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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Although new to this, I understand that both couples and women get inundated with messages

The question I have is, do you message again if your message has not been deleted (so read or unread) after a week or so or would that come across as pushy

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Although new to this, I understand that both couples and women get inundated with messages

The question I have is, do you message again if your message has not been deleted (so read or unread) after a week or so or would that come across as pushy"

I take it that they're not interested and move on.

They'll find you if they're interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inundated as if lol ladies maybe certainly not this couple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it written in my profile , just ask them to delete my message if they aren't interested but as a rule if you don't get a reply after a few days I'd delete and block so you dont message again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you message us again after a week we don’t see that as pushy. We miss messages sometimes.

At the moment we have loads of single men messaging again after 2 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although new to this, I understand that both couples and women get inundated with messages

The question I have is, do you message again if your message has not been deleted (so read or unread) after a week or so or would that come across as pushy"

If the two messages were both good I would see that as a reasonable thing to do. If they were the normal "hi" or "how r u" then it would be annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although new to this, I understand that both couples and women get inundated with messages

The question I have is, do you message again if your message has not been deleted (so read or unread) after a week or so or would that come across as pushy"
Women and couples will say no but I say if you.dont ask you don't get

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

From experiance I have had success a couple of times with a second message some time after the first was unread. I figured my original message had been lost in the pile, so with a shot. However if it's been read and deleted I would suggest you've got you answer and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although new to this, I understand that both couples and women get inundated with messages

The question I have is, do you message again if your message has not been deleted (so read or unread) after a week or so or would that come across as pushyWomen and couples will say no but I say if you.dont ask you don't get "

Well no we didn't actually lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice all

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