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By *aeBabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

So have you ever been talking to someone and have met socially, arrange to meet for a play meet, building up the sexual chemistry and energy then them asking you to bring another girl?

Like I know I enjoy group play but when the mind is geared towards the focus being on each other then adding someone last minute, it kind of leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

Anyone else feel like this or experienced This?

Am I over analysing the situation?

Thanks x

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"So have you ever been talking to someone and have met socially, arrange to meet for a play meet, building up the sexual chemistry and energy then them asking you to bring another girl?

Like I know I enjoy group play but when the mind is geared towards the focus being on each other then adding someone last minute, it kind of leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

Anyone else feel like this or experienced This?

Am I over analysing the situation?

Thanks x

"

Instant block. He's just using you to fuck others. It's not about your needs, all about his. Don't get me wrong I adhore 3sums but on my terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I agree it totally pisses me off when men do this. I just flat out go off them then.

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By *aeBabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

It really grinds my gears

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would be mightily pissed off op.

There’s one school of thought that says it's only sex and as such anything goes, which is great if everyone is of the same mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block move on.

done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So have you ever been talking to someone and have met socially, arrange to meet for a play meet, building up the sexual chemistry and energy then them asking you to bring another girl?

Like I know I enjoy group play but when the mind is geared towards the focus being on each other then adding someone last minute, it kind of leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

Anyone else feel like this or experienced This?

Am I over analysing the situation?

Thanks x

"

No you're not. It's massively bad mannered and hugely assumptive...just rude.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

This proper hacks me off too, if I get asked before I've even met them they get blocked, but I'm a fiery red head!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I wouldn't meet them, block and move on x

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Take a male friend and explain it’s just in case your new friend wasn’t any good sexually...

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By *aeBabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Take a male friend and explain it’s just in case your new friend wasn’t any good sexually... "

Haha

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester


"Take a male friend and explain it’s just in case your new friend wasn’t any good sexually... "

Thanks, that made me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So have you ever been talking to someone and have met socially, arrange to meet for a play meet, building up the sexual chemistry and energy then them asking you to bring another girl?

Like I know I enjoy group play but when the mind is geared towards the focus being on each other then adding someone last minute, it kind of leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

Anyone else feel like this or experienced This?

Am I over analysing the situation?

Thanks x

"

Cheeky bastard. Instant block from me.

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By *ll That Ass 67Woman
over a year ago

Kettering


"Take a male friend and explain it’s just in case your new friend wasn’t any good sexually... "

Brilliant !

Wish I had thought of this instead of just getting annoyed!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Would be seriously pissed off! We'd arranged a mmmf meet, travelling a fair way too, hotel etc, night before got told we'd be one of three couples which had never been part of the arrangement. Let them know what we thought and blocked. You're right to be miffed op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So have you ever been talking to someone and have met socially, arrange to meet for a play meet, building up the sexual chemistry and energy then them asking you to bring another girl?

Like I know I enjoy group play but when the mind is geared towards the focus being on each other then adding someone last minute, it kind of leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

Anyone else feel like this or experienced This?

Am I over analysing the situation?

Thanks x

"
yes not good, coz he doesn't have eyes for only you , he has eyes for the whole site but that could apply to many guys here and some women to, that's swinging some would say, suppose it really depends what you discussed in lead up to meeting and what you wanted from your liason with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of the reasons I'm "straight"!

I still get asked occasionally though.

I'd be mighty pissed off if you'd agreed to a one on one meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that this happens to me regularly OP and it really pisses me off, so it puts me off them instantly and I don't even do the meet with them

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Take a male friend and explain it’s just in case your new friend wasn’t any good sexually... "

Genius, I'll suggest that to the next one that asks

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By *aeBabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"So have you ever been talking to someone and have met socially, arrange to meet for a play meet, building up the sexual chemistry and energy then them asking you to bring another girl?

Like I know I enjoy group play but when the mind is geared towards the focus being on each other then adding someone last minute, it kind of leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

Anyone else feel like this or experienced This?

Am I over analysing the situation?

Thanks x

yes not good, coz he doesn't have eyes for only you , he has eyes for the whole site but that could apply to many guys here and some women to, that's swinging some would say, suppose it really depends what you discussed in lead up to meeting and what you wanted from your liason with him "

I know what swinging is and know that he has his fantasies but arranging to meet one on one then suddenly asking for another girl to join is not what was agreed.

Like I said I enjoy group fun, however that wasn't what we had discussed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So have you ever been talking to someone and have met socially, arrange to meet for a play meet, building up the sexual chemistry and energy then them asking you to bring another girl?

Like I know I enjoy group play but when the mind is geared towards the focus being on each other then adding someone last minute, it kind of leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

Anyone else feel like this or experienced This?

Am I over analysing the situation?

Thanks x

"

It depends on the circumstances but I would prefer to meet one on one but in your situation I would have countered with suggesting brining a bi male instead.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No ,had it opposite way on my single profile

He said he'd bring a sometime playmate,I said no ta i'm straight and looking for 1 on 1.

We never met....

Miss

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I haven't had this happen and I'd be annoyed if it did. I have had people I've met before surprise me with new people, but only after we'd discussed that I'd like the idea. But generally I want to get to know people one on one first.

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester

Wow I can’t believe some guys cheeky attitude to do things like this to a gorgeous girl like you OP xx

I can only speak for me as this is not something I would ever do to a lady or couple. If I had arranged to meet them then I would not ask for anyone else to join unless it was a group organised event and even then I would direct them to contact the other party.

Total block the guy for suggesting it and don’t meet him would be what I would be doing if I was a female in this situation

There is a lot more of us genuine guys on here that would love to just have you alone.

You fancy a trip to Chester

Xx

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