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By *ercedesgirl OP   Couple
over a year ago

gosforth

im tired of people accusing us of being fake, because we dont show our verifications from advertised meets. We dont NEED to publicise who we play with...not here for feedback from others..those weve played with know were real!

We get lots of requests to meet but are selective and dont get time to reply to 100s of emails. As soon as we dont reply were fakes!

pretty annonying!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if you don't react, it annoys them more..

I have learnt that and it truly works...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using a 'couple' profile asking for men to join you would surely help????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

glad we are not the only ones thinking this

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Using a 'couple' profile asking for men to join you would surely help????"

+1

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

you choose to hide your verifications just as people choose to want to read other peoples

you have bouht this annoyance on yourself

i choose not to play on cam and put it on my profile yet still get asked to. Do i let it bother me, no i just politely point out the relevent section of my profile and move on

you cannot change the way that people choose to be so why let it bother you? if they get arsey about it just laugh at them getting so wound up about it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

also, think its a bit misleading to have a single woman profile but only meeting as a couple, even if he only watches

but i'm not bothered about it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using a 'couple' profile asking for men to join you would surely help????"

Oh please...that would be too obvious! Tsk!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

By the rules of this website your profile could be reported as being the 'wrong sex', that is, you are a couple advertising as a single woman. So technically, by the rules of this site, you are fake.

Sorry.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"if you don't react, it annoys them more..

I have learnt that and it truly works..."

thanks for the tip _iew will try it but i find it difficult not to respond how do u do it ?

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"im tired of people accusing us of being fake, because we dont show our verifications from advertised meets. We dont NEED to publicise who we play with...not here for feedback from others..those weve played with know were real!

We get lots of requests to meet but are selective and dont get time to reply to 100s of emails. As soon as we dont reply were fakes!

pretty annonying!"

tell you what - shag me - I'll brag about it to everyone in here - instant rep!

Sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you don't react, it annoys them more..

I have learnt that and it truly works...

thanks for the tip _iew will try it but i find it difficult not to respond how do u do it ?"

Block as soon as you send your initial thanks but no thanks reply. Saves them forgetting and messaging you again in the future and also any argy bargy about why you've said no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using a 'couple' profile asking for men to join you would surely help????

Oh please...that would be too obvious! Tsk! "

It's been changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your picture does look a little too professional, maybe thats why people think your fake, it could easily be taken from a dirty movie with how the shot looks, not saying it is, but its probs why some blokes are assuming your fake when they cant take rejection!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using a 'couple' profile asking for men to join you would surely help????

Oh please...that would be too obvious! Tsk!

It's been changed "

But no vital states for the male...hmmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using a 'couple' profile asking for men to join you would surely help????

Oh please...that would be too obvious! Tsk!

It's been changed

But no vital states for the male...hmmm. "

who cares lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your picture does look a little too professional, maybe thats why people think your fake, it could easily be taken from a dirty movie with how the shot looks, not saying it is, but its probs why some blokes are assuming your fake when they cant take rejection!"

"a little too professional" - I'd been trying to think of a polite way to say that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using a 'couple' profile asking for men to join you would surely help????

Oh please...that would be too obvious! Tsk!

It's been changed

But no vital states for the male...hmmm.

who cares lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block those people, and do not worry. I must admit before signing up to site membership, I have been guilty of sending a few mails to the same couple. When people say "not what we are looking for". I do not start throwing a hissie fit. Like some people have done. I just say thanks for their time. And look for someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a pic that looks too professional....Ive heard it all now...while I like the pic, it not up there with others Ive seen that aren't 'professional'...what counts as professional here?

also plenty of pics taken by loads Ive seen(and met) on here, a good camera is all it takes...and I wouldn't class them as fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a pic that looks too professional....Ive heard it all now...while I like the pic, it not up there with others Ive seen that aren't 'professional'...what counts as professional here?

also plenty of pics taken by loads Ive seen(and met) on here, a good camera is all it takes...and I wouldn't class them as fakes"

i didnt say it was fake, just its a really good pic and looks like a shot from a porno or porn website and shes a good looking girl and you deffos got porn star worthy tits!

i dont think she fake, as would wonder why a couple would pretend to be a couple just to get a man over, woman over yes but a man no point really in a fake profile.

plus the photo not duplicated on the web either according to tinyeye which is another thing that lets you know its probs 99% certain of being an original photo.

but if your just some pissed off guy who cant take rejection and think everyone who speaks to you but dont fuck is fake, well the photos quite good so im just saying its probs one of the reasons why, but then i bet alot of these guys just say most people are fake too i hear it off a lot of nice lasses who have photos up who ive met and arnt fake either

so more of compliment than confirming ur fake, coz like i said why anyone has to lie to get blokes to play even with other blokes its not neceassary in most cases i bet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You take the rough with the smooth in this world x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"im tired of people accusing us of being fake, because we dont show our verifications from advertised meets. We dont NEED to publicise who we play with...not here for feedback from others..those weve played with know were real!

We get lots of requests to meet but are selective and dont get time to reply to 100s of emails. As soon as we dont reply were fakes!

pretty annonying!"

if they don't believe you... don't meet them.... i know thats simplistic, but is as true as anything....

and besides if they have that attitude to begin with, then you probably wouldn't meet them anyway.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a pic that looks too professional....Ive heard it all now...while I like the pic, it not up there with others Ive seen that aren't 'professional'...what counts as professional here?

also plenty of pics taken by loads Ive seen(and met) on here, a good camera is all it takes...and I wouldn't class them as fakes"

I agree... Better than some of the bum hole photos... Or are they bad face pics... Where are my glasses... Sometimes Its a bloody lottery on here for me!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

It happens...

Ignore/block them and move on....

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"im tired of people accusing us of being fake, because we dont show our verifications from advertised meets. We dont NEED to publicise who we play with...not here for feedback from others..those weve played with know were real!

We get lots of requests to meet but are selective and dont get time to reply to 100s of emails. As soon as we dont reply were fakes!

pretty annonying!"

i'd happily meet you and confirm you arent fake

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