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Wife talks to me about her swinger friends

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By *usthorny40 OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Ok. My wife has on random occasions talked about her workmates who are either married and swing or single and have friends with benefits.

These occasions have happened over the last couple of years. She has always taken the view point of surprise.

Swinging, cuckhold has always been a fantasy of mine and I want to explore her thoughts on this more.

But, I’m nervous to do so.

Advice please?

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By *heEpicureanMan
over a year ago

Warminster

Communicate with your wife not a forum of strangers

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Next time she brings this up maybe ask her does she fancy trying anything like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Communicate with your wife not a forum of strangers"

Perfect advice your wife is who you should be talking to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok. My wife has on random occasions talked about her workmates who are either married and swing or single and have friends with benefits.

These occasions have happened over the last couple of years. She has always taken the view point of surprise.

Swinging, cuckhold has always been a fantasy of mine and I want to explore her thoughts on this more.

But, I’m nervous to do so.

Advice please? "

It's always more difficult to talk about a fantasy you really want to fulfil than one you don't for some reason.

How's you communication in general? Can you chat about fantasies?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Does your wife know you are on here OP? She may have some suspicions that you are doing this without her and is just putting out some feelers to see how you respond.

If you are wanting to swing with her you need honest and open communication together.

Talk to her not us!

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By *usthorny40 OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"Communicate with your wife not a forum of strangers

Perfect advice your wife is who you should be talking to. "

Thanks!

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Communicate with your wife not a forum of strangers"

Spot on, if you can’t speak to your partner if your darker desires, who can you talk to?

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Show her your profile lol

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Just keep posting random questions on the forums mate - she's sure to turn up and answer your questions sooner or later - either that or she'll stumble upon your browsing history one of these days...

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By *usthorny40 OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Ok. So I posted this thread over a year ago. No mention of swinging from my wife since. Then out of the blue, last night she told me she had watched documentary about swingers. This time she told she can see the appeal of it but when I tried to explore further she changed the subject. Confused dot com.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok. So I posted this thread over a year ago. No mention of swinging from my wife since. Then out of the blue, last night she told me she had watched documentary about swingers. This time she told she can see the appeal of it but when I tried to explore further she changed the subject. Confused dot com. "

tell her you're confused and ask her outright if she's interested or just talking about it in general. You really won't become any less confused until you ask her

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By *andy1555TV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

It’s much harder to begin to talk about it if it comes completely out of the blue. So the fact your wife is talking about it gives you the perfect opportunity to discuss the subject further.

Grab the bull by the horns and talk to her about it, you might not get another chance.

Good luck OP xx

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"Ok. So I posted this thread over a year ago. No mention of swinging from my wife since. Then out of the blue, last night she told me she had watched documentary about swingers. This time she told she can see the appeal of it but when I tried to explore further she changed the subject. Confused dot com.

tell her you're confused and ask her outright if she's interested or just talking about it in general. You really won't become any less confused until you ask her "

Yea, if the answer is no, you’ll lose nothing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like she wants to, but also doesn't know how to broach the subject. Tell her you got intrigued after she mentioned it, so you googled it and you can see what she means about the appeal. Then don't push too hard, but ask a follow up question, what specifically did she find appealing?

From there at least your talking.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Also ask her what specifically interests her?

Exploring bi play? Or other men? Watching other couples? Or just posting pictures?

It’s such a broad thing.

Listen to the bedhoppersuk podcast too they were on that swingers doc as Simon and Carolyn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just keep posting random questions on the forums mate - she's sure to turn up and answer your questions sooner or later - either that or she'll stumble upon your browsing history one of these days..."

HAHAHAHAHA!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok. So I posted this thread over a year ago. No mention of swinging from my wife since. Then out of the blue, last night she told me she had watched documentary about swingers. This time she told she can see the appeal of it but when I tried to explore further she changed the subject. Confused dot com.

tell her you're confused and ask her outright if she's interested or just talking about it in general. You really won't become any less confused until you ask her "

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By *oriarty99Man
over a year ago

London


"Communicate with your wife not a forum of strangers"

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Does your wife know you are on here OP? She may have some suspicions that you are doing this without her and is just putting out some feelers to see how you respond.

If you are wanting to swing with her you need honest and open communication together.

Talk to her not us!"

Good advice

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