!

Sorry I can't change my face if thats the big issue lol

Thanks for taking out the time to read this and help "

He’s yummy!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"yes a social is on my list, and my last hope to be honest.

bit of a downer, when you get zero response.

trying to stay positive. "

In my view, a social is the first thing on the list, not a last resort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

totally agree...was very apprehensive to visit one, especially being a single guy,

however now im back on fab and i have gained some confidence to go now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that's very kind of you

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"lol never thought about it like that.

picking a name can be a job itself as it's gotta be catchy."

I've been through a bunch myself. Mostly they shouldn't mean anything but they are your first look at someone so can affect how you're perceived.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

name is key yes but having some nice pictures and profile content can outshine any user name i feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening all,

Yes it's probably been raised numerous times in the forums, but i'm in need of some constructive advice and tips on how to get some meets.

Ladies..perhaps you could be kind enough to tell me what you think I need to change/add

Gents...perhaps you can tell me whats worked for you!

Sorry I can't change my face if thats the big issue lol

Thanks for taking out the time to read this and help "
It's cock pic avatar week that worked for me once

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

shame its not every week then lol

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

First photo - The Up close in your face cock photo - seems some like but a lot don’t

Photos 4 and 5

Due to light / shadow. It actually seems to be two different people in the photos.

The above two points would cause a pass on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First photo - The Up close in your face cock photo - seems some like but a lot don’t

Photos 4 and 5

Due to light / shadow. It actually seems to be two different people in the photos.

The above two points would cause a pass on your profile. "
your profile is just right I think two pics one of each and a concise write up

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"First photo - The Up close in your face cock photo - seems some like but a lot don’t

Photos 4 and 5

Due to light / shadow. It actually seems to be two different people in the photos.

The above two points would cause a pass on your profile. your profile is just right I think two pics one of each and a concise write up "

They weren’t asking for a profile critique, that may get you a ban.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all a bit vague and contradictory tbh. Like a lot of guys profiles you're trying to cover all the bases without securing any of them across your profile.It reads like you're attempting to appeal to everybody but not actually delivering anywhere.

You say you are looking for meaningful built up interactions but then have dogging and gangbangs ticked in your interests for example.

And as you don't appear to have had a meet yet how do you know that you are genuine and not a catfish or time-waster?

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Definitely get to a club or social - you seem like a nice genuine guy (and hot!) so I think if you were meeting people face to face you'd charm them all :P

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

All looks good OP, good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate the feedback

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK

Nothing really wrong that I can see. Name is fine, the 69 is a bit cheesy but it wouldn’t put me off.

You have a LOT of interests listed and like a previous poster, wanting something more meaningful but also interested in dogging? But I’m nit picking...

Maybe a few more photos? You are certainly good looking... So maybe try and get some veri’s via a club or social?

Mrs Twinkle Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

it's basic advice that men don't listen too

no1 - read profiles all of it .

no2 - send an up to date face pic.

no3 - don't send cock pics especially with a remote control.

no4 - be nice and respectful do not be pushy or suggestive .

enjoy your meets

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden


"First photo - The Up close in your face cock photo - seems some like but a lot don’t

Photos 4 and 5

Due to light / shadow. It actually seems to be two different people in the photos.

The above two points would cause a pass on your profile. your profile is just right I think two pics one of each and a concise write up

They weren’t asking for a profile critique, that may get you a ban."

The OP wrote this

Evening all .....

i'm in need of some constructive advice and tips on how to get some meets.

Ladies..perhaps you could be kind enough to tell me what you think I need to change/add

Pretty sure this is asking for profile advice.

Also since our post the OP has edited his profile so our message now has no point of reference.

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