FabSwingers.com forum: How lovely

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was messaged by a guy who was not my type at all, sent him the "no thankyou take care" reply and he messaged me back thanking me for my reply, wished me all the best and a very merry Christmas,

How lovely!!!

It made me change my mind and even tho I doubted we would ever meet he has become a lovely friend and are meeting this week for Xmas lunch.

I wonder what would happen if all men were so polite?

merry Christmas everyone x x

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Charm has it's advantages.

I hope you both have loads of fun.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

I wonder what would happen if all men were so polite?

merry Christmas everyone x x"

We've had the same thing and agree entirely to the point we've reconsidered.

D&K

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Well for a start there would be a lot less forum threads,,

I'm always saddened,, and it still surprises me that people abuse others

..big cheer.. its Always good to hear of positive behaviour,

Enjoy yourselves ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made good friends with someone who is not my type we don't play but we go for meals and I get spoilt rotten

But he was very polite and didn't get rude because I said no thanks!

Hope you have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i reply with a 'no thanks but have fun' i always get a reply saying thanks for being polite and replying....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye manners cost nowt and sometimes pay off big time xx

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

"Aye manners cost nowt and sometimes pay off big time xx

who's that bloke in the suit and what have you done with Soapy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aye manners cost nowt and sometimes pay off big time xx

who's that bloke in the suit and what have you done with Soapy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just say 'Merry Christmas' to everyone that has knocked me back so far this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha. Nice try buswanker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aye manners cost nowt and sometimes pay off big time xx

Exactly!!!! Thats why I never understand why guys send abusive messages in response to a polite thanks but no thanks and what they think it's going to achieve. Ms

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By *annGentMan
over a year ago

With a cracking view

If I get a "thanks, but no thanks" message, I always say thank you for taking the time to reply.

They've been courteous, and so shall I

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Shhhhhhhhhhhh. They will all be expecting that now then get stroppy when the get a message saying. .. you too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cant have too many friends, especially someone that you could discuss swinging with, I have a fem friend ive met on this site, she keeps me sane!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

unless i get a totally obscene message i always send a polite thanks but no thanks. if i was stood at a bar the only overtures i'd ignore would be the offensive ones! so i use the same policy online. it does mean that even if its just one message and reply everything is courteous and pleasant. and you never know who you'll meet in a club - and sometimes you can change your mind in person, if you haven't already pissed them off that is!

manners cost practically nothing, a few seconds typing for a civil and friendly atmosphere? got to be worth it!

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

"when i reply with a 'no thanks but have fun' i always get a reply saying thanks for being polite and replying...."
exactly, if i get a polite rebuttal, i always appreciate it and let them know i value the time they put into reply.

If they reply, i just think, no manners, full of themselves and move on. There are guilty parties on both sides of the gender divide when it comes to manners

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

Second para, should be if they dont reply, ooops

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By *annGentMan
over a year ago

With a cracking view

"Second para, should be if they dont reply, ooops"

Knew what you meant !

I think !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You cant have too many friends, especially someone that you could discuss swinging with, I have a fem friend ive met on this site, she keeps me sane!"
I could use a good fem friend who's on the same wavelength as me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aye manners cost nowt and sometimes pay off big time xx

Exactly!!!! Thats why I never understand why guys send abusive messages in response to a polite thanks but no thanks and what they think it's going to achieve. Ms"

These are the guys who are just out for all they can get.

I can say I have always replied with a thanks when knocked back. It doesn't take long to do, and that's how I was raised.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Most guys I mail saying "No thanx..." reply saying it was nice of me to send even that...

But it has never made me change my mind...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You cant have too many friends, especially someone that you could discuss swinging with, I have a fem friend ive met on this site, she keeps me sane!"

Similar here, I have 2 ladyfriends on here I can discuss stuff with that I couldn't mention to another soul. They're both very good friends.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"I was messaged by a guy who was not my type at all, sent him the "no thankyou take care" reply and he messaged me back thanking me for my reply, wished me all the best and a very merry Christmas,

How lovely!!!

It made me change my mind and even tho I doubted we would ever meet he has become a lovely friend and are meeting this week for Xmas lunch.

I wonder what would happen if all men were so polite?

merry Christmas everyone x x"

we just get ignored and blocked when we email fems, but hey ho, Merry Christmas to all that block us lol

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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Think its very much a 2 way thing.

I know ladies do get a LOT of messages - the majority being 'hi .. wanna fuck' but there are some nice guys out there who dont copy paste the same message a few times over!

You taking time out to reply nicely, solicited a similar reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree totally. I have some lovely 'friends' on here that I will never probably meet cus not my type or too far away but I have 'met' by saying thanks but no thanks

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say thanks for the reply if I get a no thanks and wish all the best.

Very few people respond, even in the negative an I feel it's an action that ought be encouraged. I can't see the point in being nasty as I have had a meet or too from a polite reply....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer the yes please replies though!

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