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Feeling lost after friend left

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I have recently had a relationship with an amazing woman on here. Everything was going great, we got on fantastic. Very hot and we where having a great time. We had some fun on our meets as well. After our last meet she told me she was leaving the site, as too many weirdos contacted her and messaged me her number to stay in touch, so we could continue. However I forgot to take it down as I though she might have give me a bit of warning. And she left. But it deletes all your messages and I have now lost her number and have no way of contacting her. So now I feel gutted and a bit lost as she was perfect for what we where both looking for

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Oh well , shit happens .

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

you didnt exchange numbers at all? How did you keep in contact ?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Awwwwwww, that's a shame. Did you not chat on kik?

That's one reason why I'm not keen on unlos messages being deleted.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Oh dear .....oh well NEXT !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you didnt exchange numbers at all? How did you keep in contact ?"

This.....strange you had met many times yet never had a contact number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you didnt exchange numbers at all? How did you keep in contact ?

This.....strange you had met many times yet never had a contact number "
I have been on this site years and only a handful of people have my number and most of them I haven't played with. I don't give my number out

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

If she was that bothered about seeing you she could make a quick new profile. Very easy. Move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kept in contact through here - chatted daily Ish, but wasn’t in each other’s pockets. We both had our reasons why we kept it on here. But it’s a great platform to keep up a relationship

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"you didnt exchange numbers at all? How did you keep in contact ?

This.....strange you had met many times yet never had a contact number "

Not strange at all. Very few meets get my number, we communicate through here only.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"you didnt exchange numbers at all? How did you keep in contact ?

This.....strange you had met many times yet never had a contact number

Not strange at all. Very few meets get my number, we communicate through here only."

Same!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is sad ... I’m sorry to hear that. Sounds like you had feelings too

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By *akeyou1Man
over a year ago

sutton


"That is sad ... I’m sorry to hear that. Sounds like you had feelings too "

I would if you was the woman and it happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear .....oh well NEXT !

"

Bit cold, i feel for him! When you meet someone decent its hard when they go. So people just cant be replaced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely when someone leaves,the messages remain,albeit with user no longer on site,until you delete.

Isn't it ?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"So I have recently had a relationship with an amazing woman on here. Everything was going great, we got on fantastic. Very hot and we where having a great time. We had some fun on our meets as well. After our last meet she told me she was leaving the site, as too many weirdos contacted her and messaged me her number to stay in touch, so we could continue. However I forgot to take it down as I though she might have give me a bit of warning. And she left. But it deletes all your messages and I have now lost her number and have no way of contacting her. So now I feel gutted and a bit lost as she was perfect for what we where both looking for "

Sorry to hear,OP. You never know, she may come back on.

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By *akeyou1Man
over a year ago

sutton


"Surely when someone leaves,the messages remain,albeit with user no longer on site,until you delete.

Isn't it ?"

Yeah I think your right

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Surely when someone leaves,the messages remain,albeit with user no longer on site,until you delete.

Isn't it ?

Yeah I think your right "

Not anymore now when a profile goes unlos all messages are delete. It was to stop those reoccurring profiles that send an abusive message and then delete their profile.

Feel for you OP, we exchange numbers with very few people keeping things strictly to Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear .....oh well NEXT !

Bit cold, i feel for him! When you meet someone decent its hard when they go. So people just cant be replaced. "

This. Happened to me in a way very recently. The loss is astonishing.

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham


"Surely when someone leaves,the messages remain,albeit with user no longer on site,until you delete.

Isn't it ?

Yeah I think your right "

All traces of them disappear now, bloody annoying at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is sad ... I’m sorry to hear that. Sounds like you had feelings too

I would if you was the woman and it happened to me "

Smooth dude !

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By *akeyou1Man
over a year ago

sutton


"That is sad ... I’m sorry to hear that. Sounds like you had feelings too

I would if you was the woman and it happened to me

Smooth dude !"

I like it smooth . And there’s abit of truth in there after seeing your pics, I would be gutted to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear .....oh well NEXT !

"

Pretty heartless.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Does anyone you met have her number?

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

Did you’re meets happen in club? If so, was it a club she frequents often? Just because she’s left fab doesn’t mean she’s left the scene, maybe she’ll go back. Write a note with your number and ask the club owner to pass her it , if she visits again.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I would say the ball is in her court now. You are still on fab. If she really wants to meet you again she can track you down on here. Fingers crossed for you.

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