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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m having a lot of problems with getting replies on this site, what is it that people want to hear when someone pops up to them.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

You're a straight man who can't accommodate.

It's a brutal answer, but there's your problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 08/10/18 13:15:33]

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

Probably being so young won't be helping and the majority of cock pics its just what appeals and what doesn't means the difference between someone being interested and replying or not.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

We're all individuals ("I'm not!" /Life of Brian). We all want different things. Profiles should give you an indication of how to message people.

As others have said your age will work against you. So might your profile, but as you haven't asked I'll not elaborate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m having a lot of problems with getting replies on this site, what is it that people want to hear when someone pops up to them.

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have you got replies turned on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There’s a reply turn on button. Are you pulling my tail?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you say that because I’m so young people would think my experience in sex is shallow?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Would you say that because I’m so young people would think my experience in sex is shallow? "

That's less my concern. More immaturity, selfishness, not thinking things through. It's not personal, it's just the way young people often are.

Others have kids older (sometimes much older) than you. Age differences bother people. I'm pretty open minded, but I can't be doing with under 25. Just a different head space, still growing up in some ways, in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much as life, sex is about different tastes. Don’t worry about lack of replies, there’s loads of guys on this site to compete with. Keep trying and eventually you’ll catch someone’s eye and you’ll have a lot of fun from it.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Cock pics. Nuff said.

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

As I’ve said before I wouldn’t dream of trying to use Fab for meets

My suggestion to the Op would be just to keep hitting the send button and use the scenario that throw enough shit and some will stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect it’s your age too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 18 it’s most definitely your age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m having a lot of problems with getting replies on this site, what is it that people want to hear when someone pops up to them.

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Do you message people looking for your age, same likes as you a d wanting to get messages from single men?

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Be vague and obtuse - it always works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK sorry but I am going to throw a little science at you. The prefrontal cortex of the human brain does not fully develop until a person is about 25. So until then your decision making process is hindered by impulsive behaviour. That makes young people a bit of an uncomfortable variable. As pretty as you youngers are, you are high risk and this lifestyle comes with enough of those as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK sorry but I am going to throw a little science at you. The prefrontal cortex of the human brain does not fully develop until a person is about 25. So until then your decision making process is hindered by impulsive behaviour. That makes young people a bit of an uncomfortable variable. As pretty as you youngers are, you are high risk and this lifestyle comes with enough of those as it is."

At least give feedback on the things he can change?

Unless the guy is about to pull the master sword from the pedestal of time he's not going to age 7 years instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Valid point. OK go to clubs and socialise with the people there. Do the groundwork for a life as a swinger. Get to know people and learn what you can. You might become a pet for an experienced person or couple.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don’t be a twat. Works when you’re 48 as well as 18.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you say that because I’m so young people would think my experience in sex is shallow? "

age is one point cock pics are a no no to start with

cockiness don't help, you claim to be able to give a lady everything she needs , at 18 yrs old, what do you know that didn't take most of us a lifetime to learn,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At 18 it’s most definitely your age! "
How is it many women in their prime 35 and upwards yearn for an 18 year old

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"At 18 it’s most definitely your age! How is it many women in their prime 35 and upwards yearn for an 18 year old "

Stamina and a young hard cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At 18 it’s most definitely your age! How is it many women in their prime 35 and upwards yearn for an 18 year old "

Not true! Im 37. I have a 20 yr old and a 18 yr old son. No way am I interested in meeting an 18 yr old.

OP, you don't accommodate and don't live alone. Lots of us have kids at home so don't accommodate. Going into a guys house with his parents or house share buddy on the other side of a wall, isn't appealing.

I'm sorry to sound harsh but that's my opinion.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"At 18 it’s most definitely your age! How is it many women in their prime 35 and upwards yearn for an 18 year old

Stamina and a young hard cock "

Eww no would just feel wrong. My kids are older. 35 plus any day.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Is say predominantly it's your age for the various reasons given above.

It starts with your profile. I read it and was waiting for the 'unusual' bit but I'm not sure I got to it!! Was it the massage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m having a lot of problems with getting replies on this site, what is it that people want to hear when someone pops up to them.

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This isn't the right place for a guy your age! Hook ups for you, are far easier in pubs night clubs, festivals etc!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I would suggest you just go along to clubs and meet people. You can always give massages there if that's your thing.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I don't always agree with the views of the ladies most times, I usually always have a different opinion to most of their views with regards to the different topics we discuss but on this particular topic I would say I agree with them 100%.

The ladies are right on this one.

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road


"You're a straight man who can't accommodate.

It's a brutal answer, but there's your problem.

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whu is been straight away broblem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At 18 it’s most definitely your age! How is it many women in their prime 35 and upwards yearn for an 18 year old "

In my experience they don't, why do you think they do. Almost invariably on here they want 25+ or even older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At 18 it’s most definitely your age! How is it many women in their prime 35 and upwards yearn for an 18 year old

In my experience they don't, why do you think they do. Almost invariably on here they want 25+ or even older. "
many women do just not many women in forums, I think it's for the reason somebody said earlier youth and stamina, I personally think the older guy is far better, experience and confidence surely outweigh inexperience and maybe stamina, I still have stamina so not sure what that means really but as somebody else said maybe it's not the place for an 18 year old to gain sexual experience with your peers would maybe be a better place for you Op but their are a few young women here who seem to do well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m having a lot of problems with getting replies on this site, what is it that people want to hear when someone pops up to them.

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That how it goes on here were the men out number the women 1000-1 so they are very picky i would say but for see your profile your doing well with making friend anyway good luck on here.

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By *rme2008Man
over a year ago

devon

I also can’t find a couple or get replies

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By *rme2008Man
over a year ago

devon

Hi why can’t I find a couple or lady to meet in the southwest ??

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"Hi why can’t I find a couple or lady to meet in the southwest ??"

Ditto for the south east.

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