FabSwingers.com forum: Time to walk away

By *igNspunky OP Man
over a year ago

In town

Starting to get concerned about a couple who I have built a swinging relationship with in which I am the bull in their relationship.

The problem is that when we meet yes the bedroom fun is amazing however I am getting concerned over the husband attitude towards me. It is starting to get aggressive and on the point of abusive tone in his messages.

I am sure he thinks I am having an affair with his wife which I ain’t. We talk a lot and do have lots of general things in common and have a great time when we meet up.

However it’s such a shame he is being like this as she is very sweet and such a lovely person. I do wonder if he is that way with her?

So I am thinking of breaking all ties with them. Love to see if my thoughts are right.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Well at least you'll find out if they use the forums...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you having an emotional affair with his wife?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say if it’s becoming uncomfortable for you then break away from it

Ms b

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Definitely time to move on OP. It doesn't sound like the husband is happy with the situation. Perhaps they should have just left it as a fantasy and not made it reality. Good luck, whatever you decide to do x.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

If you enjoy sex with her, just meet when he’s not around.

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By *astings SocialWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

"If you enjoy sex with her, just meet when he’s not around."

That's having an affair

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By *astings SocialWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Probably time to move on OP or have a coffee with the hubby and see if he has got a problem

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Just ask him directly. "Is this arrangement everything you wanted it to be?" -via text. Don't go for coffee, he might go postal when you bring up the memories.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"If you enjoy sex with her, just meet when he’s not around.

That's having an affair "

Sort of. Affairs are so exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely time to bin it and move on

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By *unknSoulCouple
over a year ago

dumfries-ish

Would say time to move on op. You are getting emotionally involved rather than it just being fun as in she is wonderful she is lovely he is aggressive becoming a nasty bit of work.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"Starting to get concerned about a couple who I have built a swinging relationship with in which I am the bull in their relationship.

I am sure he thinks I am having an affair with his wife which I ain’t. We talk a lot and do have lots of general things in common and have a great time when we meet up.

However it’s such a shame he is being like this as she is very sweet and such a lovely person. I do wonder if he is that way with her?

So I am thinking of breaking all ties with them. Love to see if my thoughts are right."

Talk to him tell him what you have said here and then male a decision on his response and how you feel afterwards. After all if you are not happy then its not worth continuing as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starting to get concerned about a couple who I have built a swinging relationship with in which I am the bull in their relationship.

I am sure he thinks I am having an affair with his wife which I ain’t. We talk a lot and do have lots of general things in common and have a great time when we meet up.

However it’s such a shame he is being like this as she is very sweet and such a lovely person. I do wonder if he is that way with her?

So I am thinking of breaking all ties with them. Love to see if my thoughts are right."

Don't you think then, as you are clearly beginning to damage their relationship, that you should get the fuck out of there, unless there really is an ulterior motive?

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By *unknSoulCouple
over a year ago

dumfries-ish

"Are you having an emotional affair with his wife? "

Sounds as if thats the way its heading or thats what the op wants

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"If you enjoy sex with her, just meet when he’s not around.

That's having an affair

Sort of. Affairs are so exciting."

For who? The cheater?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you enjoy sex with her, just meet when he’s not around.

That's having an affair

Sort of. Affairs are so exciting."

Good reason to block too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she's getting feelings for you and when you have gone their relationship/normal day to day is changing for the worse. Either way it's time to go.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nobody, not even people who are fairly close to a couple knows what goes on inside a marriage. Don't assume that he's aggressive to her because he's aggressive to you.

Walk away and leave them to their own devices

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