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By *oyo58 OP   Man
over a year ago

wales

Just a quick question for everybody just wondering if anybody else thinks that a tick box should be added to the likes for kissing/dfk?

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Just a quick question for everybody just wondering if anybody else thinks that a tick box should be added to the likes for kissing/dfk? "

What’s dfk?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Google says deep French kissing.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Deep French kiss?

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By *oyo58 OP   Man
over a year ago

wales

Wondered if everyone knew what dfk was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you learn something new every day haha

DFK is one of my favourite things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it x

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Bleurgh where they ram their tongue down your throat wuth no control. So unsexy! Reminds me of my first ever kiss. Nearly put me off for life. Good kissing is an art.

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By *oyo58 OP   Man
over a year ago

wales

It's a shame really that most people don't like it or don't allow it I should say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bloody love kissing! Could happily do just that n cuddling up for hours

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By *oyo58 OP   Man
over a year ago

wales


"Bleurgh where they ram their tongue down your throat wuth no control. So unsexy! Reminds me of my first ever kiss. Nearly put me off for life. Good kissing is an art."

Very true slow and sensual xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, OP. Could end up with a thousand tick boxes for every preference.

Which avoids talking to people and understanding their wishes, wants and needs.

And that's what messaging, phone calls and socials are all about, and the ongoing bedroom talk of what's ok, and where and when.

I would assume a person needing lots more tick boxes to be either highly judgemental or too lazy to have a conversation.

Maybe I'm old fashioned, maybe expecting responsive, considerate conversation and foreplay is so last century. I'm ok with that.

Mrs

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By *oyo58 OP   Man
over a year ago

wales


"No, OP. Could end up with a thousand tick boxes for every preference.

Which avoids talking to people and understanding their wishes, wants and needs.

And that's what messaging, phone calls and socials are all about, and the ongoing bedroom talk of what's ok, and where and when.

I would assume a person needing lots more tick boxes to be either highly judgemental or too lazy to have a conversation.

Maybe I'm old fashioned, maybe expecting responsive, considerate conversation and foreplay is so last century. I'm ok with that.

Mrs"

Very true thanks for your input but wouldn't it be easier just to tick a box then at least you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a bad Idea but people could just put it on their profiles too.

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By *oyo58 OP   Man
over a year ago

wales


"Not a bad Idea but people could just put it on their profiles too. "

Hi it would help if put on description and on likes thanks xxx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think if it's important to people it'll be in their profile or come out in interactions, to be honest. It's in mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe that people (myself included) find that kissing can be a lot more sensual and intimate than having sex. So they tend to avoid it as it may take away from the rawness of "fucking".

Me, personally. I like to involve both but hey.

Horses for courses. Lol

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By *hic EventsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

DFK? What’s wrong with a old fashioned snog

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"DFK? What’s wrong with a old fashioned snog"

Was thinking the same thing lol!!

OP, I think if people want to avoid certain things, they’ll state it on their profile - so I’d assume kissing is ok unless they say it’s not

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Bleurgh where they ram their tongue down your throat wuth no control. So unsexy! Reminds me of my first ever kiss. Nearly put me off for life. Good kissing is an art."

Haha, yes indeed, my first kiss was like that too - luckily my first boyfriend a year later was an epic snogger and we snogged for hours without any need for ramming of tongue down the throat lol!

Yes, a little tongue fencing at the right moment like the odd nibble are delicious, but you can keep you dfk, I would love to have an anti tick box to let people know!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a shame really that most people don't like it or don't allow it I should say"

No it's great - but I don't allow it unless in a relationship - it's easy for things to get too complicated otherwise.

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By *xbridgemanMan
over a year ago

Yiewsley

I don't need a tick box, as it says on my profile I love kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, OP. Could end up with a thousand tick boxes for every preference.

Which avoids talking to people and understanding their wishes, wants and needs.

And that's what messaging, phone calls and socials are all about, and the ongoing bedroom talk of what's ok, and where and when.

I would assume a person needing lots more tick boxes to be either highly judgemental or too lazy to have a conversation.

Maybe I'm old fashioned, maybe expecting responsive, considerate conversation and foreplay is so last century. I'm ok with that.

Mrs

Very true thanks for your input but wouldn't it be easier just to tick a box then at least you know.

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too many see expressing an interest as some kind of shopping list of requirements and expect all of them to happen all the time...

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