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Classic time waster

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london

A person on my friends list messages me after my status that I was looking for meet today.

Says she will be here by 4.. reaches 5 so I text to ask If everything is okay..

Her reply, I had a meet come over instead and I can’t cum twice so I can’t come over.

Wtf where do these people come from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dump her. She's not a friend.

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london

Deleted from friends list already and messaged delete my number.

Her reply was sending me a video of her tits.

What part of ‘ not interested’ do you not understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same place as the guys that send a phone number and hotel saying fancy sex WTF???

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london


"Same place as the guys that send a phone number and hotel saying fancy sex WTF??? "

Ha.. nice pics poster. You won’t struggle for a knight in shining armour

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Dump her. She's not a friend."

This. Block her too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dump her. She's not a friend.

This. Block her too "

I would agree he should block her but he won't and sadly many women know that won't happen. In reality a woman on here rarely gives a fuck if they are blocked as like the OP has found out cocks grow on trees here as prolifically as bananas do in the Caribbean. He will like many of us be pissed of moan on here and be ready next time she rings her bootie bell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get confused by the definition of friend on here???

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london


"Dump her. She's not a friend.

This. Block her too

I would agree he should block her but he won't and sadly many women know that won't happen. In reality a woman on here rarely gives a fuck if they are blocked as like the OP has found out cocks grow on trees here as prolifically as bananas do in the Caribbean. He will like many of us be pissed of moan on here and be ready next time she rings her bootie bell "

Blocked and deleted. Absurd poster... What gives you the impression I wait take up a booty call from a time waster? I like sex as much as next person however I also value myself and don’t get walked over. Try it sometime.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Agree delete and block

Sounds all about her anyway and its common decency to message soneone and say you're not coming over as agreed.

Miss

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I always get confused by the definition of friend on here??? "

To me, a friend is someone I've actually met.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"I always get confused by the definition of friend on here???

To me, a friend is someone I've actually met. "

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should of told her that’s ok, she can still turn up and make you cum

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Total attention seeker. Better luck next time OP!

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Agree delete and block

Sounds all about her anyway and its common decency to message soneone and say you're not coming over as agreed.

Miss"

Trouble is this is FAB where common decency doesn’t seem to be all that common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always get confused by the definition of friend on here???

To me, a friend is someone I've actually met.

This exactly"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who uses the phrase “time waster” sounds entitled and angsty, which always makes me assume that the person didn’t meet them with good reason.

I don’t think I’ve ever known a reasonable and friendly person to use that phrase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Deleted from friends list already and messaged delete my number.

Her reply was sending me a video of her tits.

What part of ‘ not interested’ do you not understand "

Persistent. If anything. X

Next.....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"A person on my friends list messages me after my status that I was looking for meet today.

Says she will be here by 4.. reaches 5 so I text to ask If everything is okay..

Her reply, I had a meet come over instead and I can’t cum twice so I can’t come over.

Wtf where do these people come from."

No idea where they come from but you know where they can go....

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Anyone who uses the phrase “time waster” sounds entitled and angsty, which always makes me assume that the person didn’t meet them with good reason.

I don’t think I’ve ever known a reasonable and friendly person to use that phrase."

Although if someone had gone through the effort to get ready and gone out to meet someone for that person to just not even show up without so much as a message to say so, I think they’d be quite justified in calling them a timewaster.

I’ve been called a timewaster by guys who messaged me then within 5 mins asking me when I can meet. As I wasn’t avaialble they’ve called me a timewaster and blocked me. Oh well, no skin off my nose. But in that instance I’d agree with you that they do appear entitled and angsty

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I always get confused by the definition of friend on here??? "

This^^^^^^. If she was friend,she wouldn't of done that. A fab friend would though . So it's clear which type of friend she was. I wouldn't even had said anything. The time would have come and passed. I would've deleted all contact with her with not so much as peep from me . I'm not gonna tell you not to message me etc...my silence is deafening

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London

I wouldn't consider someone that I've never met to be an genuine friend and experience has taught me that many people arrange meets and fail to follow through.I would describe someone as a time waster for doing that,but I've also been called the same for asking questions in order to ascertain if that person was veritable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should of invited her over for a dry run then

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By *unnerbenMan
over a year ago

Dublin / Cork

She sounds like a fake ! Only arrange meets with verified people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who uses the phrase “time waster” sounds entitled and angsty, which always makes me assume that the person didn’t meet them with good reason.

I don’t think I’ve ever known a reasonable and friendly person to use that phrase."

I do. Anyone who takes up my precious time by talking to me when they have no intentions of meeting me, or ask to meet then decide to meet someone else instead has wasted my time and are a time waster.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Would that be like one of those ancient philosopher type dudes -like Socrates or sumfin?

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky


"Anyone who uses the phrase “time waster” sounds entitled and angsty, which always makes me assume that the person didn’t meet them with good reason.

I don’t think I’ve ever known a reasonable and friendly person to use that phrase.

I do. Anyone who takes up my precious time by talking to me when they have no intentions of meeting me, or ask to meet then decide to meet someone else instead has wasted my time and are a time waster. "

Most definitely

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

London & North Wessex Downs

Reassuring but depressing that it's not always just the guys on here that are timewasters. Sorry to hear you were messed around! Been there and have the Tee-Shirt

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