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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are we unusual, as in, we only accept friend invites from people we’ve actually met?

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I only except after chatting first and then not always

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Chat first, get to know them a little.

That's why in our friends pictures we are more recognisable.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Are we unusual, as in, we only accept friend invites from people we’ve actually met?"

Were the same, despite stating on bio, we get random invites daily from couples/singles weve never so much as messaged us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat first, swap face pics then friends for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we unusual, as in, we only accept friend invites from people we’ve actually met?"

Thats how we do our face pics, not overly bothered about how other people use it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We’ve exchanged messages from so called couples who have then asked for photos and sent friend request, in order to see our friends only photos, I assume? When we reply that we only accept invites from people we’ve met, they disappear, never to be heard of again?

It’s easy for someone to post photos that aren’t theirs and pretend to be a couple in messages. The proof of the pudding, for us, is a face to face meet. It’s not that difficult to arrange a drink in a pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’ve exchanged messages from so called couples who have then asked for photos and sent friend request, in order to see our friends only photos, I assume? When we reply that we only accept invites from people we’ve met, they disappear, never to be heard of again?

It’s easy for someone to post photos that aren’t theirs and pretend to be a couple in messages. The proof of the pudding, for us, is a face to face meet. It’s not that difficult to arrange a drink in a pub."

Darn site harder than exchanging face pics if your friends pics. Then you know if it's worth arranging a social, normally it isn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, but we could send photos of anyone and no one would know whether it’s actually us, or not, without meeting face to face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, but we could send photos of anyone and no one would know whether it’s actually us, or not, without meeting face to face?"

That's why the site has photo verification.

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I accept after chatting for a while and swapping face pics.

I actually have folk on my friends list that I wouldnt meet to play but see at socials and are just "friends" x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have it in our profile, we only add people we’ve met/played with

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Are we unusual, as in, we only accept friend invites from people we’ve actually met?"

Same for us with the odd exception if Flik has chatted with them a lot in the chat rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat, then add friends, chat a bit more and hopefully meet if all goes well

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

For those that I've meet or am going to meet

Anything else, forget it

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

We never accept a friend request unless we’ve met or on the rare occasion, exchanged a few messages to establish if we are on same wave length.

Random friends invites never get accepted

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"Chat first, swap face pics then friends for us"

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm the same OP, it's not unusual x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No people we have met or who we intend to meet

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I never suggest it, but always wait until we've chatted enough for those I've messaged to be happy enough to add me. Feels like it's confirming me to be a decent guy who's worth getting to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will only accept requests if we have chatted for a while , swapped face pics and established an all round interest to meet . The random requests that we state on our profile we dont accept will get left then when we feel cheeky , wait till they are offline ...add them and fab a few friends only pics and unfriend especially the ones who keep requesting friends with no other communication at all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only accept invites from people we’ve messaged we get a lot of randoms and they all get deleted. Unsolicited invites from single guys get a block

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire


"Are we unusual, as in, we only accept friend invites from people we’ve actually met?"

This is the only way I accept too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatting 1st unless theyre super fit and have a bunch of friend only pics I'd like to see lmao. Not common though

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"We’ve exchanged messages from so called couples who have then asked for photos and sent friend request, in order to see our friends only photos, I assume? When we reply that we only accept invites from people we’ve met, they disappear, never to be heard of again?

It’s easy for someone to post photos that aren’t theirs and pretend to be a couple in messages. The proof of the pudding, for us, is a face to face meet. It’s not that difficult to arrange a drink in a pub."

Exactly this

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Yes, but we could send photos of anyone and no one would know whether it’s actually us, or not, without meeting face to face?"

You could always verify each other on cam in the chatrooms. Your face should match your photos on your profile if you're who you say you are.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only except once you met.

Golden rule.

Can send any pics they want in a message.

Some will never meet just fob you off to see pics

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