FabSwingers.com forum: Messaging

By *entlemenpip OP Man
over a year ago

not far

So we all know by now that if a message you send someone get deleted with no reply it a solid no

Some accounts say if I don't reply its a no

But what to do when a well formed message (not one liner) is read and not deleted but also no reply is sent

I tend to take it as a no

What about every one else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take that as a no. I get it girls get hundreds. Some just have a mass clear out periodically...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep sending it, every hour on the hour until you finally break her and she replies..... then it's a definite No

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I would assume that means no thanks OP x

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Assume people who want to meet you will reply. Sometimes I'm just too lazy to hit delete. Those I am interested in I have conversation with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send a cock pic next to a remote, one next to a Lynx can and one using a Polo as a cock ring.

The words to use are “want it bitch” no reply is their loss

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Just send a cock pic next to a remote, one next to a Lynx can and one using a Polo as a cock ring.

The words to use are “want it bitch” no reply is their loss

Exactly this. I do it and I’m literally up to my knees in flange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep hoping there just waiting till the right moment to reply,but realistically know it’s a no .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means they've read it and not deleted it. They might reply later, they might delete it later or leave it in their inbox as 'read' forever

*Swoops Captain Obvious Cape*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message this afternoon, I didn't reply but I did report it to admin

as it was someone pretending to be admin fishing for info.

All trace of it has gone so think REAL admin deleted him.

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By *roticaCouple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Women and couples get many messages. When we are interested in the guy but are busy with normal life we dont delete their massage and reply when we have a chance. So dont give up. It most cases we also reply when it is a no giving a reason so as not to be rude.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If they don't reply it's a no.

If they are interested they will reply, even if it's not immediate.

No reply at all... How can that be anything else but a no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always a no, might be busy or not free until a certain date. We’ve left messages knowing we can’t arrange anything as could be ladies week or have family commitments. We wait until we know we can start arranging to meet

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

North West

I've been told a few times by friends, read but not replied or deleted, (for them) means they was busy or unavailable, and plan to reply later, but usually the message gets lost in the ether quickly so a follow up a few weeks doesn't hurt.

I generally but not always follow this, same a second time and it's definitely a no.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"I've been told a few times by friends, read but not replied or deleted, (for them) means they was busy or unavailable, and plan to reply later, but usually the message gets lost in the ether quickly so a follow up a few weeks doesn't hurt.

I generally but not always follow this, same a second time and it's definitely a no.

Not for me it doesnt. Just too laxy to delete it. If im going to reply later I will mark it unread. Everyone is different. If you get a reply they maybe interested. Even then its not a given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep sending it, every hour on the hour until you finally break her and she replies..... then it's a definite No"

Just laughed way to much at this

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Assume its s no for now give them a month and send a different message. Well that's my assumption anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we all know by now that if a message you send someone get deleted with no reply it a solid no

Some accounts say if I don't reply its a no

But what to do when a well formed message (not one liner) is read and not deleted but also no reply is sent

I tend to take it as a no

What about every one else"

No reply = no thanks.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"The words to use are “want it bitch” no reply is their loss

Funnily enough I get quite a lot of 'want it bitch'...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No reply equals no interest at the moment - possibly never. It's no, until further notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to assume everything is a no. Until we get a firm yes.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

meh... it's probably just the wrong time of the month... try again later

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I just find people rude! You chat everyone seems fine, then nothing..... I’m fed up with rude people and just block them and put it down to their loss?!

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