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"I think you can also report if they're claiming to be in a category they're not in" Its the only thing you can really do about it. | |||
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"Shame we can’t filter out prejudice. " | |||
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"First off OP, why do you assume it’s not possible for a TV to be part of a couple? Secondly, I don’t think many TV’s/TS’s on the site would consider themselves to be single males. A little knowledge and understanding goes a long way. V " Well said, just plain ignorance...fool | |||
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"Each to their own, but I don’t find it very useful when we get notifications that a couple has viewed our profile, or we get a message from a couple or woman, only to find the ‘couple’ is one person who chops and changes gender??? WTF is that all about? Or a woman who, when you check their profile, is clearly a man?? " For many of us it’s not that clear what our original bodily format was. Don’t worry though. We’re not looking for people like you | |||
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"Shame we can’t filter out prejudice. " well said. Well said stamps feet repeatedly | |||
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" Oh well, at least it’s brought a few more to the surface who made now made the blocked list " That works both ways, of course. | |||
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" Oh well, at least it’s brought a few more to the surface who made now made the blocked list That works both ways, of course. " Yes, of course....and so it should ???? | |||
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" Oh well, at least it’s brought a few more to the surface who made now made the blocked list That works both ways, of course. Yes, of course....and so it should ????" Threads like these often expand my block list. | |||
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"Ok, just explain this please.....what possible interest could a TV/TS have in a couple who are interested in other couples or single women? Why look at our profile, or wink, or message? It’s not even as if we have any public photos to look at ?? Oh well, at least it’s brought a few more to the surface who made now made the blocked list " sounds to me like your crying in your pea soup op , why bother about little things in life when there's people starving in the streets and others who have no homes people who have cancer for gds sake get a grip op | |||
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"Ok, just explain this please.....what possible interest could a TV/TS have in a couple who are interested in other couples or single women? Why look at our profile, or wink, or message? It’s not even as if we have any public photos to look at ?? Oh well, at least it’s brought a few more to the surface who made now made the blocked list " People often look at profiles just to be nosey. Why do you care so much about who views your profile, just use the filters that are put in place for that exact reason. I'm sure you will receive less interest by any TV, ts, man, woman or couple that comes across this thread now anyway. It doesn't matter that you have no visible photos, you've just shown us all that no matter what you look like externally, you seem pretty ugly on the inside | |||
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"Do you know some have transitioned and are now a woman, they can be part of a couple as well but dont seem to lack empathy or be as ignorant and judgemental as others." | |||
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol" It was the Kinks actually! | |||
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"So you've gone down every TV who's posted on this thread and blocked them? At least with the amount of time you're going to be spending blocking every TV on fab,you won't have time to actually meet anyone and subject them to your narrow minded bigotry " I’d guess they would block anyone who doesn’t agree with them as well | |||
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol It was the Kinks actually! " well I'm only a young in lol | |||
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol" I’m just cooking tea and going through all the messages I’ve got from people who say they’re straight. | |||
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol I’m just cooking tea and going through all the messages I’ve got from people who say they’re straight. " lol I get cock pics from straight guys go figure that out | |||
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol I’m just cooking tea and going through all the messages I’ve got from people who say they’re straight. " they're fab straight lol | |||
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"I'll add a message just so you can block me too please Definitely not my kinda people. " just take a peek that will get u blocked or voice an opinion as he will disagree with what I say anyway lol | |||
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol I’m just cooking tea and going through all the messages I’ve got from people who say they’re straight. they're fab straight lol" Seeing as I’m legally recognised as female it’s arguable that guys actually are straight with me | |||
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol I’m just cooking tea and going through all the messages I’ve got from people who say they’re straight. they're fab straight lol Seeing as I’m legally recognised as female it’s arguable that guys actually are straight with me " there u go then your in a win win situation lol | |||
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol I’m just cooking tea and going through all the messages I’ve got from people who say they’re straight. " I hope you're blocking them all as you go , lol(a) | |||
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol I’m just cooking tea and going through all the messages I’ve got from people who say they’re straight. I hope you're blocking them all as you go , lol(a) " Nope. I’m not prejudiced like that More flattered actually. I do make sure they know I’m trans very early on in the conversation though. | |||
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"Ok, just explain this please.....what possible interest could a TV/TS have in a couple who are interested in other couples or single women? Why look at our profile, or wink, or message? It’s not even as if we have any public photos to look at ?? Oh well, at least it’s brought a few more to the surface who made now made the blocked list People often look at profiles just to be nosey. Why do you care so much about who views your profile, just use the filters that are put in place for that exact reason. I'm sure you will receive less interest by any TV, ts, man, woman or couple that comes across this thread now anyway. It doesn't matter that you have no visible photos, you've just shown us all that no matter what you look like externally, you seem pretty ugly on the inside" Yep very ugly | |||
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"And blocked by OP......how mature of them! " They have blocked myself as well...ah well I will sleep much better tonight now lol | |||
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"Ok, just explain this please.....what possible interest could a TV/TS have in a couple who are interested in other couples or single women? Why look at our profile, or wink, or message? It’s not even as if we have any public photos to look at ?? Oh well, at least it’s brought a few more to the surface who made now made the blocked list " add me too .... as honestly I haven’t a clue what your whinging about I wouldn’t even bother looking at your profile regardless .... but desperate folks to wink or message at your profile to be fair! .... if you read the guidance on Fab regarding preferences you can rectify the “issue” .... right I’m off to plague the life out of couples with no pics | |||
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"Don't worry OP, after people read your comments I think you're going to have a lot less messages to worry about .... from TS's, TV's, CD's, couples, women and men. Feel free to block us " They already have | |||
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"Don't worry OP, after people read your comments I think you're going to have a lot less messages to worry about .... from TS's, TV's, CD's, couples, women and men. Feel free to block us They already have " Then our work here is done | |||
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"Don't worry OP, after people read your comments I think you're going to have a lot less messages to worry about .... from TS's, TV's, CD's, couples, women and men. Feel free to block us " I’ve blocked before they even get a chance. | |||
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"What’s the story with TV and TS describing themselves as women or couples? We have our settings so that we can’t be contacted by, or see, single men’s profiles. Yet when a TV or TS has a woman’s, or a couples profile, they show up on our account? Can we filter them out if the describe themselves as something they’re not?" Quite a few genuinely live as women and act as women and class themselves as women. If you really find that so offensive you've taken up the wrong hobby. I'd suggest becoming a Christian and going to church regularly instead so you can justify your phobias with "but I'm a Christian" | |||
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"Thought I'd pop back and see how it's going ,but see it's going down hill so fast the op may as well live in Australia lol" We're still gathering our torches and pitchforks in preparation | |||
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"Thought I'd pop back and see how it's going ,but see it's going down hill so fast the op may as well live in Australia lol We're still gathering our torches and pitchforks in preparation " better get your hardhat ,hi Vis and JCB lol | |||
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"So you've gone down every TV who's posted on this thread and blocked them? At least with the amount of time you're going to be spending blocking every TV on fab,you won't have time to actually meet anyone and subject them to your narrow minded bigotry " Oh no, luckily they've blocked both of our forum accounts too, thank God, I would hate to heave got a message from them, we forget to put no bigots on our profile. | |||
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"I'm just humming 10cc's Lola lol I’m just cooking tea and going through all the messages I’ve got from people who say they’re straight. " While I am not one of those messages you genuinely are a woman now aren't you, not just psychologically. I wouldn't think I was endangering my "straightness" messaging you" lol. And anyway there is a point where a TV passes some threshold where they are predominantly female, then you can still be fab straight after all. | |||
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"I'm sure you don't get so many messages from TVs in couples that it inconveniences you and ruins your life. You're slightly over reacting tbh. I get messages from people I'm not interested,you have to accept that and do some manual filtering , and don't rely on fab to do it for you." Well said just delete | |||
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"OP, Just sent you a wink and looked at your profile about 10 times We are a TV and lady couple so can we join your block list please, we are feeling left out ! " Hahahahaha! If you’re not on there already you soon will be X | |||
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"Reading the OPs and others transphobic and homophobic bullshit reminds me exactly why I've been terrified about coming out as trans. There's such a lack of respect, education and understanding in this world from so many ppl. Imagine yourself OP living in fear of being who you are at heart. Imagine the fear of stepping out of the door and being instantly judged for just being different to main stream society, could you live with this?" Thankfully the idiots are a definite minority, in my experience at least | |||
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"You must be one of these people who has a tantrum when you get junk mail through your letter box or on TV (not just from a TV). I get idiot mail from males, I delete and get on with my life. I do not write a fucking thesis on it. People can define their gender as anything they like. We do not need a DNA test to come on FAB, yet. After all I am a guy so I can be male when I am not dressed. I am a TV/TS on this profile but some may be post op or identify purely as women, that is their right in life. I can identify as a horse if I wish, get over it. " Gee up lol | |||
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"Shame we can’t filter out prejudice. " Sorry I don’t mean to sound obtuse ,, but is it prejudice or just preference and possibly choice ?? | |||
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"Goodness me ... they haven't been here long .. be a little more welcoming folks ... they are asking a question. . " Have you read the whole thread? they don't deserve welcoming | |||
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"Goodness me ... they haven't been here long .. be a little more welcoming folks ... they are asking a question. . " If you had read all of the thread you would understand why people are a little outraged. | |||
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"OP, Just sent you a wink and looked at your profile about 10 times We are a TV and lady couple so can we join your block list please, we are feeling left out ! Hahahahaha! If you’re not on there already you soon will be X" We made the block list ! | |||
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"OP, Just sent you a wink and looked at your profile about 10 times We are a TV and lady couple so can we join your block list please, we are feeling left out ! Hahahahaha! If you’re not on there already you soon will be X We made the block list ! " I’m waiting for my blocked badge | |||
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" We made the block list ! " Ditto!! | |||
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"So has everyone in this thread now been blocked by the op" Could be another reason you can’t see there profile. | |||
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"So has everyone in this thread now been blocked by the op" No not yet, probably as I have only just noticed this thread. | |||
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"So has everyone in this thread now been blocked by the op" I dunno. I blocked them as soon as they made their initial post. I’ve no interest in them and I hope they have no interest in me. | |||
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"What’s the story with TV and TS describing themselves as women or couples? We have our settings so that we can’t be contacted by, or see, single men’s profiles. Yet when a TV or TS has a woman’s, or a couples profile, they show up on our account? Can we filter them out if the describe themselves as something they’re not?" Well damn. To the first question, you can describe yourself as you wish. (However I think if it’s a single person who is gender fluid I.e sometimes male sometimes female then you shouldn’t have a couple profile if there aren’t two actual people). Settings to block single males... well change them to block tv/ts As well huni bun or you’re gonna have problems... lastly... filtering out people who say they’re something they’re not on fab ... hahahahahahahahaha ace... finally block me! block me! | |||
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"I’m guessing that their blocked list is far longer than their friends list...... For what it’s worth I think they’ve blocked a pretty nice bunch of people. Their loss. V x" | |||
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"Just a quick message to get blocked" thought this would be a dead thread by now | |||
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"Just a quick message to get blockedthought this would be a dead thread by now" Not if you keep breathing life into it! | |||
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"Just a quick message to get blockedthought this would be a dead thread by now Not if you keep breathing life into it!" What do you mean? lol | |||
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"Had lots of “straight guys” message me I don’t get Pissy Take it as a compliment lol " I like getting winks from anyone, shows they like my profile. Not going to get arsy because a straight man liked my profile! I have messaged members just to say I really like their photos! Just being nice. Happy fabbing | |||
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