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By *oza OP   Woman
over a year ago

Morecambe

hoping to go to a club in the next few weeks but really nervous about it as I am a bbw and if I don't go bbw night is anyone usually rude or nasty? just nervous lol help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All shapes and sizes at clubs every night of the week. No need to worry (easily said I know) x

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By *oza OP   Woman
over a year ago

Morecambe

thanks Pandora makes me feel bit more at ease now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d second Pandora’s comment. I feel less negatively judged on my body sat semi naked in a club than I do out in public. Club goers are definitely NOT all buff, permatanned nymphs. Try a club where you don’t have to dress down immediately. I’m pretty sure you will have a good time!

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By *oza OP   Woman
over a year ago

Morecambe

that would be good have a cpl of dutcg courage drinks lol

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Go for it. Never been judged for how we look in club and we far from models lol.

We actually find it comfortable that everyone half naked in clubs, no one got anything to hide

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

As soon as you’ve got past the nerves and walked through the door you will wonder what you were worried about. Go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op know how you feel, I'm a man with body issues through scars. Would love to go to a club but feel I would be judged, or feel inadequate around the other men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop worrying and get yourself there. People are just very normal and I've never heard anyone bad mouthing anyone else. No one is perfect and many of us have insecurities about some parts of our bodies, I know I do. Find some confidence, hope you head high, walk tall and enjoy.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Every club I've ever been to has been a great mix of people of all ages, ethnicity, body shape etc. You have no need to worry that you won't fit in.

Have a look on the club reviews, links to club websites are on there too. Do some research when choosing a club and pick the one that appeals most. Most clubs are happy to answer any questions you may have before you go. When you arrive ask for a tour of the club and they will show you around, explain rules and etiquette, tell you what to do if anyone makes you feel uncomfortable and hopefully introduce you to a few people.

All you need to do is pluck up the courage to do it

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By *urveykittyWoman
over a year ago

west sussex area

Don't worry, you will relax very quickly. I'm a plus size, and soon realised I had no need to be body concious at clubs

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Stop worrying and get yourself there. People are just very normal and I've never heard anyone bad mouthing anyone else. No one is perfect and many of us have insecurities about some parts of our bodies, I know I do. Find some confidence, hope you head high, walk tall and enjoy."

This.

People who go there are like everywhere, you'll not be everyone's cup of tea.

Most in our limited experience are respectful and usually keep judgements of others to themselves.

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

Please remember that many people prefer BBWs, and those that don't won't judge you anyway.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

Yes---just go! I found a LOT of body confidence once I started attending clubs.

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