FabSwingers.com forum: How to approach

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So be interesting to hear peoples VIEWS on the first message and what is the way to approach ?

What dont work ? what does ? Is there a wrong way ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different people require different types of approaches. Read the profile and tailor your message to their likes/personality

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Different people require different types of approaches. Read the profile and tailor your message to their likes/personality"

Hi well i do that quite often as always read profiles but still on some cases it dont work .

Would you respond to respectful or slightly naughty message ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t be cocky and arrogant. We will just delete you.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

There is no one size fits all approach. I have typed lazy openers a couple of times but surprisingly still managed to get replies. Other times I have responded carefully with a well thought out message which just got deleted immediately.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Read their profile, then read it again, check out their pictures then read again. If you are still interested then, a simple I like what you said/wore/posted in the forum. Be nice and send a face pic. Most women don't want penis pictures in their first message. But they do want nice eyes and a smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is no one size fits all approach. I have typed lazy openers a couple of times but surprisingly still managed to get replies. Other times I have responded carefully with a well thought out message which just got deleted immediately. "

I have found this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Different people require different types of approaches. Read the profile and tailor your message to their likes/personality

Hi well i do that quite often as always read profiles but still on some cases it dont work .

Would you respond to respectful or slightly naughty message ? "

Well, from the tenor of my profile and pictures, what do you think???

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"So be interesting to hear peoples VIEWS on the first message and what is the way to approach ?

What dont work ? what does ? Is there a wrong way ? "

Text speech, asking location, sending cock pics and fancy a fuck messages really don't work at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So be interesting to hear peoples VIEWS on the first message and what is the way to approach ?

What dont work ? what does ? Is there a wrong way ? "

Reading their profile fully works. Only emailing people whose criteria you fit works. Accepting no reply = no thanks works. Treating people with respect works.

What doesn't work for me is

Cock shots.

One line replies.

Thinking I am a free postitute.

Telling me what you would do to me in your opening/first email.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Different people require different types of approaches. Read the profile and tailor your message to their likes/personality

Hi well i do that quite often as always read profiles but still on some cases it dont work .

Would you respond to respectful or slightly naughty message ? "

Respectful.

A sense of humour in an email I receive grabs my attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself.

Trying to be what you think people want you to be grinds you down and eats away at your soul.

Eventually the bitterness takes over as the real you is lost and you never really get it back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do nothing.

i hardly send mail now, i just look at profiles.

of course id like to but i see so many dont say this, dont do that you just think your up against it straight away.

no fun in that for me.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Be yourself.

Trying to be what you think people want you to be grinds you down and eats away at your soul.

Eventually the bitterness takes over as the real you is lost and you never really get it back.

Why try and change yourself to suit others? If you don't match their preferences just move on. Simple.

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