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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm finding it hard to get interest. My messages are always respectful and have character. What's missing....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Most women and couples will look at a profile when considering messages. I suggest that might be part of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou for your response. So would you say the photos are a bad look or should I extend the blurb?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think the photos are OK, although maybe a bit more variety might help. Blurb is sorely lacking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree about the blurb...."partner in crime" is less than shit lol! Could you explain what you mean by variety....I'm guessing dick pics are turn off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body pics are good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice....always been worried to put body pics, given my average physique and all

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

After a year on here you still only have that 'bio', do you really need to ask where you're going wrong?!!

Sorry, that probably sounds harsh. A kinder reply would be to search one of the numerous generic profile advice threads, read and act accordingly.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, body pictures. I doubt you're an outlier physically, it won't hurt you. I don't like dick pics but some do: if you must, one among a variety of others, tastefully taken.

Your profile is your shop window. Sell yourself.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Profile blurb is woefully lacking OP and is probably the reason for your lack of responses - maybe search out one of the many profile advice threads and take some tips from there.

As for pics try looking around at other verified guys profiles for ideas of what works - blatant close up cock pics don't generally go down well but there are plenty of other options that can easily be achieved with a phone camera on timer mode that don't require a gym fit body to get a decent result

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I appreciate your tips. Time to get working!!

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