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By *mberandlenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

prescot

Where are you? ?? x

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By *rs and Mr YoYoCouple
over a year ago

chester

Here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are definitely around. I have met some lovely couples for soft play.

Not as many as I would like though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where are you? ?? x"

Guys had to ask , you ever looking for single guys ?

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK

Waves!!!

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re here! hi everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where are you? ?? x"

Present

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here and not far away

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Here too, soft and full swap all good with us

TB

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We are happy with soft swap and full.

Nita

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By *rincessvenusCouple
over a year ago

Hull

what the hell is soft play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here x

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By *ilky and stefCouple
over a year ago

somewhere in England

So are we but new to this and still considering our first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what the hell is soft play "

Every kind of sex without penetration from either couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So are we but new to this and still considering our first meet."

We are newbies to

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By *ighlysexed18Couple
over a year ago

spalding

We are here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here but here is Ireland unfortunately

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Over here too

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We're happy with soft swing or full swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We sometimes like soft play...

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We started as soft swingers and thoroughly enjoyed it before moving on to full swinging after about a year. We still enjoy a soft swing if that is what our playmates like - touching, watching and being watched are all a turn on.

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By *pforfun1234562016Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Here

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley


"We started as soft swingers and thoroughly enjoyed it before moving on to full swinging after about a year. We still enjoy a soft swing if that is what our playmates like - touching, watching and being watched are all a turn on."

Same with us but we also sometimes prefer soft swap rather than full swinging depending on how we both feel....often the foreplay/soft swap leading up to full swing is better and more imaginative

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By *mberandlenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

prescot

Still not many from the vast amount of couples are into soft play.

Also we are both straight and 95% of females seem to be bi, nothing against it- but we are up against it.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still not many from the vast amount of couples are into soft play.

Also we are both straight and 95% of females seem to be bi, nothing against it- but we are up against it.

X"

Most softswing couples we have met yes the ladys are bi but its not a deal breaker if they are not, we started off the same as you guys and found lots of couples that are straight soft swap, remember most of the full swap couples also soft swap its all about chemistry and knowing boundaries, we have played soft swap with more full swap couples than soft swap only couples xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still not many from the vast amount of couples are into soft play.

Also we are both straight and 95% of females seem to be bi, nothing against it- but we are up against it.

X"

Same here x

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By *ngandnickCouple
over a year ago

Haverhill

We're here too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're here in sunny Norfolk

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By *izz37Couple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

We are here xx

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By *ewcouple321Couple
over a year ago

teesside

We are here Teesside x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad that so many are around!

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By *layfulexplorers2Couple
over a year ago

Bath

Massage is our favourite way to get to know you. Then soft play as long as everyone is happy.

Anna & Jake xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mcr tomorrow is do able for us. Pm us. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still not many from the vast amount of couples are into soft play.

Also we are both straight and 95% of females seem to be bi, nothing against it- but we are up against it.

X

Same here x"

Same here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still not many from the vast amount of couples are into soft play.

Also we are both straight and 95% of females seem to be bi, nothing against it- but we are up against it.

X

Most softswing couples we have met yes the ladys are bi but its not a deal breaker if they are not, we started off the same as you guys and found lots of couples that are straight soft swap, remember most of the full swap couples also soft swap its all about chemistry and knowing boundaries, we have played soft swap with more full swap couples than soft swap only couples xx"

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By *wo on wireCouple
over a year ago

london

Checking in

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

That would best describe us at the moment.

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By *orethanthis2013Couple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Alive and well in and around East Anglia

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By *aully14Couple
over a year ago

harrow

yes we are here

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Super softies over here!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

More than happy with soft play here with straight couples.

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Here.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

There doesn't appear to be 'any kind of play' from couples just lately on here let alone soft play, we are happy to do both when the chemistry is right and there is attraction for all but if we look at who viewed us then it is only about 5% couples, take out our friends, take out the non verified then that probably leaves 2% with the possibility of meeting but then take out age restrictions etc. down to 0.5% which will probably be the male half only available to meet haha

But ever the optimists we think things may change soon and thankfully we have our fab friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't feel bad, its the same for lots of couples, and like you say, its the fab friends that keep the spark alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

were soft only , but living down the bottom end of the country most are too far away

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We don't really try and arrange meets anymore online. Instead we just go to clubs and see who's attention we catch as we do our own thing. Then it's not so much about being soft or full, more about gently steering away from any full play advances. It's worked pretty well for us so far!

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By *rban-NitesCouple
over a year ago

LONDON (SE)

hi all, "softies" here

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

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By *aughtycouple333Couple
over a year ago

woodford

Here

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

We happily do both. We used to be soft swing for years before we went full swap, and even now it's only with the right people.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Wouldn't say we are full, more soft but we have dabbled. Like another poster says, with the right people if the connection is there, full will happen. We are not into just f##k n go

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By *ivelaughlove16Couple
over a year ago

norfolk/Suffolk border

We are soft swing only and enjoy the experience of flirty sensual play when we find people who we connect with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count us in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swap is best till you get to know each other then maybe move on.

But social and soft swing woks for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are happy to soft swap or full x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, present and happy to soft swing, but everyone's interpretation is different..... Bad experience made me very cautiousand wary of males during swinging.... Now with Brad3101 who is building my confidence back up again...

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By *havenbabe01Couple
over a year ago

bedfordshire

Count us in x mail us if you fancy meeting up

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We are happy with soft swap and full, bi or straight and have enjoyed numerous occasions

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By *mberandlenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

prescot

Nice discussion guys.

Anyone in the NW area that fits our criteria, please drop us a line

Cheers x

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By *istalloverCouple
over a year ago

Pays de la Loire -Normandie -Brittany borderFrance

Us too

France and Portsmouth..

xxx

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham


"So are we but new to this and still considering our first meet."

This is pretty much us too. Hoping to visit our first club together very soon as well.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Prefer full but been happy with soft swing with couples also.

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Here we are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone tell me what soft play means lol

Newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone tell me what soft play means lol

Newbie"

It’s a term used for couples with a fetish to dress up as cuddly toys.. genuinely you will find lots of cushions and pillows involved and anything soft.. hence the term soft play x

(Only joking)

It’s normally anything other than full sex.. although some people’s versions of soft play are different to others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here in Surrey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey here we are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swing here too!

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Soft swap is best till you get to know each other then maybe move on.

But social and soft swing woks for us "

^^^^ this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a couple but do love soft play.

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By *estyorkscplrusCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Soft swing couple here too

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

And there are some like us.. Who are softer than soft

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I would think most couples would "soft" swing Op so don't discount those you think wouldn't be interested in you

Soft swing can be as much if not more fun.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

We only soft swap x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is the way forward for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swap is good

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By *an42Woman
over a year ago

Sunderland

I’m just soft swop too ,

We have had fab nights with friends that are full swop and they have not crossed our boundaries ,

as we always state what we are into

My couples name is gandj1

Sunderland area if anyone wants to check us out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swap only, singles included.

Xx

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

There are a few of us about

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By *roticaCouple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

count us in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like soft swap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello"

Hello

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"Soft swap is best till you get to know each other then maybe move on.

But social and soft swing woks for us

^^^^ this too"

and us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are here too!

And also hard swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love soft play or full swap. Also respect others boundaries.

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By *oungYorkscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Here

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By *ancsfuncplCouple
over a year ago

preston

Hi we are a soft swop cpl only

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Soft swap is our preference too. Not so many in Scotland though

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By *ewwelshcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Here too ...

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By *unlovinCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We are a soft swap couple xx

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By *arc1oneMan
over a year ago

oxford

I prefer soft play , find it more fun ! , leaves me sexually aroused for days !

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By *rMrsMorningstarCouple
over a year ago

near bridgend

We’d say we’re soft players atm, being new to the scene, inexperienced and all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to soft play no problem each meet is different it would be boring to just connect one way with all couples or singles. It's the difference and diversity which is good for us. male

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By *av1970Man
over a year ago

Tattershall

Much prefer soft swing meets myself and lots of kissing is a must.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Fem/Fem,soft play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a couple of good soft swing meets with couples but most don't want single men.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Soft swap is our preference too. Not so many in Scotland though "

We blame Buckfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soft swap is our preference too. Not so many in Scotland though

We blame Buckfast "

What's the Abbey done to you

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By *istalloverCouple
over a year ago

Pays de la Loire -Normandie -Brittany borderFrance

Us too if we haven't mentioned it before.

Oh we have

Ok then ,we must really like it then

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Soft swap is our preference too. Not so many in Scotland though

We blame Buckfast

What's the Abbey done to you "

Absolutely nothing. There product by passes all of England and straight into Scotland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean to ball pools and squashy obstacle course kinda soft play?

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Do you mean to ball pools and squashy obstacle course kinda soft play?"

Very similar to BBC. That would make the soaps like Eastenders more interesting. We never watch it but....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where are you? ?? x"

Would you like a single guy who just adores watching a fit couple play no touching x

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Soft swap is our preference too. Not so many in Scotland though

We blame Buckfast

What's the Abbey done to you

Absolutely nothing. There product by passes all of England and straight into Scotland "

Oh no just noticed spelling. There instead of Their. Dictionary Police will be after us now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's soft swap????????

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"What's soft swap????????"
Penetration with own partner, rest of play to everyones boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soft swap is our preference too. Not so many in Scotland though

We blame Buckfast

What's the Abbey done to you

Absolutely nothing. There product by passes all of England and straight into Scotland

Oh no just noticed spelling. There instead of Their. Dictionary Police will be after us now "

Lol

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We play soft (or full x) both are fun

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By *uffintwoCouple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross

Here!

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Seems like there are more on here than we thought, last time we posted on this subject we got called boring for not swapping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprised how many don't know what it is. Almost as though they haven't read the glossary of terms lol. Exclusively soft swap here

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By *aileyandBunnyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands/Chard Somerset

We prefer to play soft, but will play full when the time is right xx

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

Softswing is us also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello we are both happily x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft play can be just as erotic & fun

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By *eahorsesCouple
over a year ago

North DeVon

Soft and gentle with no Ps for us we do ok thanks

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By *ifemcouple4sameCouple
over a year ago

Hereford

Here ?? Midway between Swansea and Cardiff......

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"Here ?? Midway between Swansea and Cardiff......

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You’ve moved!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here in Norwich!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In dining room with colonel plum with some rope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And us, and us !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started as full swap but over time found soft swap and social meets as a starter far more relaxed and enjoyable. The better the connection the more chance of stronger bonds and friendship have to flourish. Now don’t get me wrong full swap is not off the menu but full swap with people you already resonate with leads to far better sex and greater pleasure and comfort than the fuck and go style meeting.

This is just our preference gained from our personal experience and while someone saying above that most full swap couples will happily soft play we tend to avoid those that insist full swap is the only way simply because we prefer something more than random hookup.

In clubs soft play is far more prevalent than hardcore unless it’s an already well established group of friends getting together anyway.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"We started as full swap but over time found soft swap and social meets as a starter far more relaxed and enjoyable. The better the connection the more chance of stronger bonds and friendship have to flourish. Now don’t get me wrong full swap is not off the menu but full swap with people you already resonate with leads to far better sex and greater pleasure and comfort than the fuck and go style meeting.

This is just our preference gained from our personal experience and while someone saying above that most full swap couples will happily soft play we tend to avoid those that insist full swap is the only way simply because we prefer something more than random hookup.

In clubs soft play is far more prevalent than hardcore unless it’s an already well established group of friends getting together anyway."

That's exactly what we have discussed and going down the very same line. We have blown away some full swap couples we have played with who didn't go down the soft swap scenario. We spent time in the company of, they then gained a connection with us and did the soft swap with us to finish with a wow and a big smile saying boy we nearly missed out. Still think it was due to connection. We wouldn't play unless there was a connection and never been into one time meets. When we meet folk in clubs we always stay in touch and hope to meet again. Multiple meets makes fun better and better in our opinion. Everyone swings different ways and everyone has the right too, not every thing and everyone is for everyone. Happy swinging swingers of the lifestyle

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By *layfulexplorers2Couple
over a year ago

Bath


"We started as full swap but over time found soft swap and social meets as a starter far more relaxed and enjoyable. The better the connection the more chance of stronger bonds and friendship have to flourish. Now don’t get me wrong full swap is not off the menu but full swap with people you already resonate with leads to far better sex and greater pleasure and comfort than the fuck and go style meeting.

This is just our preference gained from our personal experience and while someone saying above that most full swap couples will happily soft play we tend to avoid those that insist full swap is the only way simply because we prefer something more than random hookup.

In clubs soft play is far more prevalent than hardcore unless it’s an already well established group of friends getting together anyway."

Wonderfully put and actually helps us understand where we are leaning towards. Thanks

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

What does soft play mean to you.

Seems to be very different from one couple to the next ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve done both. But still love soft play xx

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By *WcoupleNewCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We only do softplay at the moment.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"What does soft play mean to you.

Seems to be very different from one couple to the next ???

"

As posted earlier on this thread, Penetration with own partner, rest of play to everyones boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft fun for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does soft play mean to you.

Seems to be very different from one couple to the next ???

As posted earlier on this thread, Penetration with own partner, rest of play to everyones boundaries"

Exactly this it’s as much about being exhibitionist and voyeuristic with a little tease of what could happen. We are very happy to go as far as oral with full sex on own partners while leaving the way open for more as the connections trust and friendships grow, however most of the time all involved have so much fun and freedom this way full swap is seldom an issue at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love a bit of soft play - play is play regardless

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We love soft play because there doesn't feel like there's any final destination.

We've spent an hour with a gorgeous couple, just with the ladies having a very sensual smooch and light stroking. The ladies then played with their own partners while still playing with each other. Other couples would probably see this just as something to spend 5mins on before moving on to full swap.

For us it's very much about the mental stimulation. The sights and sounds of the things you've spent so long discussing finally happening. The deep social aspect of getting to know and trust a stranger, to have that experience with them and then to enjoy the after glow.

I don't need to stick my cock in a stranger to feel like I've experienced something exciting

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By *layfulexplorers2Couple
over a year ago

Bath


"We love soft play because there doesn't feel like there's any final destination.

We've spent an hour with a gorgeous couple, just with the ladies having a very sensual smooch and light stroking. The ladies then played with their own partners while still playing with each other. Other couples would probably see this just as something to spend 5mins on before moving on to full swap.

For us it's very much about the mental stimulation. The sights and sounds of the things you've spent so long discussing finally happening. The deep social aspect of getting to know and trust a stranger, to have that experience with them and then to enjoy the after glow.

I don't need to stick my cock in a stranger to feel like I've experienced something exciting "

Hurrah. Come visit us anytime

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"We love soft play because there doesn't feel like there's any final destination.

We've spent an hour with a gorgeous couple, just with the ladies having a very sensual smooch and light stroking. The ladies then played with their own partners while still playing with each other. Other couples would probably see this just as something to spend 5mins on before moving on to full swap.

For us it's very much about the mental stimulation. The sights and sounds of the things you've spent so long discussing finally happening. The deep social aspect of getting to know and trust a stranger, to have that experience with them and then to enjoy the after glow.

I don't need to stick my cock in a stranger to feel like I've experienced something exciting "

Couldn't have said it better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, I'm not a couple but still enjoy it!

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"We love soft play because there doesn't feel like there's any final destination.

We've spent an hour with a gorgeous couple, just with the ladies having a very sensual smooch and light stroking. The ladies then played with their own partners while still playing with each other. Other couples would probably see this just as something to spend 5mins on before moving on to full swap.

For us it's very much about the mental stimulation. The sights and sounds of the things you've spent so long discussing finally happening. The deep social aspect of getting to know and trust a stranger, to have that experience with them and then to enjoy the after glow.

I don't need to stick my cock in a stranger to feel like I've experienced something exciting "

Yes, love this perspective x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love soft swap fun..

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By *mberandlenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

prescot

Nice to see there’s a good selection out there.

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By *layfulexplorers2Couple
over a year ago

Bath

So there we were in Swingers Quay this weekend. V and I had helped Anna to step up onto the platform and put her wrists through the hanging rope loops. Anna stood there smiling with legs spread wide. Separated only by an X section of chain V jumped up onto the other side of the structure and pushed herself up against Anna. After some very sexy slipping and sliding against each other. V knelt on the floor and started to kiss and lick down Annas tummy and pussy. I knelt behind Anna and after some gentle play with her sexy bottom and pussy i slide through Annas spread legs and asked V if i could touch her. V paused from licking and kissing Anna to give her permission and guided my face to her lush boobs, after a while Ilick my way down V's delicious body to her pussy. Meanwhile M is stood behind V and is caressing Anna's face, boobs and tummy. D is stood behind Anna and myself and is gently fingering and playing with Anna's pussy. Then as i'm licking V's pussy, gently sucking on her clit with my lovers spread legs quivering against my ribs it struck me...this is soft swap and its amazing !!

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We like soft swing

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury

Kinda what we look for. Especially FF play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still not many from the vast amount of couples are into soft play.

Also we are both straight and 95% of females seem to be bi, nothing against it- but we are up against it.

X"

Not necessarily, I (female) am bi but would happily play straight with a couple. We enjoy full swap but would also happily enjoy soft play too.

X

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"So there we were in Swingers Quay this weekend. V and I had helped Anna to step up onto the platform and put her wrists through the hanging rope loops. Anna stood there smiling with legs spread wide. Separated only by an X section of chain V jumped up onto the other side of the structure and pushed herself up against Anna. After some very sexy slipping and sliding against each other. V knelt on the floor and started to kiss and lick down Annas tummy and pussy. I knelt behind Anna and after some gentle play with her sexy bottom and pussy i slide through Annas spread legs and asked V if i could touch her. V paused from licking and kissing Anna to give her permission and guided my face to her lush boobs, after a while Ilick my way down V's delicious body to her pussy. Meanwhile M is stood behind V and is caressing Anna's face, boobs and tummy. D is stood behind Anna and myself and is gently fingering and playing with Anna's pussy. Then as i'm licking V's pussy, gently sucking on her clit with my lovers spread legs quivering against my ribs it struck me...this is soft swap and its amazing !! "

To many folk dismiss soft swap, but like you just described above it can be incredible. Why oh why do folk think its a deal breaker if they cant finish off by sticking it in. Finishing can be so many different ways not just full penetration. Hands, boobs, mouth to name the 3 obvious. So what would one rather do, what the post above says or walk into a room, put a condom on, shag the lady to completion and walk out. Soft swap can be awesome. Everyone has different reasons for being here, we know folk watching each other f##king can be the reason so soft swap will never work for these people. Folk should never say its boring as the scenario above certainly isn't boring in our eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So there we were in Swingers Quay this weekend. V and I had helped Anna to step up onto the platform and put her wrists through the hanging rope loops. Anna stood there smiling with legs spread wide. Separated only by an X section of chain V jumped up onto the other side of the structure and pushed herself up against Anna. After some very sexy slipping and sliding against each other. V knelt on the floor and started to kiss and lick down Annas tummy and pussy. I knelt behind Anna and after some gentle play with her sexy bottom and pussy i slide through Annas spread legs and asked V if i could touch her. V paused from licking and kissing Anna to give her permission and guided my face to her lush boobs, after a while Ilick my way down V's delicious body to her pussy. Meanwhile M is stood behind V and is caressing Anna's face, boobs and tummy. D is stood behind Anna and myself and is gently fingering and playing with Anna's pussy. Then as i'm licking V's pussy, gently sucking on her clit with my lovers spread legs quivering against my ribs it struck me...this is soft swap and its amazing !! "

That really does sound amazing x

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Any invites for a single bloke ???

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By *layfulexplorers2Couple
over a year ago

Bath


"So there we were in Swingers Quay this weekend. V and I had helped Anna to step up onto the platform and put her wrists through the hanging rope loops. Anna stood there smiling with legs spread wide. Separated only by an X section of chain V jumped up onto the other side of the structure and pushed herself up against Anna. After some very sexy slipping and sliding against each other. V knelt on the floor and started to kiss and lick down Annas tummy and pussy. I knelt behind Anna and after some gentle play with her sexy bottom and pussy i slide through Annas spread legs and asked V if i could touch her. V paused from licking and kissing Anna to give her permission and guided my face to her lush boobs, after a while Ilick my way down V's delicious body to her pussy. Meanwhile M is stood behind V and is caressing Anna's face, boobs and tummy. D is stood behind Anna and myself and is gently fingering and playing with Anna's pussy. Then as i'm licking V's pussy, gently sucking on her clit with my lovers spread legs quivering against my ribs it struck me...this is soft swap and its amazing !!

To many folk dismiss soft swap, but like you just described above it can be incredible. Why oh why do folk think its a deal breaker if they cant finish off by sticking it in. Finishing can be so many different ways not just full penetration. Hands, boobs, mouth to name the 3 obvious. So what would one rather do, what the post above says or walk into a room, put a condom on, shag the lady to completion and walk out. Soft swap can be awesome. Everyone has different reasons for being here, we know folk watching each other f##king can be the reason so soft swap will never work for these people. Folk should never say its boring as the scenario above certainly isn't boring in our eyes

"

Thank you. I should have said that it was Anna's birthday too. Also the lovely friendly vibe of the venue, its clientel and facilities were a big part of making this scene with us by no means hardened funsters happen. We'll be back for sure.

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By *layfulexplorers2Couple
over a year ago

Bath


"So there we were in Swingers Quay this weekend. V and I had helped Anna to step up onto the platform and put her wrists through the hanging rope loops. Anna stood there smiling with legs spread wide. Separated only by an X section of chain V jumped up onto the other side of the structure and pushed herself up against Anna. After some very sexy slipping and sliding against each other. V knelt on the floor and started to kiss and lick down Annas tummy and pussy. I knelt behind Anna and after some gentle play with her sexy bottom and pussy i slide through Annas spread legs and asked V if i could touch her. V paused from licking and kissing Anna to give her permission and guided my face to her lush boobs, after a while Ilick my way down V's delicious body to her pussy. Meanwhile M is stood behind V and is caressing Anna's face, boobs and tummy. D is stood behind Anna and myself and is gently fingering and playing with Anna's pussy. Then as i'm licking V's pussy, gently sucking on her clit with my lovers spread legs quivering against my ribs it struck me...this is soft swap and its amazing !!

That really does sound amazing x"

Thanks yes it was. As Anna came hard, her legs gave way. How lush it was when D & I caught and together supported her weight as M supported her head. Together we guided her to recover on some nearby seating.

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By *layfulexplorers2Couple
over a year ago

Bath


"Any invites for a single bloke ???"
Go to a club that allows single guys. Be pleasant, don't follow couples around and you might get invited to join a nice scene. If you do get invited to join in do not over step any boundaries indicated and say thank you afterwards. Good luck.

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By *ucky1sCouple
over a year ago

yorkshire

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By *ucky1sCouple
over a year ago

yorkshire

love soft swap so horny seeing how far it goes before someone mentions full swap xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any invites for a single bloke ??? Go to a club that allows single guys. Be pleasant, don't follow couples around and you might get invited to join a nice scene. If you do get invited to join in do not over step any boundaries indicated and say thank you afterwards. Good luck."
thankyou really ha as in I'm so grateful?

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By *dventurouscouple69Couple
over a year ago

swingerville

Soft swap couple here

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By *layfulexplorers2Couple
over a year ago

Bath


"Any invites for a single bloke ??? Go to a club that allows single guys. Be pleasant, don't follow couples around and you might get invited to join a nice scene. If you do get invited to join in do not over step any boundaries indicated and say thank you afterwards. Good luck.thankyou really ha as in I'm so grateful? "

Why not?? Something like thank you, that was lovely. I always say thank you. Our response would be thank you and maybe lets do it again sometime or fancy a drink. Politeness costs nothing.

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

I always say please .may I and thank you .

Makes no odds . Site is full of timewasters!!

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By *rban-NitesCouple
over a year ago

LONDON (SE)

We are a soft swap couple and even though there seems to be plenty of others out there happy to play soft, we have found that they are so hard to actually meet up with. which is the mystery...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*waves*

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

We welcome Soft Play and unfortunately have experienced difficulties in finding those couples. We’re also open to full but as with all interactions, chemistry is paramount.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a soft swap couple and even though there seems to be plenty of others out there happy to play soft, we have found that they are so hard to actually meet up with. which is the mystery... "
It's the single mans constant dilemma it would seem

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By *ewbies7Couple
over a year ago

north west

We soft play and find most couples happy to respect that.

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Use this thread to network and arrange meets, as there are plenty of you, and you seem to have a common problem of finding similar couples.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Use this thread to network and arrange meets, as there are plenty of you, and you seem to have a common problem of finding similar couples. "

We certainly don't have any problems meeting great respectful people. Soft swap and living the dream my friend

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Use this thread to network and arrange meets, as there are plenty of you, and you seem to have a common problem of finding similar couples. "

Problem finding any couples that want to actually meet lol there’s only single guys that are here to meet just lately

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By *xkinkycouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

we are up for soft swing or full on, we enjoy and embrace the fun that can be had

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We consider ourselves neither soft swap or full swap.

We simply prefer to meet folks and see where the fun takes us with no limitations or expectations other than everyone’s mutual respect, comfort and boundaries.

As such we tend to avoid folks that insist on soft swap only or full swap only in their profiles.

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By *xkinkycouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath


"We consider ourselves neither soft swap or full swap.

We simply prefer to meet folks and see where the fun takes us with no limitations or expectations other than everyone’s mutual respect, comfort and boundaries.

As such we tend to avoid folks that insist on soft swap only or full swap only in their profiles. "

that sounds more like it actually, good way to put it. we dont avoid them just second think it, as we pretty open to newbies also.

S x

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Use this thread to network and arrange meets, as there are plenty of you, and you seem to have a common problem of finding similar couples.

Problem finding any couples that want to actually meet lol there’s only single guys that are here to meet just lately"

We've just about, but not completely, given up messaging couples that seem to match our profile, they either just ignore or not serious about meeting. Good job we have plenty of friends we still meet up with to live our dream and the great people we meet when in clubs. The amount of no shows even when we arrange to meet in a club is getting ridiculous. Hey ho, always positive with no expectations, ever

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Use this thread to network and arrange meets, as there are plenty of you, and you seem to have a common problem of finding similar couples.

Problem finding any couples that want to actually meet lol there’s only single guys that are here to meet just lately

We've just about, but not completely, given up messaging couples that seem to match our profile, they either just ignore or not serious about meeting. Good job we have plenty of friends we still meet up with to live our dream and the great people we meet when in clubs. The amount of no shows even when we arrange to meet in a club is getting ridiculous. Hey ho, always positive with no expectations, ever"

We don’t bother messaging either, don’t even look anymore lol and probably only get 1 out of 30 messages from couples, the rest are guys. Definite shortage of couples wanting to meet that’s for sure.

Thank goodness for friends, parties & clubs

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Use this thread to network and arrange meets, as there are plenty of you, and you seem to have a common problem of finding similar couples.

Problem finding any couples that want to actually meet lol there’s only single guys that are here to meet just lately"
Seems about the weight of it just lately, but it was not always that way.

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