FabSwingers.com forum: I Just Did An Experiment

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

About 2 hours ago I messaged 10 women on this site. I read their profiles and mixed up my messages to match what I felt about them at the time and they were all polite, well thought out messages. The women were varied in age, location, turn ons and attractiveness.

Not one message was even read...

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By *haron7540Woman
over a year ago

Hayle, Cornwall

Maybe they haven’t been online to check their messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they haven’t been online to check their messages"

Most of them have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother messaging .. Waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 2 hours ago I messaged 10 women on this site. I read their profiles and mixed up my messages to match what I felt about them at the time and they were all polite, well thought out messages. The women were varied in age, location, turn ons and attractiveness.

Not one message was even read..."
Ha hey you'll get used to it eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they haven’t been online to check their messages

Most of them have."

I often come online but don't bother with my messages until I can be arsed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one message was even read..."

remove pubic hair I’d I consider a meet !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ten? Amateur lol

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

"Maybe they haven’t been online to check their messages

Most of them have."

So not everyone has been on and yet your complaining that they haven't read your mail

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Not one message was even read..."

We would also consider meeting but for the hairibess...

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

How do you know they've not been read? You can mark a message unread.

I look at a profile before I even read a message.

There are certain things I look for, and certain things that would put me off reading & replying.

You have 15 of those on display.

I wouldn't read your message

Sorry OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you don't seem to be doing too badly on here. 4 veris so far so that's a bonus.

Getting yourself out there, at clubs, as socials, is for sure the way to go about getting meets which it seems you have done. Hopefully more guys will take note from this thread and do the same.

I always try to respond to messages, even if it's a 'no thanks' message. If I am really not interested in the guy I will delete but that's quite rare. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, you don't seem to be doing too badly on here. 4 veris so far so that's a bonus.

Getting yourself out there, at clubs, as socials, is for sure the way to go about getting meets which it seems you have done. Hopefully more guys will take note from this thread and do the same.

I always try to respond to messages, even if it's a 'no thanks' message. If I am really not interested in the guy I will delete but that's quite rare. Xx"

I agree, I'm not doing bad at all... considering I also use Tinder and have far more luck on that. It's just typing out long well thought out messages only for them not to be read is quite frustrating. I'd be totally respectful and leave it if they replied with a "no thanks." Infact, I'd rather them tell me "no thanx, you're too ugly" than not even read it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not one message was even read...

We would also consider meeting but for the hairibess... "

Wow, is pubic hair really that big a deal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, you don't seem to be doing too badly on here. 4 veris so far so that's a bonus.

Getting yourself out there, at clubs, as socials, is for sure the way to go about getting meets which it seems you have done. Hopefully more guys will take note from this thread and do the same.

I always try to respond to messages, even if it's a 'no thanks' message. If I am really not interested in the guy I will delete but that's quite rare. Xx

Ha! Well with a cock like yours I would reply

And your veris are very good too, which is something I look at. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one message was even read...

We would also consider meeting but for the hairibess...

Wow, is pubic hair really that big a deal?"

for a lot of us yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, you don't seem to be doing too badly on here. 4 veris so far so that's a bonus.

Getting yourself out there, at clubs, as socials, is for sure the way to go about getting meets which it seems you have done. Hopefully more guys will take note from this thread and do the same.

I always try to respond to messages, even if it's a 'no thanks' message. If I am really not interested in the guy I will delete but that's quite rare. Xx

Ha! Well with a cock like yours I would reply

And your veris are very good too, which is something I look at. Xx "

Thank you, but they're not even getting to see my cock if they're not even reading my messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not one message was even read...

We would also consider meeting but for the hairibess...

Wow, is pubic hair really that big a deal?

for a lot of us yes"

Hmm, thanx for the feedback. I might have to change it up a bit down there...

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

They may have been on, looked at your profile but not the message, and either not been bothered so no reply or liked it so much they want to reply at leisure later.

They may have been on, read the message, as above decided but not got round to deleting or replying yet, and potentially some marked it as unread again.

They may have been on and been looking for something specific and not even gone near their inbox.

Maybe they didn't actually look at the site at all, maybe they opened their browser and the site refreshed while they were opening another tab, which I'm sure happens to be sometimes.

I don't think you can draw any conclusions from your investigation. I do know guys expecting an immediate response is annoying.

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

"OP, you don't seem to be doing too badly on here. 4 veris so far so that's a bonus.

Getting yourself out there, at clubs, as socials, is for sure the way to go about getting meets which it seems you have done. Hopefully more guys will take note from this thread and do the same.

I always try to respond to messages, even if it's a 'no thanks' message. If I am really not interested in the guy I will delete but that's quite rare. Xx

Ha! Well with a cock like yours I would reply

And your veris are very good too, which is something I look at. Xx

Thank you, but they're not even getting to see my cock if they're not even reading my messages.

Yes they are, you can go straight to the profile without opening the message or mark it as unread after opening it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They may have been on, looked at your profile but not the message, and either not been bothered so no reply or liked it so much they want to reply at leisure later.

They may have been on, read the message, as above decided but not got round to deleting or replying yet, and potentially some marked it as unread again.

They may have been on and been looking for something specific and not even gone near their inbox.

Maybe they didn't actually look at the site at all, maybe they opened their browser and the site refreshed while they were opening another tab, which I'm sure happens to be sometimes.

I don't think you can draw any conclusions from your investigation. I do know guys expecting an immediate response is annoying."
he tried 10 though....... You'd have thought out of 10 a response

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, you don't seem to be doing too badly on here. 4 veris so far so that's a bonus.

Getting yourself out there, at clubs, as socials, is for sure the way to go about getting meets which it seems you have done. Hopefully more guys will take note from this thread and do the same.

I always try to respond to messages, even if it's a 'no thanks' message. If I am really not interested in the guy I will delete but that's quite rare. Xx

Ha! Well with a cock like yours I would reply

And your veris are very good too, which is something I look at. Xx

Thank you, but they're not even getting to see my cock if they're not even reading my messages.

Yes they are, you can go straight to the profile without opening the message or mark it as unread after opening it."

Oh okay. I didn't know that. Thanx.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They may have been on, looked at your profile but not the message, and either not been bothered so no reply or liked it so much they want to reply at leisure later.

They may have been on, read the message, as above decided but not got round to deleting or replying yet, and potentially some marked it as unread again.

They may have been on and been looking for something specific and not even gone near their inbox.

Maybe they didn't actually look at the site at all, maybe they opened their browser and the site refreshed while they were opening another tab, which I'm sure happens to be sometimes.

I don't think you can draw any conclusions from your investigation. I do know guys expecting an immediate response is annoying.he tried 10 though....... You'd have thought out of 10 a response "

That's what I'm saying. It seems crazy to me that out of 10 messages, all are still marked unread.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

So what now then...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what now then..."

Nothing. It's just an observation. It's not getting me down.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Perhaps they had a sneaky peek at ypur profile while they were on their tea break and thought 'I'll reply to him later'....or something

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By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

I've been here a really long time and the only thing I can say is...don't get hung up on it...It's the way of Fabs.

If you think about it too much you'll either go insane or leave, possibly both

People use Fabs, profiles and messages in different ways. Get yourself to some group socials, clubs, etc, and things will build from there.

Meeting from messages, in my experience, is the least successful way to do it; it does work, but you will be sending a significant amount of messages without reply..as sure as water is wet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps they had a sneaky peek at ypur profile while they were on their tea break and thought 'I'll reply to him later'....or something

One can only hope.

"I've been here a really long time and the only thing I can say is...don't get hung up on it...It's the way of Fabs.

If you think about it too much you'll either go insane or leave, possibly both

People use Fabs, profiles and messages in different ways. Get yourself to some group socials, clubs, etc, and things will build from there.

Meeting from messages, in my experience, is the least successful way to do it; it does work, but you will be sending a significant amount of messages without reply..as sure as water is wet."

It has worked in the past. But I agree it's not the ideal way of meeting women. Thanx for the advice.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

You do know it's not just women that ignore messages right. Men can be equally as bad

Best thing to do is delete sent messages then there's no stress to be had.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Maybe they haven’t been online to check their messages

Most of them have."

Just because I come onto Fab doesn't mean I'm in the mood to start a new conversation or even bother to look at my messages. I will get round to it in my own time.

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By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

"You do know it's not just women that ignore messages right. Men can be equally as bad

Best thing to do is delete sent messages then there's no stress to be had. "

I also do this..keep sent messages to a minimum. If they are read and rteplied to great, if not no bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They may have been on, looked at your profile but not the message, and either not been bothered so no reply or liked it so much they want to reply at leisure later.

They may have been on, read the message, as above decided but not got round to deleting or replying yet, and potentially some marked it as unread again.

They may have been on and been looking for something specific and not even gone near their inbox.

Maybe they didn't actually look at the site at all, maybe they opened their browser and the site refreshed while they were opening another tab, which I'm sure happens to be sometimes.

I don't think you can draw any conclusions from your investigation. I do know guys expecting an immediate response is annoying.he tried 10 though....... You'd have thought out of 10 a response

That's what I'm saying. It seems crazy to me that out of 10 messages, all are still marked unread."
Hey they will maybe get back after work

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

"They may have been on, looked at your profile but not the message, and either not been bothered so no reply or liked it so much they want to reply at leisure later.

They may have been on, read the message, as above decided but not got round to deleting or replying yet, and potentially some marked it as unread again.

They may have been on and been looking for something specific and not even gone near their inbox.

Maybe they didn't actually look at the site at all, maybe they opened their browser and the site refreshed while they were opening another tab, which I'm sure happens to be sometimes.

I don't think you can draw any conclusions from your investigation. I do know guys expecting an immediate response is annoying.he tried 10 though....... You'd have thought out of 10 a response

That's what I'm saying. It seems crazy to me that out of 10 messages, all are still marked unread."

Not really, I mark mine unread if I don't have the time or inclination to deal with them there and then. Otherwise you get grief - I see you've read my message, what do you think, why haven't you replied etc etc

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

220 unread in my inbox since Sunday. Don't take it personally if you don't get an instant reply.

Keep the pubes by the way...I like them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"220 unread in my inbox since Sunday. Don't take it personally if you don't get an instant reply.

Keep the pubes by the way...I like them "

Thank you. There's a lot to like about you too.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I wasn’t sent a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You do know it's not just women that ignore messages right. Men can be equally as bad

Best thing to do is delete sent messages then there's no stress to be had. "

I agree with this - once you've sent your message, delete it from your sent folder then it won't cause stress/anxiety/anger blah blah blah...

(By the way - what was the experiment?! Did you mention it in your messages to the lucky ten recipients?)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wasn’t sent a message.

Probably because I'm not in your age range.

I just tried sending you a message.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Not one message was even read..."

Was a spreadsheet created for this task? Spreadsheets get me so excited......

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

OP Ive removed posts - if someone blocks you for some reason please dont use the forums to send them a message as its not allowed Im afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"220 unread in my inbox since Sunday. Don't take it personally if you don't get an instant reply.

Keep the pubes by the way...I like them "
damn I was 219 no wonder I didn't get a reply...........how do I delete my account

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP Ive removed posts - if someone blocks you for some reason please dont use the forums to send them a message as its not allowed Im afraid"

Yeah, I thought someone removed them. Sorry about breaking the rules and I really appreciate you removing the posts instead of banning me from the forum for a few days.

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not one message was even read..."

You mean not marked as read they could have been red then made unread.

And even if they wern't read what the issue its a bit arsy expecting people to read messages immediately people have busy lives after all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not one message was even read...

You mean not marked as read they could have been red then made unread.

And even if they wern't read what the issue its a bit arsy expecting people to read messages immediately people have busy lives after all."

Oh okay. Cool story...

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

You will be surprised sometimes I get replies from weeks ago.

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not one message was even read...

You mean not marked as read they could have been red then made unread.

And even if they wern't read what the issue its a bit arsy expecting people to read messages immediately people have busy lives after all.

Oh okay. Cool story..."

A little cooler than your so called experiment fella but then I have a life maybe you should go on ebay and get yourself one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not one message was even read...

You mean not marked as read they could have been red then made unread.

And even if they wern't read what the issue its a bit arsy expecting people to read messages immediately people have busy lives after all.

Oh okay. Cool story...

A little cooler than your so called experiment fella but then I have a life maybe you should go on ebay and get yourself one. "

Ebay?? Wtf?

I have a life, as my verifications suggest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they all work for a living and will all reply to you when they get home from work....

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not one message was even read...

You mean not marked as read they could have been red then made unread.

And even if they wern't read what the issue its a bit arsy expecting people to read messages immediately people have busy lives after all.

Oh okay. Cool story...

A little cooler than your so called experiment fella but then I have a life maybe you should go on ebay and get yourself one.

Ebay?? Wtf?

I have a life, as my verifications suggest."

Well its not that obvious you have if you haver to "experiment " on other users. I am sure they will be ecstatic you are wasting there time sending messages as an experiment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not one message was even read...

You mean not marked as read they could have been red then made unread.

And even if they wern't read what the issue its a bit arsy expecting people to read messages immediately people have busy lives after all.

Oh okay. Cool story...

A little cooler than your so called experiment fella but then I have a life maybe you should go on ebay and get yourself one.

Ebay?? Wtf?

I have a life, as my verifications suggest.

Well its not that obvious you have if you haver to "experiment " on other users. I am sure they will be ecstatic you are wasting there time sending messages as an experiment. "

Aww, I think they'll be able to get over it. Will you be able to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this thread was going to be about reducing his carbon footprint

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

Wow, is pubic hair really that big a deal?

It sure seems to be. Can't stand the shaved look, myself. So, seems you can never be exactly what everyone wants!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 is not a big enough sample to get a representative result. A 1000 women would be a much better number

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wow, is pubic hair really that big a deal?

It sure seems to be. Can't stand the shaved look, myself. So, seems you can never be exactly what everyone wants!"

Glad to hear that, thanx.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"10 is not a big enough sample to get a representative result. A 1000 women would be a much better number

I'll work on that number later in the year and get back to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one message was even read...

Was a spreadsheet created for this task? Spreadsheets get me so excited......"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you look quite lovely, nice pictures.

I prefer hair free or trimmed as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you look quite lovely, nice pictures.

I prefer hair free or trimmed as well. "

Thank you.

I'm probably going to trim it a bit after reading this thread, tbh.

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By *F JonesMan
over a year ago

London

"Wow, is pubic hair really that big a deal?

It sure seems to be. Can't stand the shaved look, myself. So, seems you can never be exactly what everyone wants!"

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed more posts and we can leave it there

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