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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have meet a couple who we get on really well with inside and outside the bedroom and have had discussions regarding an exclusive arrangement where we only meet them which we are all in agreement with so far. We just wondered if anyone else has had this type of arrangement and how it worked for them? Thanks Brad & Nickey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried it once years ago, I think quite dangerous, if one of the couple start to like the other partner more.

But at least I got an amazing wife put of it

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

just curious, is this so that the guys can go bareback? or am I off the point?

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

We haven't gone exclusive. But have very close friends who we play with far more than anyone else. We really enjoy it as we all know and trust each other and have a laugh.

We could see the benefits of a arrangement like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just curious, is this so that the guys can go bareback? or am I off the point?"

Not at all just a connection that works

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tried it once years ago, I think quite dangerous, if one of the couple start to like the other partner more.

But at least I got an amazing wife put of it "

This is true I guess small steps and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We haven't gone exclusive. But have very close friends who we play with far more than anyone else. We really enjoy it as we all know and trust each other and have a laugh.

We could see the benefits of a arrangement like that "

Working so far early days but seems good so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tried it once years ago, I think quite dangerous, if one of the couple start to like the other partner more.

But at least I got an amazing wife put of it

This is true I guess small steps and see what happens"

But that's assuming you want a new wife!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tried it once years ago, I think quite dangerous, if one of the couple start to like the other partner more.

But at least I got an amazing wife put of it

This is true I guess small steps and see what happens

But that's assuming you want a new wife! "

Nope quite happy with the one I have lol and to be able to share her with them and vice verse is very rewarding

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We haven't gone exclusive. But have very close friends who we play with far more than anyone else. We really enjoy it as we all know and trust each other and have a laugh.

We could see the benefits of a arrangement like that "

The dynamic is going to be very different with couples (the question may not even make sense for singles), but I certainly have friends who I'll meet before anyone else. It's good to develop trust and get to know each other a bit, even if only in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never done it. Sounds like too much hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would just end up being boring..or it will just end up with one of the couple running off with one of the other couple..can not see the point of exclusivity..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would just end up being boring..or it will just end up with one of the couple running off with one of the other couple..can not see the point of exclusivity.."

The point I made we did, and was completely missed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guess it depends how strong your relationship is if you have doubts about trust then you shouldnt be swinging on that basis you would worry about your partner leaving you every time you met another couple or person. Appreciate your input though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess it depends how strong your relationship is if you have doubts about trust then you shouldnt be swinging on that basis you would worry about your partner leaving you every time you met another couple or person. Appreciate your input though"

Sadly it has been proven very stable relationships have been broken up by swinging.

Sometimes we can't help falling in love with another person even though we are already in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess it depends how strong your relationship is if you have doubts about trust then you shouldnt be swinging on that basis you would worry about your partner leaving you every time you met another couple or person. Appreciate your input though"

Well obviously we do not worry about that..we have been together for 28 years and swingers for around 26 of them ....but meeting the same people on a regular basis for sex can lead to anything.. you are forming long term sexual relationships ..just do not take it for granted that a stray of a partner could not happen ..I met Diane when I was a taxi driver..I was married ..we just hit it off ....I and she were not looking for new partners..I thought I was happily married, 7 years by then..it just happened and it caused a lot of upset too..don't take anything for granted relationship wise..and there was not sex involved when we met

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