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By *ollarLeadRestrain OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

So just got a "don't think you what we looking for" return message (a return message WOW!)

So this couple say looking for 'bi male for regular fmm' on there profile.

My question to you good folk is do I need to rebrand my profile, taming down the role play slave stuff?

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

Do you mean quit OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a tad blah blah blah

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"So just got a "don't think you what we looking for" return message (a return message WOW!)

So this couple say looking for 'bi male for regular fmm' on there profile.

My question to you good folk is do I need to rebrand my profile, taming down the role play slave stuff? "

do you want to? Do you want meets that aren't in line with your preference?

We don't get many meets because of our preferences but we'd rather one that we really wanted than 10 that we compromised on.

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By *ollarLeadRestrain OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"So just got a "don't think you what we looking for" return message (a return message WOW!)

So this couple say looking for 'bi male for regular fmm' on there profile.

My question to you good folk is do I need to rebrand my profile, taming down the role play slave stuff?

do you want to? Do you want meets that aren't in line with your preference?

We don't get many meets because of our preferences but we'd rather one that we really wanted than 10 that we compromised on.

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Yes one a month would be nice!...but after 3 years with zero one gets rather fed up!!!!

So think taming preferences until at least get a conversation started.

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By *ollarLeadRestrain OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Do you mean quit OP? "
oops yes!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"So just got a "don't think you what we looking for" return message (a return message WOW!)

So this couple say looking for 'bi male for regular fmm' on there profile.

My question to you good folk is do I need to rebrand my profile, taming down the role play slave stuff?

do you want to? Do you want meets that aren't in line with your preference?

We don't get many meets because of our preferences but we'd rather one that we really wanted than 10 that we compromised on.

Yes one a month would be nice!...but after 3 years with zero one gets rather fed up!!!!

So think taming preferences until at least get a conversation started."

get a conversation started then just casually drop the slave bit in

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We don't get one a month but have to admit more than zero every three years.

I'm a big believer in being yourself but if its not working be someone else

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Do you mean quit OP? oops yes!

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The bottom line is you're an average middle aged single guy who can't accommodate. That, unfortunately, already puts you pretty much at the bottom of the fab pecking order. If you're interests are so niche you limit your chances even further.

Frankly, you're unlikely to get much luck on here. If you are heavily into sub dom play, I would go to a fetish club and talk to people.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"So just got a "don't think you what we looking for" return message (a return message WOW!)

So this couple say looking for 'bi male for regular fmm' on there profile.

My question to you good folk is do I need to rebrand my profile, taming down the role play slave stuff?

do you want to? Do you want meets that aren't in line with your preference?

We don't get many meets because of our preferences but we'd rather one that we really wanted than 10 that we compromised on.

Yes one a month would be nice!...but after 3 years with zero one gets rather fed up!!!!

So think taming preferences until at least get a conversation started.

get a conversation started then just casually drop the slave bit in

.

We don't get one a month but have to admit more than zero every three years.

I'm a big believer in being yourself but if its not working be someone else "

As ever, it's supply and demand. Couples and women can hold our for what they want because there will probably be someone eager to provide it. Single men don't have that luxury.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Not a slight on you OP but if my returns was zero in three years i would have quit long ago. You aren't the only one as i spoke with a guy in the past who had been on here for 2 years without any success whatsoever. It just made him bitter. But if you still have a positive attitude then can't see why you shouldn't continue. But the results speaks for themselves. Something needs to change whether its the profile or expectations or demands. It amazes me how some people are so determined and resilient on here to endure when the endeavour is so fruitless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think your profile is fine

We would probably meet you if you wern't so far away... Note T is collared...

However.... perhaps you would have more luck on an alternative site?

a FETish LIFEstyle site perhaps?

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By *ollarLeadRestrain OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"We think your profile is fine

We would probably meet you if you wern't so far away... Note T is collared...

However.... perhaps you would have more luck on an alternative site?

a FETish LIFEstyle site perhaps?"

Wow thanks feeling all and having checked out your profile ....where did I put that train time table!!!

Was on FETish lifestyle site, got fed up of financial scammers after card details... for some reason they disappeared when told I didn't have a credit card?!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"So just got a "don't think you what we looking for" return message (a return message WOW!)

So this couple say looking for 'bi male for regular fmm' on there profile.

My question to you good folk is do I need to rebrand my profile, taming down the role play slave stuff? "

If you think your profile reflects you then don’t change it.

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By *ollarLeadRestrain OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"We think your profile is fine

We would probably meet you if you wern't so far away... Note T is collared...

However.... perhaps you would have more luck on an alternative site?

a FETish LIFEstyle site perhaps?"

If only I could message you!

Would be intrested in theory on how you would see dynamic working?

My over kinky mind is on over time!

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