FabSwingers.com forum: Travelling to meets!

By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

Just curious on how far people would travel to meets! Just I travelled over an hour for one meet with a couple just to find that they were not even there.. just a shame there are people on here that will waste other people's time on here, and how would you know they are serious? X

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Cyprus and the Canary Islands my furthest ones c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuetraventura us lol

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

USA our furthest, however we did know her previously.

Sorry you got messed around, no excuse for that.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"Fuetraventura us lol

That’s were I went ... to meet someone x

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"USA our furthest, however we did know her previously.

Sorry you got messed around, no excuse for that. "

Wow the USA! Yous really are determined sex goers lol

And don't be sorry it wasn't your fault but it is a shame there are people on here like that.

Well compared to the USA I'm just down the road to yous

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"Fuetraventura us lol

That’s were I went ... to meet someone x"

Lol i have no idea of where that is,

lol. X

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

mine would be 8 miles maxi

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"Cyprus and the Canary Islands my furthest ones c"

Ooo sex in the sun, just to add a bit more heat.. I'm hoping they were there to meet you

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"mine would be 8 miles maxi"

Well that's not far at all..

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"Cyprus and the Canary Islands my furthest ones c

Ooo sex in the sun, just to add a bit more heat.. I'm hoping they were there to meet you

They lived out there

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"mine would be 8 miles maxi"

Blimey !!!! Put some effort in

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"Fuetraventura us lol

That’s were I went ... to meet someone x

Lol i have no idea of where that is,

lol. X"

Canary Islands !!

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"Cyprus and the Canary Islands my furthest ones c

Ooo sex in the sun, just to add a bit more heat.. I'm hoping they were there to meet you

They lived out there

Your lucky then.. and they must love it.. I'm just going on myself but the sun dose make me a little horny lol.

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I keep it pretty local

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"Fuetraventura us lol

That’s were I went ... to meet someone x

Lol i have no idea of where that is,

lol. X

Canary Islands !!"

Ahh again the sun.. it brings the best out of us. One of the places I'm yet to go.. maybe for a hol but to travel that far for a meet I'd definitely have to know they were 100% genuine. X

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

As I presume the Op is talking about a first meet maximum would about 20 miles that’s the distance to any of the clubs most local to me.

Like most in here I’ve been mugged off in the past.

As for socials unless it’s an organised one forget it

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"I keep it pretty local"

So how far? Just your home town?

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"As I presume the Op is talking about a first meet maximum would about 20 miles that’s the distance to any of the clubs most local to me.

Like most in here I’ve been mugged off in the past.

As for socials unless it’s an organised one forget it

Well i was going on any meet really but the one I mentioned that was going to be the first time i meet them but had been talking for about 3 weeks, but I've also had no shows in the same town..

Just a shame people do that as it makes people abit wary after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the car 40 mins on my bike over an hour (combine sex and a motorbike ride =win)

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS
over a year ago

France, And sometimes in

I limit my meets to within 30 miles from me. Spending too much time travelling means less time for fun on the meet.

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

About an hour and half drive is where we set are limit but would go further for people we’ve met previously or a club visit xx

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Just curious on how far people would travel to meets! Just I travelled over an hour for one meet with a couple just to find that they were not even there.. just a shame there are people on here that will waste other people's time on here, and how would you know they are serious? X"

My bus bass can't be used after 11pm so can't go too far away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll travel across London. If it turns out they aren't there I would have had a nice trip across London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I presume the Op is talking about a first meet maximum would about 20 miles that’s the distance to any of the clubs most local to me.

Like most in here I’ve been mugged off in the past.

As for socials unless it’s an organised one forget it

Well i was going on any meet really but the one I mentioned that was going to be the first time i meet them but had been talking for about 3 weeks, but I've also had no shows in the same town..

Just a shame people do that as it makes people abit wary after that.

Do you make sure you are talking to women before you leave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 minutes from our home in any one direction, so roughly 30 miles?

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"As I presume the Op is talking about a first meet maximum would about 20 miles that’s the distance to any of the clubs most local to me.

Like most in here I’ve been mugged off in the past.

As for socials unless it’s an organised one forget it

Well i was going on any meet really but the one I mentioned that was going to be the first time i meet them but had been talking for about 3 weeks, but I've also had no shows in the same town..

Just a shame people do that as it makes people abit wary after that.

Do you make sure you are talking to women before you leave?"

I make sure I'm taking to a woman by video call but yes I make sure. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I presume the Op is talking about a first meet maximum would about 20 miles that’s the distance to any of the clubs most local to me.

Like most in here I’ve been mugged off in the past.

As for socials unless it’s an organised one forget it

But you’re quite happy to meet socially in a club I think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep it pretty local or do it at clubs.

I won’t go out of my way for anyone,sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuetraventura us lol

That’s were I went ... to meet someone x"

Ahh sorry we missed you back in our favourite silence town Dec and June every year for 2 weeks, care to join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuetraventura us lol

That’s were I went ... to meet someone x

Lol i have no idea of where that is,

lol. X"

Canary island near Africa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuetraventura us lol

We were going there anyway, you joker Mr!

UK probably 160 miles, but again we were going there anyway.

We usually arrange travel meets around where we will be anyway rather than make them the purpose of travel, otherwise it's wasted time as OP said. Once a meet is successful, then for repeat meets distance is no object, just time.

Have had a social meet bail on us, fortunately just the one, and it was local so no harm done, and there was a valid reason in the end, not just a vanishing act.

Sorry you that that experience OP.

Mrs

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Only within 20 mins drive for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am in the back end of beyond,,,Cumbria ,so must travel … 50 mile max tho

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Boston. So roughly 3000 miles

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

If we can incorporate a weekend away, a motorbike ride out or a club visit we will travel pretty much anywhere. Always up for an adventure. Distance may take a little planning but it's only a number

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By *oungYorkscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We will travel anywhere within the UK with enough notice and money dependant. Sorry you got messed around though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 to 2.5 hours away, but 8 hours home unwell

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"We will travel anywhere within the UK with enough notice and money dependant. Sorry you got messed around though

Ah it's not your fault.. but if you like little adventures then keep me in mind. X

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Half an hour tops for me, then it's not a massive issue if they don't turn up.

I do tend to make them come to me for the initial social though

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

If it was someone I'd not met before and wasn't going to that area anyway, I'd say about 45 mins away would be about my limit.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Half an hour tops for me, then it's not a massive issue if they don't turn up.

I do tend to make them come to me for the initial social though

That's why we like to incorporate something else into it, just in case we get a no show. It happens. We travelled to Derbyshire to meet a couple. They cancelled half an hour before we were due to meet. Didn't need to go all that distance but we incorporated visiting family while we were down there. Since then we do tend to like to meet in a club when we travel to meet strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After good communication through video chat and email exchange, I have flown 800 miles for a meet for a weekend.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Really sad to hear - there really are some pathetic peoe about. The good news is there are some great ones too! My furthest was a four hour drive to the west coast of Wales.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

144 miles to Secrets in Totnes and 133 miles to Xtasia - we only meet in Clubs and like trying different one’s out

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I keep it pretty local

So how far? Just your home town? "
about 20/25 miles...I don't drive so use trains which is a faff in itself

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Fuetraventura us lol

That’s were I went ... to meet someone x

Lol i have no idea of where that is,

lol. X"

Great nudist beaches.

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

"If it was someone I'd not met before and wasn't going to that area anyway, I'd say about 45 mins away would be about my limit."

Also meant to say sorry to hear about your experience OP. I've had a couple of late cancellations, but fortunately both just before I'd left to go thankfully.

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By *weeteamCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

165 miles for one meet .30 miles and 18 miles were two no shows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

60 mins 45 miles is far enough as I never guarantee playing its only for a social first time.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"Fuetraventura us lol

That’s were I went ... to meet someone x

Ahh sorry we missed you back in our favourite silence town Dec and June every year for 2 weeks, care to join us

Oooooooo is that my invite ??

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

In the past I've driven 3 hours for a weekend with someone. These days I have less time and energy and prefer to spend both on the fun bits! So I'd have really like someone to travel over an hour.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"mine would be 8 miles maxi

Blimey !!!! Put some effort in

Try 9 instead.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If I don't know them then I won't travel at all. If they happen to be at the same club I will have a chat and if we get along possibly arrange something for another time.

I am cyber suspicious these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuetraventura us lol

We were going there anyway, you joker Mr!

UK probably 160 miles, but again we were going there anyway.

Have had a social meet bail on us, fortunately just the one, and it was local so no harm done, and there was a valid reason in the end, not just a vanishing act.

Sorry you that that experience OP.

Mrs "

Who me never

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"I keep it pretty local

So how far? Just your home town? about 20/25 miles...I don't drive so use trains which is a faff in itself"

You could always make it 40 and stay the night

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"165 miles for one meet .30 miles and 18 miles were two no shows"

So it seems like the far meets are better, I'm 100 miles away, wink wink.

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"60 mins 45 miles is far enough as I never guarantee playing its only for a social first time. "

That is a shame, but with I body like that I'd want to keep it to myself

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"mine would be 8 miles maxi

Blimey !!!! Put some effort in

Try 9 instead."

8,9 miles is nothing.. you guys need to make more effort..

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"mine would be 8 miles maxi

Blimey !!!! Put some effort in

Try 9 instead.

8,9 miles is nothing.. you guys need to make more effort.."

Sets fab to 7 mile limit.

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By *w79Man
over a year ago

Stalbridge

Average 20 mile radius.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its more travelling time for me it has to be under an hour.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

Just under 7000 miles. I had some annual leave accrued and we got along as friends online. I found a good deal on flights so went for it. We had no expectations and my room had two beds just in case we didn’t click in person. We did and it was well worth it!

I’ve also had people visit me. From east coast US and one woman who had never left the US came over from Texas.

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I keep it pretty local

So how far? Just your home town? about 20/25 miles...I don't drive so use trains which is a faff in itself

You could always make it 40 and stay the night

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if was someone I'd met before then I would do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll travel across London. If it turns out they aren't there I would have had a nice trip across London. "

i live east london travelled to west for a no show but had a lovely shopping round westfield white city

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Japan for us. Had a couple stay a week with us here from Australia and a meet with a guy from new Zealand.

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By *layful cock OP Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

"I keep it pretty local

So how far? Just your home town? about 20/25 miles...I don't drive so use trains which is a faff in itself

You could always make it 40 and stay the night

if was someone I'd met before then I would do that "

Well hopefully our paths cross one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my new fab days I’d have travelled a fair distance but when I realised it took me longer to drive than the sex lasted I gave up travelling.

Now within ten miles at a polish but tend to meet in a coffee place within a few miles of home.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Our meets are always road trips, 100 miles away isn't uncommon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I presume the Op is talking about a first meet maximum would about 20 miles that’s the distance to any of the clubs most local to me.

Like most in here I’ve been mugged off in the past.

As for socials unless it’s an organised one forget it

Hey buddy .. Hope you are doing ok.. It was good to see you at Pandoras last week .. I was a little busy if you recall? .. lol .. I'm sure I'll see you again in the club's seen as we are both local .. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly travel for meets, and will do 150 mile round trip for a few hours at a club. My furthest has been a 300 mile round trip.

If I had more free time then travelling really wouldn't be an issue at all, I don't understand why so many people won't travel for the right person.

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"I regularly travel for meets, and will do 150 mile round trip for a few hours at a club. My furthest has been a 300 mile round trip.

If I had more free time then travelling really wouldn't be an issue at all, I don't understand why so many people won't travel for the right person."

Blackpool. November 17th. The Flaunt event. Just sayin'

Seriously, we agree. Time is our issue but have travelled several hundred miles before now to attend events and doing 70 for a social today.

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

"I regularly travel for meets, and will do 150 mile round trip for a few hours at a club. My furthest has been a 300 mile round trip.

If I had more free time then travelling really wouldn't be an issue at all, I don't understand why so many people won't travel for the right person."

I'll certainly travel for the right person, but implies (to me) that I've already met them in person and clicked. I sort of assumed the OP was meaning a stranger/someone you hadn't met.

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

I never meet locally

I always travel an hour to two hours to private meet London men,always when I've met originally at a party, so know we have a connection

London men are my favourite

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Cheshire to Northampton

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

With a bit of planning anything is possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With a bit of planning anything is possible

Indeed it is lovely eyes lol xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"After good communication through video chat and email exchange, I have flown 800 miles for a meet for a weekend.

Wow that's true dedication to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im guessing it all depends on what kind of meet it is, If its just sex then I'd travel 90 mins, If its friendship with a day or so of good company then i would travel all over of the uk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've travelled all the way down from Hull (where I was at uni at) to Reading down south for a weekend to meet with a couple for some fun. As it happened it was also my birthday weekend, so I guess that justifies the longer distance I put in! But generally speaking, I don't mind travelling far as long as there's enough notice given. For last minute meets, only if it's in the same city or wherever I'm staying at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought an 80 mile round trip was good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I regularly travel for meets, and will do 150 mile round trip for a few hours at a club. My furthest has been a 300 mile round trip.

If I had more free time then travelling really wouldn't be an issue at all, I don't understand why so many people won't travel for the right person.

Blackpool. November 17th. The Flaunt event. Just sayin'

Seriously, we agree. Time is our issue but have travelled several hundred miles before now to attend events and doing 70 for a social today. "

Ohhh I'm already going to Blackpool, next weekend actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually 45 mins as a rule but have a meet planned that's at least 2 hrs away but it will be a stopover meet

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