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Why are people so presumptuous??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had anyone else experience being directly messaged on kik without being messaged on here first?

I find it annoying and rude. Why do people presume that they can bypass the usual manners and curtesy required in communicating?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's why I don't use kik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats why i dont give my kik or snap chat or whatsapp out

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Thats why i would never put personal info on a profile,people abuse it

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've had a few, but more often I get the opposite.

I'm in a couple of chat groups on Kik, group rules are no PMing without permission..

So they message me on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only give it to ppl I’ve chatted with. No randoms then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have my kik then them messaging is not a problem, it is whether I can be arsed to reply or not really. It is if they try and call, either video on kik or on WhatsApp, without mmessaging first that bugs me. If I haven't spoken to you and I haven't said it is ok to ring then ya can safely assume I will not answer. It's why I stopped using WhatsApp for fabbers

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"thats why i dont give my kik or snap chat or whatsapp out "

Exactly this for me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats why i dont give my kik or snap chat or whatsapp out

Exactly this for me too x"

and i cant be doing with a 2nd phone shit either LOL

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"Had anyone else experience being directly messaged on kik without being messaged on here first?

I find it annoying and rude. Why do people presume that they can bypass the usual manners and curtesy required in communicating?! "

How do they get your kik info, if they haven't contacted you already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only give KIK after messaging,simple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had anyone else experience being directly messaged on kik without being messaged on here first?

I find it annoying and rude. Why do people presume that they can bypass the usual manners and curtesy required in communicating?!

How do they get your kik info, if they haven't contacted you already?"

If you search a fab username in kik then you may find who you’re looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t publish your kik username then. People just make up the rules on here.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People don't read profiles, except they'll find contact details there, thinking it gets them closer to shagging you.

Some people are a little too close to desperate, so will do almost anything to get a meet - forgetting to analyse how they will be perceived. There is a wider culture of people who lack basic respect for others, seeing you as a tool to be used to get what they want.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

It's one of the reasons I changed my username on FAB. It was the same for both, so I used to get random people messaging me.

They would just get deleted unread, the same as their message on here most probably would be, so I never really saw the point of it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"People don't read profiles, except they'll find contact details there, thinking it gets them closer to shagging you.

Some people are a little too close to desperate, so will do almost anything to get a meet - forgetting to analyse how they will be perceived. There is a wider culture of people who lack basic respect for others, seeing you as a tool to be used to get what they want. "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People don't read profiles, except they'll find contact details there, thinking it gets them closer to shagging you.

Some people are a little too close to desperate, so will do almost anything to get a meet - forgetting to analyse how they will be perceived. There is a wider culture of people who lack basic respect for others, seeing you as a tool to be used to get what they want. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not difficult to block on kik. I don't see any issue and certainly nothing to get the arse over.

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By *rofessJayWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I had a similar issue with random msgs on kik so I closed my account

I simply msg on here

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon


"Don’t publish your kik username then. People just make up the rules on here. "

I never used to but people would still guess and manage to find me on there because my username on both were similar.

I think it's really rude, and assume they'd done it to avoid filters. A quick block on there (and on here if I could figure out who they were) was easy enough though.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I use KIK. I never get random messages (except the usual spam stuff), calls or anything else. WhatsApp is only used for people I know, and family and I don’t get that on there either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be to try and get a conversation started easier than on here. I don't really see the difference my self, both can easily be ignored or blocked so some take a shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't leave your kik on your profile I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had anyone else experience being directly messaged on kik without being messaged on here first?

I find it annoying and rude. Why do people presume that they can bypass the usual manners and curtesy required in communicating?!

How do they get your kik info, if they haven't contacted you already?

If you search a fab username in kik then you may find who you’re looking for. "

It might be stating the bleeding obvious but why not be more imaginative with your kik username...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had anyone else experience being directly messaged on kik without being messaged on here first?

I find it annoying and rude. Why do people presume that they can bypass the usual manners and curtesy required in communicating?! "

I've just had this conversation on kik with a random guy sending me naughty pics. Not talked or asked for them

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By *elshrider95Man
over a year ago

LLANTWIT MAJOR

I only give it to people i chat with or ask the person if i can ad them on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. But my kik username is completely different to my fab username.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you put your Kik username on your profile, if you do then I guess you're inviting it. If not then yes, a bit rude x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s why we don’t advertise we have Kik on here

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

I get lots of randoms on Kik.

Think they just trawl till they spot a pic they like attached to a profile name then just chance their arm.

Problem solved, took a pic of a plain white door and that's now my profile pic.

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