FabSwingers.com forum: Open house, invite all within a radius

By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

What's your thoughts, I rent a large rural cottage with inside pool, then invite all within a certain radius.. would it work, free entry bring a bottle.. it could be different area's each month.. who would take up the offer

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It would depend. Would you have games on? What would the ratio be? Good in theory I suppose x

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Games yes, get suggestions from all the women, equal ratio, men and women and unlimited couples.. I'm seriously considering should we plan it right...

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

Sounds good to me

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By *orningtonCroissantMan
over a year ago

notts and humberside

Sounds like a great plan as long as it’s not a sausage fest

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Sounds like a great plan as long as it’s not a sausage fest "

Men won’t turn up so it’ll be ladies night.

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

Until you read the terms and conditions of who you're renting the place off..

And the owners of said property usually live close by so it's not as easy as it sounds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you’re happy to fund all the costs involved in this each month OP?

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"Sounds like a great plan as long as it’s not a sausage fest

Men won’t turn up so it’ll be ladies night. "

Equal balance of men and women, lots of couples

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"And you’re happy to fund all the costs involved in this each month OP? "

Yes, I'll pay for the cottage/house rental weekend only, all bring what drink they wish..

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"Until you read the terms and conditions of who you're renting the place off..

And the owners of said property usually live

close by so it's

not as easy as it

sounds "

Take that advice..Thanks

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Sounds good.

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"Sounds good. "

It planned right it's a winner.. I would need a couple or woman to assist on invites..

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

I wouldn't mind helping if it wasn't too far away from me

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By *ravelling repMan
over a year ago

in a hotel near you

Sounds really good keep me updated if it goes ahead please

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Sounds good.

It planned right it's a winner.. I would need a couple or woman to assist on invites.."

Why not another guy?

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"Sounds good.

It planned right it's a winner.. I would need a couple or woman to assist on invites..

Why not another guy? "

Yes I'd need help from other guys also.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Sounds like an expensive way for you to get laid tbh.

I take it your happy to spend a few hours cleaning up after everyone and also to cover the costs of damage !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get one sorted for west yorks and it would be amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's your thoughts, I rent a large rural cottage with inside pool, then invite all within a certain radius.. would it work, free entry bring a bottle.. it could be different area's each month.. who would take up the offer"
What we gonna do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be interested in coming and will bring a bottle or two

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m in

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

How big a house?

Who is paying for it?

Is it within the rental agreement you can have party's?

The reality is its easier to have a party at a club.

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Thanks for all your support, it's sounds like it would work, I'm not considering it only to get laid, not for money or anything other than to make good friends, fun, laughter and the experience.. I'll consider area, numbers and go on the net later and look at it's pros/ cons.. Will be back on this thread tomorrow.. thanks to all xx happy swinging

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

How big a house?

Who is paying for it?

Is it within the rental agreement you can have party's?

The reality is its easier to have a party at a club.

8 bed possibly, weekend rates not to bad as out of 6 week holiday, I'll cover the cost.. couples etc stopping over can help clean up.. I'll check small print prior to booking, better than a club as few could stop over and enjoy breakfast etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in

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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago

Isle of Arran

"Sounds like a great plan as long as it’s not a sausage fest

Men won’t turn up so it’ll be ladies night. "
not true!! a gentleman should allways keep his word and action allways speaks louder than words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *smithy83Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Im weeeeell up for this

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

We need one in kent !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens when the house gets thrashed and the owners find out you hired it for a party with an unfiltered and unknown guestlist?

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"What happens when the house gets thrashed and the owners find out you hired it for a party with an unfiltered and unknown guestlist?"

The first will be, strict guests list, 20 men, 15 women, 15 couples, all verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What happens when the house gets thrashed and the owners find out you hired it for a party with an unfiltered and unknown guestlist?

The first will be, strict guests list, 20 men, 15 women, 15 couples, all verified "

65 people? You're going to need a mansion, also expect 1/2 at least nit to show up.

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"What happens when the house gets thrashed and the owners find out you hired it for a party with an unfiltered and unknown guestlist?

The first will be, strict guests list, 20 men, 15 women, 15 couples, all verified "

To many singles for my taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What happens when the house gets thrashed and the owners find out you hired it for a party with an unfiltered and unknown guestlist?

The first will be, strict guests list, 20 men, 15 women, 15 couples, all verified "

You think you'll find 15 women to attend?

Okay what happends when a single bloke turns up with a load of mates from the pub? Or if someone gets d*unk and violent because they aren't getting any action?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we play naked twister or strip poker plz

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What happens when the house gets thrashed and the owners find out you hired it for a party with an unfiltered and unknown guestlist?

The first will be, strict guests list, 20 men, 15 women, 15 couples, all verified

You think you'll find 15 women to attend?

Okay what happends when a single bloke turns up with a load of mates from the pub? Or if someone gets d*unk and violent because they aren't getting any action?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the theory sounds great, but the reality would likely be a disaster

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

If you want single men to show up, you'll have to have it during office hours...

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

"If you want single men to show up, you'll have to have it during office hours..."

Haha

And if you want single women to turn up you'll need Tom Hardy behind the bar

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Sounds like a nightmare waiting to happen. Tho I doubt it will happen.

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Good luck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like a nightmare waiting to happen. Tho I doubt it will happen."

exactly my thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What happens when the house gets thrashed and the owners find out you hired it for a party with an unfiltered and unknown guestlist?

The first will be, strict guests list, 20 men, 15 women, 15 couples, all verified "

But u have no verifications yourself!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you will need to send out loads of invites to get the ratio your hoping as most will bottle it on day and 20men to 15 women isn't an equal ratio ,then there's the fact what happens when locals can't get parked up because there's an abundance of cars on street,the noise is disturbing them ,people are having sex outside (and it does happen)far easier to go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One near Manchester would be brilliant

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

I would need a few people to assist, ideas, area ECT.. who's willing to help put this first one together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would need a few people to assist, ideas, area ECT.. who's willing to help put this first one together?"

ECT?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would need a few people to assist, ideas, area ECT.. who's willing to help put this first one together?"

Lazy

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

You think it will be ok cause you're only invited verified people ? What does a verification prove? That they will turn up , be respectful, not be high on drugs , not sexually assault anyone , not cause any damage?

You say you are doing this not just for the sex but to make friends. Do you really think you will make friends with a bunch of strangers who are invited to a free party ? As the host surely you will have to keep an eye on everything that's going on rather than get involved.

You'd be better to attend a few events yourself first and start networking before taking on such a task.

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By *verageguy8989Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"It would depend. Would you have games on? What would the ratio be? Good in theory I suppose x"
my ratio would be just you and myself beautiful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand the negative comments and a lot of them will need to be taken in to account but give the guy a chance. If he does manage to arrange one and all goes well then he will at least have a few guests to invite again, any trouble makers will be barred. If all goes tits up then at least he gave it a go. Im willing to attend and just make sure all is above board without playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand the negative comments and a lot of them will need to be taken in to account but give the guy a chance. If he does manage to arrange one and all goes well then he will at least have a few guests to invite again, any trouble makers will be barred. If all goes tits up then at least he gave it a go. Im willing to attend and just make sure all is above board without playing."

sorry i dont believe for a second it will happen (green arrow)

hes asked for this and that and never took it on board and i cant see this "dream or fantasy" happening

thats my opinion btw

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

After chatting to a few positive people on here, it's possible with boundaries, to risk it failing, I'm checking the rental situation now over the next couple of days, thanks for the replies, advice and support

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

I'm sure the landlords would be delighted!

Open invites are fraught with danger, even if the idea sounds very appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as we can skinny dip in the pool sounds a good plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds perfect

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

OP, your profile says you can accom, so why not do a small party at yours first, s sort of trial run?

Get along to local clubs, socials and parties, spread the word about hosting a party in a few weeks, and network, when people see you regularly they will warm to the idea.

Be realistic about numbers, many guys will let you down, and single fems will be hard to convince, so aim for the majority to be couples, and take it from there.

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

I have thought of that, yet if it all went wrong an individual being asked to leave, I would dread my neighbours feelings, thanks for your advice

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

We had a party the other week. As a verified couple we had ten couples saying they were coming and three turned up.

The chances of a single guy getting anyone other than single guys to turn up seems to me minimal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep me in loop - I’d come as a couple with a fem friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea but you may want to sort yourself some insurance, big house, expensive things and total strangers tend not to mix too well, bound to be at least 1 cretin that robs the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had a party the other week. As a verified couple we had ten couples saying they were coming and three turned up.

The chances of a single guy getting anyone other than single guys to turn up seems to me minimal. "

That turn out was poor!

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"Sounds like a great plan as long as it’s not a sausage fest

Men won’t turn up so it’ll be ladies night. "

Do men really not turn up for meets with women, couples whoever. What’s the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

80+ miles... guess out of radius then!

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"80+ miles... guess out of radius then!

Just worked out what’s in your mouth, have to get a better screen.

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Thanks for your advise... Will check out a couple of weekend rentals over next few days, read conditions and come back to all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would a bigger couple be welcome xx

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"Would a bigger couple be welcome xx"

Yes of course x

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Majority of places would have restrictions in the lease on parties etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would a bigger couple be welcome xx

Yes of course x"

Cool will look out for date and location xx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"I have thought of that, yet if it all went wrong an individual being asked to leave, I would dread my neighbours feelings, thanks for your advice "

You are a single, unverified male.

One of the reasons we attend parties at peoples homes is that it is a fixed, identifiable point, that makes them "genuine"... or at least, traceable should anything go sideways lol.

You will get loads of "single" guys saying they will turn up (usually referred to as a "sausage-fest lol"), and the majority will let you down.

Single females will be nervous about turning up to a random address with a random male host, and, as someone else already pointed out, unknown couples can be flaky at best, and some will be put off by the thought of the aforementioned "sausage-fest" risk.

If you aren't willing to take the advice offered, begs the question why bother posting at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has disaster written all over it I suggest op you have an intimate gathering at yours with a few people to see if you can attract the kind of people you can connect with and then progress slowly from there ,you will end up out of pocket going too big too soon and it may end up looking raging you bitter ,so go small and use the experience you gain hosting intimate parties to gauge if your up to the task of something bigger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has disaster written all over it I suggest op you have an intimate gathering at yours with a few people to see if you can attract the kind of people you can connect with and then progress slowly from there ,you will end up out of pocket going too big too soon and it may end up looking raging you bitter ,so go small and use the experience you gain hosting intimate parties to gauge if your up to the task of something bigger"

Agree as that does sound like a lot of people id suggest maybe half xx

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By *rumkidTV/TS
over a year ago

birmingham

10/10 for trying though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggest you get to some parties held by others so you have some experience of what works and what doesn't work...you'll also get verified which is crucial to hosting...

We've been to and held some great parties but would never consider just opening up locally...we like to ensure a good mix of people we know will get on...

and it just looks like you haven't really thought through some of the practicalities...even down to where are all those people going to park? eight bedrooms will need at least 8 waterproof mattress covers and if you're relying on complete strangers to help you clean up, you're onto a massive disappointment there...

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Sounds good but as previous posters have said it could also be a recipe for disaster with such numbers. I would aim smaller at 8-12 attendees, it would still be as much fun but with less potential for damage and mess.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"I have thought of that, yet if it all went wrong an individual being asked to leave, I would dread my neighbours feelings, thanks for your advice

You are a single, unverified male.

One of the reasons we attend parties at peoples homes is that it is a fixed, identifiable point, that makes them "genuine"... or at least, traceable should anything go sideways lol.

You will get loads of "single" guys saying they will turn up (usually referred to as a "sausage-fest lol"), and the majority will let you down.

If you aren't willing to take the advice offered, begs the question why bother posting at all?"

I would bet a large sum of money this never happens. The OP has been on the site over a year with no verifications. If the OP can't, in over a year, get himself to a club to get verified, I think the likelihood of him organising a party are akin to Kim kardashisn turning up at my house demanding to give me a blow job...

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Thanks for your all your support and advice, I'll sort a weekend, within 21 days, small group first, it's worth the risk....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is absolute genius!

Vet the ladies to ensure none of them are bi.

Select the other blokes, ensuring they haven't been verified by any of the ladies and couples, are in a worse shape than you and are all bi or bi curious.

Select the couples who all know each other so that they get on and appear to be in a clique, putting the ladies off.

That gives you the pick of the crop!

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By *iggerd69Man
over a year ago

wherever you are

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Thanks for your all your support and advice, I'll sort a weekend, within 21 days, small group first, it's worth the risk...."

Look forward to reading the veries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is absolute genius!

Vet the ladies to ensure none of them are bi.

Select the other blokes, ensuring they haven't been verified by any of the ladies and couples, are in a worse shape than you and are all bi or bi curious.

Select the couples who all know each other so that they get on and appear to be in a clique, putting the ladies off.

That gives you the pick of the crop!"

Then wakes up from the dream

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

OP the was a couple we used to know back up in Scotland who rented large multi room mansions and country houses for the weekend. At the time it was very successful. They even managed to get a castle in Fife which was amazing.

Depending on where the area is no reason why it shouldn't work.

However I would work it on the deposit system as you will get loads asking to go then not turning up.

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By *nglishCharm OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Thanks for your advice centralscot,I've spoken to a large mansion owner earlier, North West area, those terms and conditions are being emailed later, I'll update this idea Monday... Thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is 20 men to 15 women equal. Where did you go to school?

You've got noise, drink, sex inside and out, potential d*unks, violence, damage not to mention the amount of cum to clean up the next day.

You having a giraffe if you thinks that's gonna work. Far easier to use a club and do an exclusive night, still charge to get in. The fee will get rid of the freeloaders!

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