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"Find them a massive thrill. " Tbh think i mite if it was only women sucking blokes | |||
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"looking at your profile it seems you have very strong preferences,and that's all good, but a glory hole is all about anonymity so you don't know what yr going to get.. Best to avoid if it brings up such strong feelings.. I don't suppose he would be interested in my hole lol" I got the not knowing, just wish it was only women. Sorry but no he wouldnt. X | |||
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"Find them a massive thrill. " I do understand how it could be, n me sucking cock gr8, but its just whos sucking my hubbies | |||
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"Find them a massive thrill. Tbh think i mite if it was only women sucking blokes " Use your imagination and pretend it is.....or as others have said avoid. | |||
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"Find them a massive thrill. I do understand how it could be, n me sucking cock gr8, but its just whos sucking my hubbies" What's all that about?? jealousy? homophobia? or something else? | |||
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"Find them a massive thrill. I do understand how it could be, n me sucking cock gr8, but its just whos sucking my hubbies What's all that about?? jealousy? homophobia? or something else?" None of the above, just dont like thought of a bloke sucking my hubbies cock. | |||
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"A club I used to go in North Wales had glory hole cupboards and a couple would often go in together. You could see her sucking his cock and the holes were quite large. She would back up towards a hole and let me finger her pussy or ass as she was sucking her fella off. She used to get so wet doing it " I like that idea. I have no issue with a women or woman sucking his cock. | |||
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"What does your hubby think about it I bet he's not bothered who's sucking his dick " Yea he is | |||
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"What does your hubby think about it I bet he's not bothered who's sucking his dick " Would you be.... | |||
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"What does your hubby think about it I bet he's not bothered who's sucking his dick Would you be...." It happened to me when I was at a party I had a lady Sat on my face and someone was sucking me off I didn't find out till later it was the ladies husband who was giving me a bj | |||
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"What does your hubby think about it I bet he's not bothered who's sucking his dick Would you be.... It happened to me when I was at a party I had a lady Sat on my face and someone was sucking me off I didn't find out till later it was the ladies husband who was giving me a bj " Each to there own but i wouldnt want to see my hubby doing it either. Tbh i know he wouldnt. | |||
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"What does your hubby think about it I bet he's not bothered who's sucking his dick Would you be.... It happened to me when I was at a party I had a lady Sat on my face and someone was sucking me off I didn't find out till later it was the ladies husband who was giving me a bj Each to there own but i wouldnt want to see my hubby doing it either. Tbh i know he wouldnt. " Perhaps glory holes aren't for you guys maybe who knows | |||
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"What does your hubby think about it I bet he's not bothered who's sucking his dick Would you be.... It happened to me when I was at a party I had a lady Sat on my face and someone was sucking me off I didn't find out till later it was the ladies husband who was giving me a bj Each to there own but i wouldnt want to see my hubby doing it either. Tbh i know he wouldnt. Perhaps glory holes aren't for you guys maybe who knows " Really wish i felt different buti dont x | |||
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"I went to a party and there was a home made glory hole defo a women in there as there was as I saw her coming into the room through the door. " | |||
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"What does your hubby think about it I bet he's not bothered who's sucking his dick Would you be.... It happened to me when I was at a party I had a lady Sat on my face and someone was sucking me off I didn't find out till later it was the ladies husband who was giving me a bj Each to there own but i wouldnt want to see my hubby doing it either. Tbh i know he wouldnt. Perhaps glory holes aren't for you guys maybe who knows Really wish i felt different buti dont x " Its OK to feel how you do it's about doing what you're comfortable with. | |||
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"Man up. Man up......" . Can't believe some idiot said this. The lady stated she does not like to think a guy could be sucking her fella. No need for stupid or abusive messages. | |||
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"Man up. Man up....... Can't believe some idiot said this. The lady stated she does not like to think a guy could be sucking her fella. No need for stupid or abusive messages. " It's not stupid or abusive it's a encouraging nudge to try new things but you feel free to white knight as much as you like | |||
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"Man up. Man up....... Can't believe some idiot said this. The lady stated she does not like to think a guy could be sucking her fella. No need for stupid or abusive messages. " Thank you glad someone is reading what i wrote xx | |||
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"What does your hubby think about it I bet he's not bothered who's sucking his dick Would you be.... It happened to me when I was at a party I had a lady Sat on my face and someone was sucking me off I didn't find out till later it was the ladies husband who was giving me a bj Each to there own but i wouldnt want to see my hubby doing it either. Tbh i know he wouldnt. Perhaps glory holes aren't for you guys maybe who knows Really wish i felt different buti dont x Its OK to feel how you do it's about doing what you're comfortable with. " Aww thx x | |||
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"The op has posted on here for support or advice not for people to have a pop at her. If she doesn't like to think of a guy sucking of her fella then that's her feelings. What concern is it to anyone else. I'm sure there are plenty of other couples who wouldn't what that" Aww thx m8 x | |||
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"Man up. Man up....... Can't believe some idiot said this. The lady stated she does not like to think a guy could be sucking her fella. No need for stupid or abusive messages. It's not stupid or abusive it's a encouraging nudge to try new things but you feel free to white knight as much as you like " I dont need a nudge to try new things i will never want to see or know some blokes sucked my hubby off. Thats not the type of experience im looking for. And no need for the white knight comment either im asking for advise not digs at my chances thx | |||
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"My hubby went in 1 and i could see 3 pairs of feet and the feet nearest to the hole, definitely didnt look like womens. I understand the thrill and he did enjoy it. But its just not for me. Just cant get him to understand how i feel. " See here ? He man'd up and went and had a good time, my advice stands perhaps he was more inclined to enter knowing the chances one of them pairs of feet was a man's Maybe you should see it more from his side of things | |||
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"Man up. Man up....... Can't believe some idiot said this. The lady stated she does not like to think a guy could be sucking her fella. No need for stupid or abusive messages. It's not stupid or abusive it's a encouraging nudge to try new things but you feel free to white knight as much as you like I dont need a nudge to try new things i will never want to see or know some blokes sucked my hubby off. Thats not the type of experience im looking for. And no need for the white knight comment either im asking for advise not digs at my chances thx " Not sure what chances took the white knight dig but I was talking to another member | |||
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"looking at your profile it seems you have very strong preferences,and that's all good, but a glory hole is all about anonymity so you don't know what yr going to get.. Best to avoid if it brings up such strong feelings.. I don't suppose he would be interested in my hole lol I got the not knowing, just wish it was only women. Sorry but no he wouldnt. X" You do understand that glory holes originated in cottages (male public toilets) in order for men to have some form of physical action with another man in a totally anonymous manner. It seems you have an issue with it and not your husband. I think this is a conversation you need to have with him. Glory holes have been a huge part of gay culture for over 100 years. What gives you the right to say you wish it was only women!? | |||
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"What baffles me is like most men your man likes his cock sucked..You said he enjoyed it. So why use glory holes when the chances are it will be a man who sucks his cock despite you telling him you don't approve.. Is he not being selfish if he knows how you feel and goes ahead and does it?" Here here | |||
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"What baffles me is like most men your man likes his cock sucked..You said he enjoyed it. So why use glory holes when the chances are it will be a man who sucks his cock despite you telling him you don't approve.. Is he not being selfish if he knows how you feel and goes ahead and does it?" He didnt see how many pairs of feet was in there, n it was the 1st time we had been in the glory holes. But i feel he wants to go again. | |||
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"What baffles me is like most men your man likes his cock sucked..You said he enjoyed it. So why use glory holes when the chances are it will be a man who sucks his cock despite you telling him you don't approve.. Is he not being selfish if he knows how you feel and goes ahead and does it? He didnt see how many pairs of feet was in there, n it was the 1st time we had been in the glory holes. But i feel he wants to go again." If it's making you feel so bad about it you need to tell him you really are not happy about it. Maybe if you go again let him go in cubicle but only if you know who is on other side. | |||
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"What baffles me is like most men your man likes his cock sucked..You said he enjoyed it. So why use glory holes when the chances are it will be a man who sucks his cock despite you telling him you don't approve.. Is he not being selfish if he knows how you feel and goes ahead and does it? I have tried to explain how i feel, n if i know who in there but said its not the idea. He didnt see how many pairs of feet was in there, n it was the 1st time we had been in the glory holes. But i feel he wants to go again. If it's making you feel so bad about it you need to tell him you really are not happy about it. Maybe if you go again let him go in cubicle but only if you know who is on other side. " | |||
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"It is the thought that there might be a man behind the glory hole that prevents me from considering it...." Finally someone sees my point. | |||
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"Some clubs, like the Vanilla Alternative, have a sign saying they are for ladies only apart from on bi night. " Wow thx for that think we will have to try that club x | |||
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"It is the thought that there might be a man behind the glory hole that prevents me from considering it...." A warm mouth is a warm mouth! close your eyes and think of England!! | |||
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"It is the thought that there might be a man behind the glory hole that prevents me from considering it.... A warm mouth is a warm mouth! close your eyes and think of England!!" Sorry your missing my point, i hate the thought of a bloke sucking my hubby off. Nothing more. | |||
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"Its the thought of splinters that puts me off." Love it lol. X | |||
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"It is the thought that there might be a man behind the glory hole that prevents me from considering it.... Finally someone sees my point. " Same reason I wouldn't go into a 'blackout' room shame really but it's my choice afterall. | |||
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"It is the thought that there might be a man behind the glory hole that prevents me from considering it.... Finally someone sees my point. Same reason I wouldn't go into a 'blackout' room shame really but it's my choice afterall." | |||
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" We are both straight, we do go clubs. Me nor my hubby want him receiving anything of a bloke. Thats why i said just the thought makes me feel sick. Have anything against bi or gay ppl its just not for us. " Not sure about the hubby sounds like likes the thought of a guy sucking him off Maybe he’s thinking of going other sude of wall? And you cant see his hints? | |||
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"looking at your profile it seems you have very strong preferences,and that's all good, but a glory hole is all about anonymity so you don't know what yr going to get.. Best to avoid if it brings up such strong feelings.. I don't suppose he would be interested in my hole lol I got the not knowing, just wish it was only women. Sorry but no he wouldnt. X You do understand that glory holes originated in cottages (male public toilets) in order for men to have some form of physical action with another man in a totally anonymous manner. It seems you have an issue with it and not your husband. I think this is a conversation you need to have with him. Glory holes have been a huge part of gay culture for over 100 years. What gives you the right to say you wish it was only women!? " Cultural appropriation of glory holes... You gotta love fab | |||
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"Shame they don't do the same for the ladies, so that men or women can lick their presented pussies..... " | |||
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"Shame they don't do the same for the ladies, so that men or women can lick their presented pussies..... " They have female glory holes at the Vanilla Alternative too! | |||
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"Shame they don't do the same for the ladies, so that men or women can lick their presented pussies..... " That can easily be done..Why don't you set something like that up?? I think instead of 'copying'what guys have been doing since time began,hetero's should create a suitable similar outlet. Perhaps the OP can set up a private version, that way you can police who uses it and you won't feel 'sick' | |||
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"Shame they don't do the same for the ladies, so that men or women can lick their presented pussies..... That can easily be done..Why don't you set something like that up?? I think instead of 'copying'what guys have been doing since time began,hetero's should create a suitable similar outlet. Perhaps the OP can set up a private version, that way you can police who uses it and you won't feel 'sick'" You appear very good at misreading other people's posts trying to make them homophobic. Please tell me where I said it makes me feel sick? I didn't so please don't invent it! I simply suggested a female version of a gloryhole (which apparently already exists) for the benefit of women who want to be licked by somebody anonymously. As far as I'm aware currently most are for the benefit of blokes which I see as both unfair to women and of no use to me...… now I could happily be the licker in a gloryhole for women | |||
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"Shame they don't do the same for the ladies, so that men or women can lick their presented pussies..... That can easily be done..Why don't you set something like that up?? I think instead of 'copying'what guys have been doing since time began,hetero's should create a suitable similar outlet. Perhaps the OP can set up a private version, that way you can police who uses it and you won't feel 'sick' You appear very good at misreading other people's posts trying to make them homophobic. Please tell me where I said it makes me feel sick? I didn't so please don't invent it! I simply suggested a female version of a gloryhole (which apparently already exists) for the benefit of women who want to be licked by somebody anonymously. As far as I'm aware currently most are for the benefit of blokes which I see as both unfair to women and of no use to me...… now I could happily be the licker in a gloryhole for women " I was referring to the OP who said knowing a guy was sucking her man's cock made her feel sick..try reading it again. | |||
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"Me and the hubby have very different opinions on glory holes, the thought that it could be a bloke sucking him makes me feel sick. Is it wrong that i dont want to go in there... If i knew 100% it was only women behind the door, it mite not bother me so much. " I have never seen a glory hole you couldn't look through the hole and see who was inside it. However if your husband doesn't care, why would you? | |||
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"Shame they don't do the same for the ladies, so that men or women can lick their presented pussies..... That can easily be done..Why don't you set something like that up?? I think instead of 'copying'what guys have been doing since time began,hetero's should create a suitable similar outlet. Perhaps the OP can set up a private version, that way you can police who uses it and you won't feel 'sick' You appear very good at misreading other people's posts trying to make them homophobic. Please tell me where I said it makes me feel sick? I didn't so please don't invent it! I simply suggested a female version of a gloryhole (which apparently already exists) for the benefit of women who want to be licked by somebody anonymously. As far as I'm aware currently most are for the benefit of blokes which I see as both unfair to women and of no use to me...… now I could happily be the licker in a gloryhole for women I was referring to the OP who said knowing a guy was sucking her man's cock made her feel sick..try reading it again." you quoted my post and said this "that way you can police who uses it and you (meaning me) won't feel 'sick'" Please do not imply things on other people's behalf. Or I will report it! | |||
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"Shame they don't do the same for the ladies, so that men or women can lick their presented pussies..... That can easily be done..Why don't you set something like that up?? I think instead of 'copying'what guys have been doing since time began,hetero's should create a suitable similar outlet. Perhaps the OP can set up a private version, that way you can police who uses it and you won't feel 'sick' You appear very good at misreading other people's posts trying to make them homophobic. Please tell me where I said it makes me feel sick? I didn't so please don't invent it! I simply suggested a female version of a gloryhole (which apparently already exists) for the benefit of women who want to be licked by somebody anonymously. As far as I'm aware currently most are for the benefit of blokes which I see as both unfair to women and of no use to me...… now I could happily be the licker in a gloryhole for women I was referring to the OP who said knowing a guy was sucking her man's cock made her feel sick..try reading it again. you quoted my post and said this "that way you can police who uses it and you (meaning me) won't feel 'sick'" Please do not imply things on other people's behalf. Or I will report it! " Oh get over yourself, that isn't what they said at all, they used one wrong word, they clearly meant they instead of you in their text as the incorrect change of person addressed shows. Looking to take offence much Especially as you didn't even mention feeling sick so it wouldn't even have been relevant. Clearly just looking to get offended and dramatic. | |||
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"In all fairness it feels no different if either a man or woman sucks you off (unless he has a beard). Are you worried that he may enjoy a mans mouth on his cock? The glory hole, by it's very nature, is anonymous, so you have no real way of knowing. He sticks his cock in, hoping a woman sorts him. If he knew for a fact it was a man, he wouldn't have to stick his cock in. It is possible that a man may be on the other side watching his mrs enjoying your fella. Only way to be sure is to be on the recieving end or set up your own hole at home." He isnt hoping its a man, believe me. In fact he hadnt even thought about it til i mentioned it. Looking at where the feet were no. | |||
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"In all fairness it feels no different if either a man or woman sucks you off (unless he has a beard). Are you worried that he may enjoy a mans mouth on his cock? The glory hole, by it's very nature, is anonymous, so you have no real way of knowing. He sticks his cock in, hoping a woman sorts him. If he knew for a fact it was a man, he wouldn't have to stick his cock in. It is possible that a man may be on the other side watching his mrs enjoying your fella. Only way to be sure is to be on the recieving end or set up your own hole at home. He isnt hoping its a man, believe me. In fact he hadnt even thought about it til i mentioned it. Looking at where the feet were no. " Only do what you are both comfortable with. This is supposed to be fun after all. | |||
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"Shame they don't do the same for the ladies, so that men or women can lick their presented pussies..... That can easily be done..Why don't you set something like that up?? I think instead of 'copying'what guys have been doing since time began,hetero's should create a suitable similar outlet. Perhaps the OP can set up a private version, that way you can police who uses it and you won't feel 'sick' You appear very good at misreading other people's posts trying to make them homophobic. Please tell me where I said it makes me feel sick? I didn't so please don't invent it! I simply suggested a female version of a gloryhole (which apparently already exists) for the benefit of women who want to be licked by somebody anonymously. As far as I'm aware currently most are for the benefit of blokes which I see as both unfair to women and of no use to me...… now I could happily be the licker in a gloryhole for women I was referring to the OP who said knowing a guy was sucking her man's cock made her feel sick..try reading it again. you quoted my post and said this "that way you can police who uses it and you (meaning me) won't feel 'sick'" Please do not imply things on other people's behalf. Or I will report it! Oh get over yourself, that isn't what they said at all, they used one wrong word, they clearly meant they instead of you in their text as the incorrect change of person addressed shows. Looking to take offence much Especially as you didn't even mention feeling sick so it wouldn't even have been relevant. Clearly just looking to get offended and dramatic. " The only clear thing was what he actually typed. nothing else. | |||
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"In all fairness it feels no different if either a man or woman sucks you off (unless he has a beard). Are you worried that he may enjoy a mans mouth on his cock? The glory hole, by it's very nature, is anonymous, so you have no real way of knowing. He sticks his cock in, hoping a woman sorts him. If he knew for a fact it was a man, he wouldn't have to stick his cock in. It is possible that a man may be on the other side watching his mrs enjoying your fella. Only way to be sure is to be on the recieving end or set up your own hole at home. He isnt hoping its a man, believe me. In fact he hadnt even thought about it til i mentioned it. Looking at where the feet were no. " 100% agree with everything you said during this topic Sandie xx | |||
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"In all fairness it feels no different if either a man or woman sucks you off (unless he has a beard). Are you worried that he may enjoy a mans mouth on his cock? The glory hole, by it's very nature, is anonymous, so you have no real way of knowing. He sticks his cock in, hoping a woman sorts him. If he knew for a fact it was a man, he wouldn't have to stick his cock in. It is possible that a man may be on the other side watching his mrs enjoying your fella. Only way to be sure is to be on the recieving end or set up your own hole at home. He isnt hoping its a man, believe me. In fact he hadnt even thought about it til i mentioned it. Looking at where the feet were no. Only do what you are both comfortable with. This is supposed to be fun after all." Totally x | |||
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"Glory holes are so exciting, not knowing who’s sucking your cock Close your eyes and feel those warm wet lips around your cock, so horny " Might be a give away if they wank you off first and have rough tradesman hands or a bit of stubble grazing your bell end as they slurp away. Still, you might get lucky with an old duffer who’s care assistant has shaved him beforehand and forgot to put his false gnashers in. | |||
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