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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This may have been covered before however, we have been winked by a couple who's intersts include safe sex yet within the 1st two sentences of their profile it states prefer bareback!

Surely these two terms don't belong in the same profile or is it just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people can prefer bareback but choose to do safe sex with people who prefer safe sex...

we always use pretection on meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

you should who knows what people are carrying out there as much as i love swinging and experiencing other people I'm not playing russian roulette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you should who knows what people are carrying out there as much as i love swinging and experiencing other people I'm not playing russian roulette"

That good to hear! remember to get yourself tested regularly too, because condoms are good but not 100% at preventing infections. we go every 6 months

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well yes condoms aren't fool proof was saying this the other day with hubby. We go around giving oral sex without thinking twice don't wash hands between people in group situations would be wierd to be playing with someone turn round to the person behond you and say hangon be back in a min just off to brush my teeth and wash my hands lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you should who knows what people are carrying out there as much as i love swinging and experiencing other people I'm not playing russian roulette"

easy answer is, dont meet them then

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"you should who knows what people are carrying out there as much as i love swinging and experiencing other people I'm not playing russian roulette

easy answer is, dont meet them then "

Thats what I was thinking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh don't worry we won't be

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Why the conundrum?....if bareback is not your thing then tell them 'Thanks but no thanks'

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Sex with other people.........far too dangerous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why the conundrum?....if bareback is not your thing then tell them 'Thanks but no thanks'"

the conundrum was - why say you like safe sex (in your preferences) if you do bareback and put that you do on your profile.

but don't worry i already answered the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understand the reason for threads like this.

As has been said. If you don't like then don't meet. There is no need to bring up (for the god knows how many times) about BB.

All the old trolls will be out and it will go around and around.

Its what you do that counts. Just because some one else decides to play BB, should not matter. If you really beleive that just because a couple say they only do Safe sex, that they are always telling the truth, then you are fooling yourself.

Yes 90% of those that say they do will, but how do you know who they are?

How do you know who the 10% (or what ever number it is) that say one thing and do something else are?

You don't. So practice safe sex and assume everyone else doesn't.

Simples

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Says they "Prefer" bareback....

Doesnt mean that they wont play safe if others want it....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"So practice safe sex and assume everyone else doesn't."

This is the only thing that ever needs to be said with regards to posts about bareback.

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By *isterTeaseMan
over a year ago

Chigwell


"So practice safe sex and assume everyone else doesn't.

This is the only thing that ever needs to be said with regards to posts about bareback."

Agree +1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So practice safe sex and assume everyone else doesn't."

Have to agree doesnt matter what ppl say on thier profile treat everyone like they do or if you want to be really safe no sex at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never understand the reason for threads like this.

As has been said. If you don't like then don't meet. There is no need to bring up (for the god knows how many times) about BB.

All the old trolls will be out and it will go around and around.

Its what you do that counts. Just because some one else decides to play BB, should not matter. If you really beleive that just because a couple say they only do Safe sex, that they are always telling the truth, then you are fooling yourself.

Yes 90% of those that say they do will, but how do you know who they are?

How do you know who the 10% (or what ever number it is) that say one thing and do something else are?

You don't. So practice safe sex and assume everyone else doesn't.

Simples"

No need to get nasty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Isn't the point of a forum to discuss things like this without people getting bitchy at you

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Isn't the point of a forum to discuss things like this without people getting bitchy at you"

I think people are just a bit fed up of hearing about it to be honest. Check out this link:

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum-search/bareback

Also, dissing other peoples profiles for little reason is a bit off really. There is nothing forcing people to meet others who do not match their requirements, so why make such a fuss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't the point of a forum to discuss things like this without people getting bitchy at you"

oooohhh pulling up a seat and getting my popcorn

to be honest we dont see anything bitchy as you put it just another poster putting their oppinion in,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am surprised that you find my reply nasty. I have not called you any names or 'called' your opinion.

You (as we all are) entitled to your opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So practice safe sex and assume everyone else doesn't.

This is the only thing that ever needs to be said with regards to posts about bareback.

Agree +1 "

+2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am surprised that you find my reply nasty. I have not called you any names or 'called' your opinion.

You (as we all are) entitled to your opinion.

"

I can't see any nasty or bitchy comments in your post so not to worry

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"This may have been covered before however, we have been winked by a couple who's intersts include safe sex yet within the 1st two sentences of their profile it states prefer bareback!

Surely these two terms don't belong in the same profile or is it just me? "

confuses us when they say in profiles, safe sex always, then in the pictures its clearly the female with several differant guys with no protection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So practice safe sex and assume everyone else doesn't.

This is the only thing that ever needs to be said with regards to posts about bareback."

+1

So they play Bareback. It doesn't mean you have to.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


".... I'm not playing russian roulette"

then don't

*shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... I'm not playing russian roulette

then don't

*shrugs*"

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand the reason for threads like this.

As has been said. If you don't like then don't meet. There is no need to bring up (for the god knows how many times) about BB.

All the old trolls will be out and it will go around and around.

Its what you do that counts. Just because some one else decides to play BB, should not matter. If you really beleive that just because a couple say they only do Safe sex, that they are always telling the truth, then you are fooling yourself.

Yes 90% of those that say they do will, but how do you know who they are?

How do you know who the 10% (or what ever number it is) that say one thing and do something else are?

You don't. So practice safe sex and assume everyone else doesn't.

Simples"

Saved me typing: well said!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Every month there's a thread on barebacking, it seems to be the number one troll wanking fantasy.

If you don't want to do it, always carry condoms and insist anyone you play with uses them. Problem solved!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was fully playing I did state clearly that I prefered bareback

But I also stated I had absolutely no problem playing safe

So yes in my opinion you can have both on the same profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This may have been covered before"

The opening few words to this thread keep making me snigger in a childish like way

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


""This may have been covered before"

The opening few words to this thread keep making me snigger in a childish like way "

I'm warming up my spanking hand .....

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


""This may have been covered before"

The opening few words to this thread keep making me snigger in a childish like way

I'm warming up my spanking hand ....."

assumes the position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""This may have been covered before"

The opening few words to this thread keep making me snigger in a childish like way "

I know what you mean, some threads have me giggling like a pre-teen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""This may have been covered before"

The opening few words to this thread keep making me snigger in a childish like way

I'm warming up my spanking hand ....."

Be gentle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do, you do. If you don't, you don't. Like it or not (and I'm predicting a riot after this comment

) It's a preference for some.

Personally, I'm not going to demonise people for their choices as we're all adults and since some people do BOTH, you're no safer with someone who has "safe sex" on their profile than you are with someone who doesn't. So if you feel strongly about this, protect yourselves at all times.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral


""This may have been covered before"

The opening few words to this thread keep making me snigger in a childish like way

I'm warming up my spanking hand .....

assumes the position "
me too please! :*

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