FabSwingers.com forum: pest on fone and advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hey ppl i gae number out ages ago to someone but now gave that fone to my bf and person keeps txtin an saying going to report my profile cos he dont know about it and whot he person is

what should i do, as they are threatening to tell admin im fake even though they spoken to me on fone and i have veris am me???

advice please

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

IGNORE him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

am just worried cos my bf know about fab but i dont want him getting pestered an the person said will tell admin am fake.

if its the person i think it is it was clearly a man who i called an was so obv but i dont wana get kicked off fab

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

isn't your BF on here...

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

Get your boyfriend to change the sim and number.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes he is on here, but i got new work fone so gave him my old one with my sim as i had a great contract an price.

so he added his contacts an stuff then he got txt off this person so he said he didnt know em... so then now they keep txtin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get your boyfriend to change the sim and number."

i owuld but i gave him the sim an fone as i had great deal an changin it would screw that up was tryin save him lil money

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the more you react on here and on the phone, the more he will get a kick..

silence is the most perfect expression of scorn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

but what if this person reports me an stuff ill get kicked off fab an loose the nice ppl ive met an chatted to on here

just feel dumb cos i never give number (usually) out an only have few times now this person annoyin me

just got bf download a number blocker to prevent more msgs

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Just get your bf to ignore him,its that simple

If you are who you say you are then why are you worried about being kicked off fab

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

what exactly can the guy report you for?

you are verified as genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

because the person is sayin going to tell admin am fake and report my profile, duno if this can be done but just annoyed me lol

i have told bf block number so thats sorted hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"what exactly can the guy report you for?

you are verified as genuine."

that what i thought but think just cos it been botherin my fella an i know he on here but he dont use it much at mo cos workin, an he busy an stressin loads an this person txtin him just bugged me.

sorry for moanin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contact your provider and get a new sim card or depending on phone just block him. And report him to admin for abuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

bf just downloaded an app to block numbers an txts.

i cant remember who it was i think i bocked the person but doesnt seem be on my list now so pressume he left site or has started new name,

just frustrated me.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

"because the person is sayin going to tell admin am fake and report my profile, duno if this can be done but just annoyed me lol

i have told bf block number so thats sorted hehe

as far as I'm aware, admin can't do anything about things that happen outside the site.

So even if you were Steve McManorwoman, admin would need something more to go on than the say-so of some random internet stranger and his claims to have tried to call you and spoken to a bloke at the other end of the phone - really? what can he prove?

admin would need more to go on than that - and of course you have the word of (presumably) several verified members that you are a real person.

so don't sweat it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Contact your provider and get a new sim card or depending on phone just block him. And report him to admin for abuse"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the OP

not sure what network your contract is with but

i was getting harrassing calls last year from an ex, i phoned up orange, asked them to change my number. They did it straight away, no problems and no charge.

Its worth asking your network provider to change number.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For the OP

not sure what network your contract is with but

i was getting harrassing calls last year from an ex, i phoned up orange, asked them to change my number. They did it straight away, no problems and no charge.

Its worth asking your network provider to change number."

thanks ill have look when am off next an sort it

thank everyone for infomation sorry if i sound silly moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contact your mobile provider. They can.block numbers from contacting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block the number

if the person decides to ring. tell him that you are asking him to leave to alone and if he continues you will report the number to the police for harassment

jot the time and date on down and keep a log just as its a text it can be classed as harassment and threatening behaviour still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what exactly can the guy report you for?

you are verified as genuine."

My thoughts exactly and good advice above. Block the number and ignore him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"what exactly can the guy report you for?

you are verified as genuine.

My thoughts exactly and good advice above. Block the number and ignore him."

Ta I have and ta for reply ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be fair it takes alot more to get banned off the site than one person contacting the admin saying your fake, block & never think of them again

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By *ov coupleCouple
over a year ago

coleford

dont give your num out have a mobile for fab only

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Normally never give number out usually always the caller.

Well lesson learned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why don't you report him for threatening you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bin the sim card - simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what i do, you have a template or draft message section, simply type, 'sorry your message could not be sent as it has been blocked and reported to the contract provider.'

He will not know its you who sent it. then he will get fed up of texting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can get a new number i have had to get this done and is should be free if you have not done it before and it only takes a call to you host, and it done in 5 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With posts like this there is a great risk of the OP's aggressor/problem person also reading any advice given and staying one step ahead. Any advice is probably best kept to PM to keep him in the dark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With posts like this there is a great risk of the OP's aggressor/problem person also reading any advice given and staying one step ahead. Any advice is probably best kept to PM to keep him in the dark.

S. "

Not to mention give admin respect to know when someone trying to create trouble for someone.

The person doing this is risking his own account ignore as your boyfriend knows whats going on.

He'll get more kicks out of knowing it's bothering you.

I not sure but can't you get the number banned from texting or phoning you?

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