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"Alternatively get a pack of Durex ExtraSafe condoms and wear 2 of them and keep thinking of Margaret Thatcher " Hahahahahahaha !! Great Jane x | |||
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"I would like to ask for sensible & credible answers towards helping me over come being far too sensitive when having sex ! Is it common for blokes to get really sensitive ? but how come I've watched blokes at parties going on for ever, how do they manage that ???? Any suggestions welcome but forget creams etc, been told by women they're not best tasting! " You don't say if you are uncut - if so this may help. In the past I have had a problem with oversensitivity, but it didn't cause premature ejaculation, quite the opposite - just too much sensation to be pleasurable, and I could go on for ever chasing the good feelings and never really getting there. Condoms helped reduce the feeling but not really in a good way. The solution might surprise you. It occurred to me that if I were circumsised the amount of sensation due to contact with clothing would be unbearable, but I had never heard of anyone with that problem. So as an experiment I tried going about my daily activities with foreskin retracted. It was mighty uncomfortable, I couldn't stand it for more than an hour or two to begin with. But I found each day it was less of a problem and after a week I could go all day with an uncovered knob with no problem. And as I was fortunate enough to be having a dirty weekend at the end of that week, I discovered that my newly de-sensitised dick felt better than ever, actually I had never had such good sensations from sex. It was as if the nerves were putting out too much signal, and all they needed was a re-calibration so to speak. I hope that helps you! | |||
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"I would like to ask for sensible & credible answers towards helping me over come being far too sensitive when having sex ! Is it common for blokes to get really sensitive ? but how come I've watched blokes at parties going on for ever, how do they manage that ???? Any suggestions welcome but forget creams etc, been told by women they're not best tasting! You either have 2 choices really.. One is to use a method of control whilst having sex.. once you start getting too excited.. stop and do something else - eventually you will start to be able to control sexual excitement.. Otherwise try something like this.. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11538 Its a numbing gel - use a little on the head of the penis and let it start working.. once you feel it taking effect - wash all traces of it off your head of penis/fingers etc.. It numbs anything it comes into contact with.. so wash everything well. Because it numbs the nerve endings, by washing it off it wont wash its powers off, because its already taken effect. Its tastes minty.. but also numbs - so wouldn't recommend tasting it..lol " Tell your lady friend you have it on before she blows you off...otherwise she will start dribbling, and no-one likes a dribbler!!! | |||
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"I suffer the same which is why I'm not a fan of blow jobs. My knob is just too sensitive when I cum in a woman's mouth. No problem when I'm fucking though. Steve" Try my de-sensitising method Steve. I honestly never knew what all the fuss was about blow jobs until after that. Before it felt like they were sucking on my eyeball! | |||
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"If only I could grind away as you say ! lol. I've tried to vary things but still when inside the lady I do find it very sensitive. I do say on my profile that attention to the female is paramount, that's mostly because of the lack of time spent thrusting in and out. Try to stay away from ugly women if possible ! " seriously try the desensitising gel.. it has a lot of other good uses too. | |||
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