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"What's a BBC " big brown cocktail  | |||
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"What's a BBC " A lot of fun and VERY pleasurable | |||
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 is it just me but am I the only black man who hates the term.
Personally think it’s degrading, but that’s my own opinion. | |||
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" is it just me but am I the only black man who hates the term.
Personally think it’s degrading, but that’s my own opinion. "You're not alone  | |||
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" is it just me but am I the only black man who hates the term.
Personally think it’s degrading, but that’s my own opinion. "Pretty reductive and simplistic term, but as some black friends have told me ‘It’s useful as a search term’. | |||
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" is it just me but am I the only black man who hates the term.
Personally think it’s degrading, but that’s my own opinion. "Yes I don’t like the term either tbh | |||
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"So being called a white man or a black man is okay then, or for some people they are labbled with a country or nation. Weird world we live in. But funny, me personally i dont take life too serious." Yes we are white or black but I’m not just white pussy , I’m a white woman or you may say someone is a black man but not really just a big black cock lol
I don’t take life too seriously either as it happens but we all have our views | |||
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"Its all for fun we all have lables and names, dont take life so seriously especially on a sex site "Not fabicide but slight fabiself-harm. Where is Fab insurance when we need it? | |||
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"So being called a white man or a black man is okay then, or for some people they are labbled with a country or nation. Weird world we live in. But funny, me personally i dont take life too serious. Yes we are white or black but I’m not just white pussy , I’m a white woman or you may say someone is a black man but not really just a big black cock lol
I don’t take life too seriously either as it happens but we all have our views " | |||
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"I guess for some people labels work for others they don't like them. Catergoies are useful for quick searches but even when you have found someone that matches the general search term I imagine you would still want a connection. Imagine fab with no labels and the wasted time contacting the wrong genders and sexualities. Skin colour is not really a preference thing for us but I could see it as being annoying you could not use it as a filter if it did something for you sexually." I don't think the issue is labelling, it's the label used. | |||
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" is it just me but am I the only black man who hates the term.
Personally think it’s degrading, but that’s my own opinion. "We share the same opinion. I've had people ask me directly ”Are you a BBC?” which pretty much sums up their Lack of respect. Then again, there are some men who feel empowered by the term. | |||
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"So being called a white man or a black man is okay then, or for some people they are labbled with a country or nation. Weird world we live in. But funny, me personally i dont take life too serious. Yes we are white or black but I’m not just white pussy , I’m a white woman or you may say someone is a black man but not really just a big black cock lol
I don’t take life too seriously either as it happens but we all have our views "In the real world we don't describe a black man as a BBC, a fat woman a bbw etc but on certain internet sites they're used as ready reckoners...nothing more. The problem arises when it's assumed every black man, fat woman etc is happy with the label. | |||
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"I guess for some people labels work for others they don't like them. Catergoies are useful for quick searches but even when you have found someone that matches the general search term I imagine you would still want a connection. Imagine fab with no labels and the wasted time contacting the wrong genders and sexualities. Skin colour is not really a preference thing for us but I could see it as being annoying you could not use it as a filter if it did something for you sexually." | |||
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"So being called a white man or a black man is okay then, or for some people they are labbled with a country or nation. Weird world we live in. But funny, me personally i dont take life too serious. Yes we are white or black but I’m not just white pussy , I’m a white woman or you may say someone is a black man but not really just a big black cock lol
I don’t take life too seriously either as it happens but we all have our views "why u calling ur self confident MIlf why not just say confident white women U LABELLING ur self as a MILF | |||
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"So being called a white man or a black man is okay then, or for some people they are labbled with a country or nation. Weird world we live in. But funny, me personally i dont take life too serious. Yes we are white or black but I’m not just white pussy , I’m a white woman or you may say someone is a black man but not really just a big black cock lol
I don’t take life too seriously either as it happens but we all have our views why u calling ur self confident MIlf why not just say confident white women
U LABELLING ur self as a MILF" | |||
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"It seems that what ever terms or things people put on here offends someone at some point im bbw doesnt offend me what bit ,it is what it is x" | |||
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"It seems that what ever terms or things people put on here offends someone at some point im bbw doesnt offend me what bit ,it is what it is x" I think the consternation regarding BBC is that it objectifies black men, reducing them merely to an appendage. I'd have no problem being referred to as a BBM (Big Black Man), just as you don't being referred to as a Big Beautiful Woman, but I'd never refer to a woman as a Tight White Pussy (TWP) or Fat White Pussy (FWP) or similar. | |||
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"It seems that those who are offended seem to be more offended by the cock part rather than the colour part of the term " The 'colour part' is purely descriptive. | |||
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"It seems that those who are offended seem to be more offended by the cock part rather than the colour part of the term The 'colour part' is purely descriptive." If u take it to the enth degree then it’s all purely descriptive. Interestingly, I’ve never heard a guy get offended by the term bwc | |||
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"It seems that what ever terms or things people put on here offends someone at some point im bbw doesnt offend me what bit ,it is what it is x I think the consternation regarding BBC is that it objectifies black men, reducing them merely to an appendage. I'd have no problem being referred to as a BBM (Big Black Man), just as you don't being referred to as a Big Beautiful Woman, but I'd never refer to a woman as a Tight White Pussy (TWP) or Fat White Pussy (FWP) or similar." :-  | |||
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"It seems that those who are offended seem to be more offended by the cock part rather than the colour part of the term The 'colour part' is purely descriptive. If u take it to the enth degree then it’s all purely descriptive. Interestingly, I’ve never heard a guy get offended by the term bwc" I've not routinely encountered the term BWC when describing white males by black women/couples or any women/couples for that matter, whereas BBC seems to be a common term used for black men by white women/couples (and some) black males. | |||
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"It seems that those who are offended seem to be more offended by the cock part rather than the colour part of the term The 'colour part' is purely descriptive. If u take it to the enth degree then it’s all purely descriptive. Interestingly, I’ve never heard a guy get offended by the term bwc" Ps incidentally describing a black man as a big black cock doesn't describe anything about what the 'cock' is attached to. | |||
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"What's a BBC bloody bad chicken " Lol | |||
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"It seems that those who are offended seem to be more offended by the cock part rather than the colour part of the term The 'colour part' is purely descriptive. If u take it to the enth degree then it’s all purely descriptive. Interestingly, I’ve never heard a guy get offended by the term bwc Ps incidentally describing a black man as a big black cock doesn't describe anything about what the 'cock' is attached to." Please forgive me but I think you’re overthinking this..... Just because a Blackman has a big cock... he still has to be polite and charming.... So it’s a given that people who want to meet a bbc... expect him to also be a nice person.... If you know any couples or single females that just want a black cock and don’t care about the person that cock is attached too... Please send them my way... I enjoy a easy shag | |||
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"So being called a white man or a black man is okay then, or for some people they are labbled with a country or nation. Weird world we live in. But funny, me personally i dont take life too serious. Yes we are white or black but I’m not just white pussy , I’m a white woman or you may say someone is a black man but not really just a big black cock lol
I don’t take life too seriously either as it happens but we all have our views why u calling ur self confident MIlf why not just say confident white women
U LABELLING ur self as a MILF"
Well to answer your loud questions
firstly it is a term for the whole person , as in mom id like to fuck or dad id like to fuck !
That could be applied if you were say out somewhere and you see an attractive dad
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I didn’t put im a confident white fanny to fuck so tbh there’s rather a lot of difference , and also I referred to myself and not labelled another with a derogatory term
And erm WHY ALL THE SHOUTING !!!!!!!!!
I wasnt judging anyone , merely answering the handsome chef and agreeing tbh
But then I don’t know why I expected a purely intelligent open discussion
Treat others as you would have them treat you I guess
And after some profiles and messages I’ve read on here then I guess there’s a massive difference from one person to another
Jeremy Kyle springs to mind sometimes | |||
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"So being called a white man or a black man is okay then, or for some people they are labbled with a country or nation. Weird world we live in. But funny, me personally i dont take life too serious. Yes we are white or black but I’m not just white pussy , I’m a white woman or you may say someone is a black man but not really just a big black cock lol
I don’t take life too seriously either as it happens but we all have our views why u calling ur self confident MIlf why not just say confident white women
U LABELLING ur self as a MILF
Well to answer your loud questions
firstly it is a term for the whole person , as in mom id like to fuck or dad id like to fuck !
That could be applied if you were say out somewhere and you see an attractive dad
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I didn’t put im a confident white fanny to fuck so tbh there’s rather a lot of difference , and also I referred to myself and not labelled another with a derogatory term
And erm WHY ALL THE SHOUTING !!!!!!!!!
I wasnt judging anyone , merely answering the handsome chef and agreeing tbh
But then I don’t know why I expected a purely intelligent open discussion
Treat others as you would have them treat you I guess
And after some profiles and messages I’ve read on here then I guess there’s a massive difference from one person to another
Jeremy Kyle springs to mind sometimes "And just to add I’m glad as you mentioned that you’re happy labelling yourself BBW | |||
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"It seems that those who are offended seem to be more offended by the cock part rather than the colour part of the term The 'colour part' is purely descriptive. If u take it to the enth degree then it’s all purely descriptive. Interestingly, I’ve never heard a guy get offended by the term bwc Ps incidentally describing a black man as a big black cock doesn't describe anything about what the 'cock' is attached to. Please forgive me but I think you’re overthinking this..... Just because a Blackman has a big cock... he still has to be polite and charming.... " Forgive me but I think you're missing my point, why are you placing the onus on the black male to be polite & charming? What about the qualities of the people looking to meet black men and how they refer to them? I've no interest in how people refer to themselves, I'm simply declaring my own personal observations on the term BBC. | |||
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" If you know any couples or single females that just want a black cock and don’t care about the person that cock is attached too... Please send them my way... I enjoy a easy shag" Lol good luck with that! | |||
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"It seems that those who are offended seem to be more offended by the cock part rather than the colour part of the term The 'colour part' is purely descriptive. If u take it to the enth degree then it’s all purely descriptive. Interestingly, I’ve never heard a guy get offended by the term bwc I've not routinely encountered the term BWC when describing white males by black women/couples or any women/couples for that matter, whereas BBC seems to be a common term used for black men by white women/couples (and some) black males." I think u would be surprised by how common the term bwc is. Personally I don’t see the difference, I’ve always found women put more onus on the big part, rather than what colour it is, but then I guess we all have our own preferences | |||
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"could of just googled that. What some people's obsession with this topic ?" penis envy | |||
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" is it just me but am I the only black man who hates the term.
Personally think it’s degrading, but that’s my own opinion.
You're not alone "Ask your selves BBC if someone o/s of this site called you this you would probably thump them. Because it helps you get your wicked way you don't mind it. | |||
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"What's a BBC " Bale, Benzema, Cristiano (BBC). | |||
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" is it just me but am I the only black man who hates the term.
Personally think it’s degrading, but that’s my own opinion.
You're not alone
Ask your selves BBC if someone o/s of this site called you this you would probably thump them. Because it helps you get your wicked way you don't mind it."There you go. No need to feel threatened. | |||
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" is it just me but am I the only black man who hates the term.
Personally think it’s degrading, but that’s my own opinion. "Bro your face can be seen in one of your public pic..... Read your own bio once over... | |||
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"What's a BBC " Something like a cucumber.... You can stay away from it or be in agony... Size doesn't matter I heard but I'm not sure cuz most prefer BBC... | |||
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"So being called a white man or a black man is okay then, or for some people they are labbled with a country or nation. Weird world we live in. But funny, me personally i dont take life too serious. Yes we are white or black but I’m not just white pussy , I’m a white woman or you may say someone is a black man but not really just a big black cock lol
I don’t take life too seriously either as it happens but we all have our views " | |||
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"It seems that those who are offended seem to be more offended by the cock part rather than the colour part of the term The 'colour part' is purely descriptive. If u take it to the enth degree then it’s all purely descriptive. Interestingly, I’ve never heard a guy get offended by the term bwc I've not routinely encountered the term BWC when describing white males by black women/couples or any women/couples for that matter, whereas BBC seems to be a common term used for black men by white women/couples (and some) black males. I think u would be surprised by how common the term bwc is. Personally I don’t see the difference, I’ve always found women put more onus on the big part, rather than what colour it is, but then I guess we all have our own preferences " Jesus, it isn't an observation on anyone's preferences, it's how those preferences are expressed that I'm talking about! | |||
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"It seems that those who are offended seem to be more offended by the cock part rather than the colour part of the term The 'colour part' is purely descriptive. If u take it to the enth degree then it’s all purely descriptive. Interestingly, I’ve never heard a guy get offended by the term bwc I've not routinely encountered the term BWC when describing white males by black women/couples or any women/couples for that matter, whereas BBC seems to be a common term used for black men by white women/couples (and some) black males. I think u would be surprised by how common the term bwc is. Personally I don’t see the difference, I’ve always found women put more onus on the big part, rather than what colour it is, but then I guess we all have our own preferences " Is it really that common? I’ve only come across the term BWC on here and only a handful of times in the forums. | |||
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"I do get pissed off when a guy messages me saying “hey u like BBC” ,I’ve never had a guy message saying “hey u like white cock” do y do black guys always message saying that ??" Hm... I have only got that maybe twice. From guys of clearly more not to like than the way they refer to themselves. | |||
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"I do get pissed off when a guy messages me saying “hey u like BBC” ,I’ve never had a guy message saying “hey u like white cock” do y do black guys always message saying that ??" That’s probably because you are white. I’m black and have had hundreds of “Hey do you like white cock” messages, I roll my eyes at every single one. | |||
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"I do get pissed off when a guy messages me saying “hey u like BBC” ,I’ve never had a guy message saying “hey u like white cock” do y do black guys always message saying that ??" This really upsets you? Maybe I’m reading it wrong but I think the person is asking if you would meet a black guy... If they sent a message saying “ hey you like black guys “ that might be better... but essentially it’s saying the same thing... | |||
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"I do get pissed off when a guy messages me saying “hey u like BBC” ,I’ve never had a guy message saying “hey u like white cock” do y do black guys always message saying that ?? This really upsets you? Maybe I’m reading it wrong but I think the person is asking if you would meet a black guy... If they sent a message saying “ hey you like black guys “ that might be better... but essentially it’s saying the same thing..." What I’m trying to say is why mention the colour of your skin in the first place.To me you should just message someone.I don’t message a guy saying “ Hi I’m a white woman do u wanna chat? “ | |||
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"What do you call a mixed raced one? BMC? Sounds too much like Big Mac" LMC LongMixedCock | |||
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"I do get pissed off when a guy messages me saying “hey u like BBC” ,I’ve never had a guy message saying “hey u like white cock” do y do black guys always message saying that ?? This really upsets you? Maybe I’m reading it wrong but I think the person is asking if you would meet a black guy... If they sent a message saying “ hey you like black guys “ that might be better... but essentially it’s saying the same thing... What I’m trying to say is why mention the colour of your skin in the first place.To me you should just message someone.I don’t message a guy saying “ Hi I’m a white woman do u wanna chat? “" Ok.... the internet is a heaven for people with no social skills.... don’t ever let any messages upset you nor expect well written/polite messages... It’s just the nature of the beast F | |||
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"I do get pissed off when a guy messages me saying “hey u like BBC” ,I’ve never had a guy message saying “hey u like white cock” do y do black guys always message saying that ?? This really upsets you? Maybe I’m reading it wrong but I think the person is asking if you would meet a black guy... If they sent a message saying “ hey you like black guys “ that might be better... but essentially it’s saying the same thing..." Again you're thinking with your cock. If a guy messages "hey u like BBC" That literally means " hey you like big black cock. And not "hey you want to meet/fuck a black man" | |||
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"Okay been sitting back and watching the thread. And yes I said I dislike the term and still do. But that’s my own opinion. It more irritates me more that black guys use it. Like they think “I’m Black I am more superior than any other man”. To me it’s like the opposite of white privilege. Maybe I am getting too into it. But they fling that around and expect to get far. It’s like dude seriously aren’t you better than that. Like I said it’s my own opinion. To me my merit and thing is I am a chef and I enjoy giving women oral. That make me somewhat different and hopefully woman sees that as hmmm something different. And what irritates me is white women seeing porn and thinking of bbc I need that because this girl enjoyed and I want to try etc. The ignorance sometimes, like all black men enjoy being called bbc. I had one white woman say she liked my bbc. I said I don’t like to be called that and her response was “sorry I’m new, don’t know really about swinging” so in her eyes what she’s heard we all (black men) should be called bbc. So yeah black men are to be blamed because they use it as a meal ticket to get easy pussy. And yes I say easy pussy because porn has made it such a fascination " For black men with big dicks its always easy meal, because you have big dicks and apparently size matters alot, most women on here prefer "BBC" if you have a big cock and are black, they'll see you as god and ready to worship your Mandingo. That's how I see it | |||
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"Okay been sitting back and watching the thread. And yes I said I dislike the term and still do. But that’s my own opinion. It more irritates me more that black guys use it. Like they think “I’m Black I am more superior than any other man”. To me it’s like the opposite of white privilege. Maybe I am getting too into it. But they fling that around and expect to get far. It’s like dude seriously aren’t you better than that. Like I said it’s my own opinion. To me my merit and thing is I am a chef and I enjoy giving women oral. That make me somewhat different and hopefully woman sees that as hmmm something different. And what irritates me is white women seeing porn and thinking of bbc I need that because this girl enjoyed and I want to try etc. The ignorance sometimes, like all black men enjoy being called bbc. I had one white woman say she liked my bbc. I said I don’t like to be called that and her response was “sorry I’m new, don’t know really about swinging” so in her eyes what she’s heard we all (black men) should be called bbc. So yeah black men are to be blamed because they use it as a meal ticket to get easy pussy. And yes I say easy pussy because porn has made it such a fascination " You really think having a bbc gets you easy pussy....... I have heard it all now You and I are the same age... So I will drop some knowledge on you about my experience swinging for 10-11 years. 90% of the people you will meet will be 1 off’s. They will want you for a momentary sexual need and that’s it.. The other 10% will be your friends until someone new comes along.... Use swinging as a holiday from your vanilla life. Just enjoy the sex and fun.. don’t give yourself any stress... it’s just sex.... Happy swinging | |||
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"I do get pissed off when a guy messages me saying “hey u like BBC” ,I’ve never had a guy message saying “hey u like white cock” do y do black guys always message saying that ??" Ive never started a convo like that, for the record #BLACKGUYHERE | |||
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"I HATE THE BBC REFERENCE. Some think it's cool. We all have our opinions. I will stick to mine" | |||
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