FabSwingers.com forum: What more can I do?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I have been here for a fair while now, but have unfortunately never had a meet. I know i'm not the best looking guy in the world, but surely there has to be at least a couple of people out there interested haha.

Its definitely not through lack of trying either, I'll happily send a nice message, attach face pictures etc etc... but it just never seems to go anywhere.

Any help with my profile or thoughts of where i may be going wrong would be greatly appreciated

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"So I have been here for a fair while now, but have unfortunately never had a meet. I know i'm not the best looking guy in the world, but surely there has to be at least a couple of people out there interested haha.

Its definitely not through lack of trying either, I'll happily send a nice message, attach face pictures etc etc... but it just never seems to go anywhere.

Any help with my profile or thoughts of where i may be going wrong would be greatly appreciated

Attend socials and clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeah i guess thats the only thing i havn't tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say you need more photo's to help attract potential meets. Don't stick any dick pics up but try to be creative with them.

Look at local social events also. You've been here 6 month's which may seem long but in fabs time it's nothing. Good luck

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"yeah i guess thats the only thing i havn't tried "

Got to be worth trying, on here you're just another single male but at a social you can chat and talk to get yourself known more.

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By *iniairlWoman
over a year ago

Cavan

I guess it's easier once you get that first veri...

Pics with a partner mite be helpful

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By *iniairlWoman
over a year ago

Cavan

And 'up for anything' mite sound a bit desperate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeah all really good points, cheers guys, ill try and get some more 'creative' pictures haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women have 100’s of guys to choose from on here. You’ve got to stand out...

Be creative with your pics.

What can you offer perspective meets..

Moaning on your status doesn’t appeal....that’s the first thing people are going to see!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

As you haven’t asked for profile advice I cannot comment on that as it’s against site rules but just keep messaging after reading the recipients profile and liken your message to it

Good luck.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Absolutely more pictures. I'd ditch the status and refrain from any similar if that's a regular thing for you. It could be seen by some as moany - I know it's not meant that way but some see single guys through a particular lens.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"As you haven’t asked for profile advice I cannot comment on that as it’s against site rules but just keep messaging after reading the recipients profile and liken your message to it

Good luck. "

He has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As you haven’t asked for profile advice I cannot comment on that as it’s against site rules but just keep messaging after reading the recipients profile and liken your message to it

Good luck. "

Are you one of those types that doesn't read profiles properly before sending inappropriate messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It reads a bit bland OP with none of your personalty in it. Not a fan of the 'if you fancy a chat' line as it implies you are more of a talker than a walker and you use it twice!

No need to put detail like age and height in profile text as that is covered elsewhere.

Always advise first paragraph about you and second what you are looking for for starters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the "up for anything" and the whiney status and add a few more pics. Apart from that I like your profile x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"As you haven’t asked for profile advice I cannot comment on that as it’s against site rules but just keep messaging after reading the recipients profile and liken your message to it

Good luck.

Are you one of those types that doesn't read profiles properly before sending inappropriate messages? "

No I’m not one of those types dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to clubs, if we want a single male we will get one there, not on fab. Too many pains in the bum on here so we have blocked them completely.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Hi Sam

You could edit it down a bit, to make it punchier and more to the point.

Doesn't it go without saying you can chat, or that you won't throw wobbler if declined?

I had to read the "very short" bit twice - at first I wondered what height you were!

It comes across as decent and honest. But as others have said, there's a lot of competition for women on this site. So you need to stand out. A "knock-em-dead" pic would be a big plus, a nice happy face shot of you on a night out or something like that.

Hope this helps (and I haven't broken any rules)

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

There are some things you can change.. profiles should inform the reader of your wants desires and what you offer..

I always think the picture(s) create an interest the words hold it..

There are things you can't change..

No words you'll type in a message or profile will get you a meet if the other person doesn't find you attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As you haven’t asked for profile advice I cannot comment on that as it’s against site rules but just keep messaging after reading the recipients profile and liken your message to it

Good luck. "

He has though.

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

A "Fair while"??

You've been here 6 months, that's about 15 minutes in single male time.

Laws of physics move much differently here when your a single male.

In realistic terms you may as well be waving through a window at the same time as 1000 other men and hope the lady your waving at picks you out.

Summary... It's never going to happen.

Advice... Get your name down for social events local to you, get to clubs and socialise,.DON'T expect results and you'll find your face starts to become familiar and people will engage in conversation with you.

There are 1000 men to 100 women here, to assume that after 6 months your doing something wrong is far too much expectation on yourself.

You haven't even scratched the surface. x

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

There are lots of clubs to choose from in the North West & lots of socials too - get along to a few events & you will see a big difference!!

Good luck x

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex

I'm from down south, and as far as I can tell all the good stuff happens up north! so if you can't find anyone, i'm fucked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to the clubs, get some veris and you’re on your way!

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

"A "Fair while"??

You've been here 6 months, that's about 15 minutes in single male time.

Laws of physics move much differently here when your a single male.

In realistic terms you may as well be waving through a window at the same time as 1000 other men and hope the lady your waving at picks you out.

Summary... It's never going to happen.

There are 1000 men to 100 women here, to assume that after 6 months your doing something wrong is far too much expectation on yourself.

You haven't even scratched the surface. x"

Lol more like 2000 men to 10 very choosy gorgeous fabulous sexy women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are lots of clubs to choose from in the North West & lots of socials too - get along to a few events & you will see a big difference!!

Good luck x"
this. Your age will be against you for some ladies on here but in clubs many may not even ask if you come across as a nice chatty guy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point giving any advice...it’s been given for days and the profile and pics remain the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 1000 men to 100 women here"

Have you got an issue with your zero key?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

You got to put yourself about a bit.

You can sit by the bank all you like but you won't catch a fish unless you use the right bait,as my grandpappy once said.

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