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By *ew577 OP   Man
over a year ago

pembs

Hey there fab I’m quite new to this and don’t seem to get messages off people. I’m not messaging people because if they are interested they would contact me. Is my profile good or this there anything i could do to improve it. Many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 line profile and you expect to be contacted? You’ll have a long wait.

Also, status that say “Bored” aren’t really attractive.

Good luck, suspect you’ll need it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have asked for profile feedback so I will give it..... mate, it’s crap!

A few lines... really!

Your a young single man, sell yourself, your profile is your personal shop window... people have to like what they see to want to enter, and from what you have put so far it looks like the shop went bankrupt due to no sales.

Read other men’s profiles, maybe use some of their banter (DONT copy anyone’s though)

There’s literally THOUSANDS of men on here... so make yourself stand out above the rest!

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place


"Hey there fab I’m quite new to this and don’t seem to get messages off people. I’m not messaging people because if they are interested they would contact me. Is my profile good or this there anything i could do to improve it. Many thanks "

What profile?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP the main reason you don't get messages is because you are male!

This, coupled with the fact you have a terrible profile means you will struggle.

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By *igga_manMan
over a year ago

near Reading

Are you really going to meet a 99yr old lady ?

Make it personal. As already suggested, look at some Male profiles to grab some ideas( but don’t cheat). Sell yourself without looking like a big headed nob.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So in other words.. If you are not messaging others, you are not interested in them.. Why are you on here?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Lack of profile is enough to put most off. There's advice on mine, feel free to use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP the main reason you don't get messages is because you are male!

This, coupled with the fact you have a terrible profile means you will struggle.

"

Really is that bad. He is trying his best. Some have not been here before. Is mine terrible

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By *ew577 OP   Man
over a year ago

pembs

Thanks for all you’re help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP the main reason you don't get messages is because you are male!

This, coupled with the fact you have a terrible profile means you will struggle.

Really is that bad. He is trying his best. Some have not been here before. Is mine terrible "

Simple answer.... yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP the main reason you don't get messages is because you are male!

This, coupled with the fact you have a terrible profile means you will struggle.

Really is that bad. He is trying his best. Some have not been here before. Is mine terrible "

Pretty sure this isn't about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You thank people for looking. A nice touch.

The rest of your profile says where you are (which is in the bit where you say where you are) and that you are looking for women and couples, which is already mentioned.

Say what you can offer. That doesn't mean brag about fucking all night.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You have one pic with a toilet and loo roll in the background. The other pic has womens shoes next to you and a bra on the bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alternatively, grow tits. You don't need any words in your profile at all.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hey there fab I’m quite new to this and don’t seem to get messages off people. I’m not messaging people because if they are interested they would contact me. Is my profile good or this there anything i could do to improve it. Many thanks "

Hello welcome to the forum.

The reality of fab is that there are many more men than women. For that reason you need to have a profile that tells people about you, what you have to offer and what you're looking for. You will probably need to actively message people, join in the forums and consider going to socials and clubs too.

Good luck

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Hey there fab I’m quite new to this and don’t seem to get messages off people. I’m not messaging people because if they are interested they would contact me. Is my profile good or this there anything i could do to improve it. Many thanks "

You really think that a 1 line profile is enough to draw people to you

So funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile is a bit longer now, but.. Looks like copy & paste was used.. Some of it doesn't sound right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sigh.... not hard to work out he’s copied from one of us here.... and still can’t get it right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha I just looked at yours and bingo!!

He should delete "fun and articulate" bit for a start...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey there fab I’m quite new to this and don’t seem to get messages off people. I’m not messaging people because if they are interested they would contact me. Is my profile good or this there anything i could do to improve it. Many thanks "

OP.....As a bi couple we wouldn’t consider your profile even if we were looking for single men as you describe yourself as straight but are apparently open to experiences with males. Perhaps change your setting to Bi-curious?

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Lack of profile is enough to put most off. There's advice on mine, feel free to use it. "

Hay replying to say great profile good advise and sensible suggestions. You need to set up a how to, site.

X

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By *adcat1961Woman
over a year ago

colchester

If your bored and can’t be bothered to write to people why would thay right to you make an affect tells us about yourself in your profile and be more positive and need better pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have one pic with a toilet and loo roll in the background. The other pic has womens shoes next to you and a bra on the bed. "

And its not even special pink toilet roll for girlies

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Looking for single males but listed as straight OP? Might want to change that to at least bi curious.

The rest of your profile tells a reader nothing about you, or what you can offer and shows little personality or imagination - maybe think about how you can change that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha I just looked at yours and bingo!!

He should delete "fun and articulate" bit for a start..."

He’s deleted it now... still sounds like a generic boring profile though.

He’s been given advise from others, it’s now up to him to take on board and act upon it, or give up and go to the disco nights haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha I just looked at yours and bingo!!

He should delete "fun and articulate" bit for a start...

He’s deleted it now... still sounds like a generic boring profile though.

He’s been given advise from others, it’s now up to him to take on board and act upon it, or give up and go to the disco nights haha"

I have a feeling I know which way he'll choose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight but looking for single males ? I pressume u missed the FE off of that

u need some better pics tbh have a look at the hot photos of men and see what kind the ladies like good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah... Shame some people on here need to send silly messages to insult!

Good luck op.... think your gonna need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey there fab I’m quite new to this and don’t seem to get messages off people. I’m not messaging people because if they are interested they would contact me. Is my profile good or this there anything i could do to improve it. Many thanks "

They won't contact you, why contact you when there are another 5000 men+ making more effort, they won't even notice you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP the main reason you don't get messages is because you are male!

This, coupled with the fact you have a terrible profile means you will struggle.

Really is that bad. He is trying his best. Some have not been here before. Is mine terrible "

Is that a serious question?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Lack of profile is enough to put most off. There's advice on mine, feel free to use it.

Hay replying to say great profile good advise and sensible suggestions. You need to set up a how to, site.

X"

Awww, thanks very much x

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place


"OP the main reason you don't get messages is because you are male!

This, coupled with the fact you have a terrible profile means you will struggle.

Really is that bad. He is trying his best. Some have not been here before. Is mine terrible "

It's not great.

Really not great.

Sorry, but you did ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP the main reason you don't get messages is because you are male!

This, coupled with the fact you have a terrible profile means you will struggle.

Really is that bad. He is trying his best. Some have not been here before. Is mine terrible

It's not great.

Really not great.

Sorry, but you did ask. "

Haha, you went there

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