FabSwingers.com forum: The larger figure guy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work)

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Lots of people like a dad bod. I think you look good in your pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) "
omg I looked........ Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice to you OP, is to take some new pics preferably without your dick on them.

I am a big guy, I have been on the site for 5 weeks and I have a meet on Saturday. There are people out there who prefer our body type, you just need to be patient and friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got a dad bod and manage to get meets.

Don’t stress your meet will happen when it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of people like a dad bod. I think you look good in your pics x "

^^^ agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love larger guys, bit of a belly etc. Plenty on here that do OP so best of luck

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By *rMrsNawtyCouple
over a year ago

north west

"Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) "

I love a larger guy. Keep with it and im sure you will have some luck soon. Sometimes it just takes abit of time.

Mrsnawty xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore big bad handsome men

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

My boyfriend is a big guy but for casual sex i go for gym fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my favourite hunks was the big man jhona luma, ,taken away far too soon

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes - it's perhaps worth doing a forum search for similar subjects, where people have discussed this before.

It's generally tough for single guys, even those with Adonis looks, due to the level of competition of hordes of single guys here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad bods rule! Id much rather a guy have a bit of squish. Cant be everyones cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) "

I only go for bigger guys, but prefer to see body pics than dick pics, to actually see if they are big enough

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

I would class myself as slim/athletic. Had zero luck. I might start eating donuts and drinking pints more regularly. I think larger men have their fans. Gym bods obviously do. Think skinny guys are the ones who may struggle the most. In my humble opinion of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi folks larger built guy here. Some woman like us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all.

Wish was some ladies round my area that like bigger guys, like you do.

Updated my profile so hopefully it's better.

What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you all.

Wish was some ladies round my area that like bigger guys, like you do.

Updated my profile so hopefully it's better.

What do you think? "

I'd loose the close up cock pic personally.

But you were successful before so just do what you did previous and sure you'll have as much luck.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

"I would class myself as slim/athletic. Had zero luck. I might start eating donuts and drinking pints more regularly. I think larger men have their fans. Gym bods obviously do. Think skinny guys are the ones who may struggle the most. In my humble opinion of course. "

Donuts are for amateurs, I recommend pies.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Thank you all.

Wish was some ladies round my area that like bigger guys, like you do.

Updated my profile so hopefully it's better.

What do you think? "

Lose the close up cock pic.

Try exfoliating.

Are you a Secret Agent lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try expanding your age range, there may be lots of ladies trying to reach you who can't at the moment.

Agree with previous poster, better body shots, not C**K pics, it's assumed you have one of those.

You also live in a city which has a club, try socialising face to face as well as chatting on here.

Mrs

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By *rTall89Man
over a year ago

ipswich

" I only go for bigger guys, but prefer to see body pics than dick pics, to actually see if they are big enough"

Well I wasn't expecting that comment! Big enough body being preferential he he

This thread, with the ladies commenting about their liking of the larger gent is really awesome. I see so many 6-packs photos and "I want gym fit/muscly only" that really brings me down. There's nothing wrong with a chunkier man or woman!

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

Definitely a preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) "

You have taken your pics from the worst possible angles! Take them facing you straight on. never from above or below and IN DAYLIGHT or a well lit room!

Also don't mention how big you are, let people decide once they meet you, women love all shapes and sizes, some personality shining through will help too.

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By *rblue38Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

I have the dad bod and not met any women since u been here roughly 2 years. I think it's all to do with competition really men get a harder time here. I think it's to do with location too. I wish you all the luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Diane prefers chuncky/fat guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope so

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East

"Dad bod and proud

Bloody perfect bod

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By *ady-LoverMan
over a year ago

swindon

Nothing wrong with dad bod just embrace it. All about confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dad bod and proud

Bloody perfect bod

Why thank you very much

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I like a dad bod too, even better if he has a hairy chest. A manly man

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By *orny Biker 69Man
over a year ago

Greenford

Hairy Dad Bod here ??

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"I like a dad bod too, even better if he has a hairy chest. A manly man

Hairy chested dad bod here saying hello

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By *r_TrojanMan
over a year ago

In The North

"Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) "

Like others have said... Don't sweat it... Just be you and enjoy who you are... As you have seen from some of the replies, there are women who are into bigger guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big guys i.e. tall, broad shouldered, brawny / beefy guys do OK

Guys with soft hanging wobbly fat tend not to

Guys who are short and large tend not to either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attend one of the bbg nights.

Oh there ain’t one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big guys i.e. tall, broad shouldered, brawny / beefy guys do OK

Guys with soft hanging wobbly fat tend not to

Guys who are short and large tend not to either"

It’s all about height on here I’ve found. Other things like facial looks,body come 2nd.

There are plenty of ladies out there that will meet you op. Read the profiles and filter the ones not for you out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aint got a clue if mine is classed as a dad bod or not i am what i am and i seem to be getting a few meets now

Its all about confidence

The last meet i had i really thought she wouldnt look twice at me..... We are meeting again for round 2 soon

It will happen when the time is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aint got a clue if mine is classed as a dad bod or not i am what i am and i seem to be getting a few meets now

Its all about confidence

The last meet i had i really thought she wouldnt look twice at me..... We are meeting again for round 2 soon

It will happen when the time is right

You're not large build tho

well, if you are, you're really good at breathing in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod here but trying slowly but surely to improve it

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Horse for courses. My body tells a tale, mainly the love of ale, pork pies and enjoying myself. But I don't find it to be a barrier, many women are more than happy with a robust gentleman. FAB is hard work for single guys of all shapes and sizes. Best thing you can do is be your self, let your true self shine and avoid being a dick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Absolutely love your body Mrs Nawty xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bods are liked... OMG there is hope for me yet

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

"Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) "

Love bigger guys .... but not dick pics .... instant no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear you. Being a big guy your definitely not everyone’s first choice but there are women out there that like a bigger guy.

There’s someone for everyone it’s just finding them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it harder on here than meeting people while out

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By *rMrsNawtyCouple
over a year ago

north west

"Absolutely love your body Mrs Nawty xx"

Awww thanks babe

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

I love a dad bod more to hold and so yummy to cuddle into oh yes give me a dad bod any day......drools

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a dad bod more to hold and so yummy to cuddle into oh yes give me a dad bod any day......drools

We need more woman like you

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

Such a pity none of you beautiful ladies aren't close to me

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

Mcr

I'm pretty much in this category, my sport pretty much demands dad bods heh.

Meets aren't as easy as some of my friends on here, but still the competiton is pretty much lottery standards, so crack on

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

It does make you feel a bit inadequate when you see all these six pack guys on here and profiles looking for 'gym fit'.

Being a bit chubby myself it's easy to put lack of 'success' down to that, but think it's hard for all males on here.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm looking for a guy with a nice face and a beer belly I can get snuggled into, I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm looking for a guy with a nice face and a beer belly I can get snuggled into, I love it."

Get your arse here then haha

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"I'm looking for a guy with a nice face and a beer belly I can get snuggled into, I love it."

300 miles away though!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I'm looking for a guy with a nice face and a beer belly I can get snuggled into, I love it.

300 miles away though!

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm looking for a guy with a nice face and a beer belly I can get snuggled into, I love it.

300 miles away though!

I know

Far from Newcastle?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I'm looking for a guy with a nice face and a beer belly I can get snuggled into, I love it.

300 miles away though!

I know

Far from Newcastle?"

About 130 miles too far. And you need to work on your beer belly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm looking for a guy with a nice face and a beer belly I can get snuggled into, I love it.

300 miles away though!

I know

Far from Newcastle?

About 130 miles too far. And you need to work on your beer belly

Haha I’m the best snuggler don't worry!!

Are you near Edinburgh? I’m working up near there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there should be a thread on people needing advice to make their profile more appealing

I took a lot from the thread and made changes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm looking for a guy with a nice face and a beer belly I can get snuggled into, I love it.

Get your arse here then haha"

Since when has showing abs been a beer belly

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a dad bod more to hold and so yummy to cuddle into oh yes give me a dad bod any day......drools

Wow ur stunning what an amazing figure would have messaged but im outside ur age range to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP i suggest trying some clubs mate it can be baptism of fire u might not get to play the first time but go a couple of times and i bet u will be surprised im alot bigger than u and i get meets

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By *arry1212Man
over a year ago

london

"Hi all. Is there people out there that like the bigger guy? Seem to get no luck (yes my pics are not of my face as I have to be discreet due to work) "

I'm a big guy and I don't agree about the no luck. U have to go to parties and socialise! Talk to women and banter. Feel the vibe!! Then u can tell ur people profile page face to face. By then ur a real person not just a profile! On ur profile too no dick pics for the public. Not all women like that so it's best to leave it off.

Be patient mate. It will come! Good luck

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

DAs bod here.

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By *team7279Couple
over a year ago

London

I'm a big fella, but you just have to be confident and work with what you have! I'm not actually on here to actively play myself (that's for Mrs A to do), but confidence and a good sense of humour go a long way to sell those curves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just on the subject of bigger guys, I was part of a Discussion about body shaming and how girls feel pressured into conforming to an image, I feel its like this for guys just as much, especially on sites like this when you read some of the profiles you get the impression that you need to have a chiselled physique to get on with the ladies, this is in no way a self pity comment as I know rome wasn't built in a day but it can dent a guys confidence.

as I said to someone about health and fitness/looking after yourself `my bodys a temple...…...a bloody buddhist temple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure, I’m a bigger guy and was formally a lot more fitter and toned, I used to go to gym 6 times a week, then I thought why have a 6 pack when you can have a keg

Anyways from my experience of both sides, it’s a lot harder for the bigger guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't generally go for athletic guys, I have met a few but always felt more comfortable and had better meets with bigger guys. The young athletics that I have met tend to be the fuck boy type, message at 2am asking for nudes. The bigger dudes are the ones I am friends with and talk to through the day, not just at 2am after their other options have dried up lol. Sorry if I am generalizing, it's just my personal experience xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just on the subject of bigger guys, I was part of a Discussion about body shaming and how girls feel pressured into conforming to an image, I feel its like this for guys just as much, especially on sites like this when you read some of the profiles you get the impression that you need to have a chiselled physique to get on with the ladies, this is in no way a self pity comment as I know rome wasn't built in a day but it can dent a guys confidence.

as I said to someone about health and fitness/looking after yourself `my bodys a temple...…...a bloody buddhist temple

well said ! Can I just say though, when six pack pictures appear in my inbox I generally scroll on by those. We are all attracted to different things. I can admire a good physique but I would rather snuggle a Dad bod after a steamy sesh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think I need to be up near Scotland way then. Plenty to snuggle up to here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s a relief cos I’m a tubby Freddie, but loves fun times. Fortunately I’m not 64 yet

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have a bit of a dad bod at the moment. Trying to loose it also. I get meets

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By *team7279Couple
over a year ago

London

as I said to someone about health and fitness/looking after yourself `my bodys a temple...…...a bloody buddhist temple

Yeah, as someone whose struggled with weight my whole life, I can certainly confirm that body shaming for overweight men is a thing. Not on the same cultural level that women get it of course, but I spent a lot of my life feeling unattractive and inadequate. As I've gotten older it's meant less to me, and even posting up a naked, body-focused photo on the profile here feels oddly empowering now, when once it would have been unthinkable.

(Probably helps that, big or not, I found the woman of my dreams!

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