FabSwingers.com forum: Help with replying

By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Please someone help me in what I say in when I message someone .i don't know what to say in the messages i send?

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

People can’t tell you what to message others! Look at the profile of the person you want to mail, complement their pics, pick out any similar likes you have and strike up a friendly conversation. It’s not really that hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send me an opening message from scratch which you would do and I'll chat to you and I'll see if you can improve if you want x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what qualifies me to give any advice on this. The only thing I'd say is not to force it, if you look at someone's profile and can't think of anything good, try coming back to it another time. It might be that they're not quite what you're looking for, especially if they're really attractive and you end up wanting to make something happen that doesn't flow naturally from who you are.

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Trying taking some more imaginative pics of yourself and yourself and partner, I find more women on here don’t like direct dick pics but full body ones, also try writing more about yourself.

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Trying taking some more imaginative pics of yourself and yourself and partner, I find more women on here don’t like direct dick pics but full body ones, also try writing more about yourself."

You shouldn’t have too much more trouble as your a couple and this site is geared more towards that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please someone help me in what I say in when I message someone .i don't know what to say in the messages i send?"
just tell them you need a date social of course and don't mention money,they respond well to the sympathy vote so tell them about why they need to be sympathetic toward you and your plight here, always attach a face pic but make some effort with it eg lighting, products and smile, think about what you're wearing oh and tidy up your house if pics taken there. Finally proof read your message omg spelling and grammar a no no, if you do all of that and don't send a sex related message or cock pics I guarantee you will have an 11.3% increased chance over your competition but don't mention competition ever oh and if you meet in a club your percentage chances drop to 7.6% of a successful conclusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read their profile and maybe pick something out of it that shows you read it. Most people won’t reply, that’s just what it’s like on here and don’t ever let that get to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read their profile and maybe pick something out of it that shows you read it. Most people won’t reply, that’s just what it’s like on here and don’t ever let that get to you.

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I've tried but I'm bald now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the gentlemanly approach...

1)no ‘hun’ ‘babe’ etc

How about ‘hi/ good afternoon and then username..

2)No text speak!

3)good spelling, punctuation

4)something personal about the written profile, list interests in common, how you might fit what that person is looking for.

5) a little about you

6)attach a face/body pic

7)go for someone you’d feel confident approaching in a bar, if you think this person is completely out of your league, she/they probably are

8)generally most people cannot ‘meet tonight’ it’s annoying when you’re asked. (Unless that person says they are looking for that)

9)make a good profile yourself! If there’s any interest, the first thing someone will do is check you out! Make sure it’s worth the time.

This should improve your chances! Good luck!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Use abbreviations and attach a dick pic, some women here love dick pics....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try the gentlemanly approach...

1)no ‘hun’ ‘babe’ etc

How about ‘hi/ good afternoon and then username..

2)No text speak!

3)good spelling, punctuation

4)something personal about the written profile, list interests in common, how you might fit what that person is looking for.

5) a little about you

6)attach a face/body pic

7)go for someone you’d feel confident approaching in a bar, if you think this person is completely out of your league, she/they probably are

8)generally most people cannot ‘meet tonight’ it’s annoying when you’re asked. (Unless that person says they are looking for that)

9)make a good profile yourself! If there’s any interest, the first thing someone will do is check you out! Make sure it’s worth the time.

This should improve your chances! Good luck!

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omg I'm gonna try that now.......... Trouble is i approach all types if women in a bar........ That's not good is it........ I need to grade myself

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

One of the points Mixchick makes is a good, less obvious one. A lot of people will look at the profile before reading a message, so if you don't catch their attention with the profile it may not matter how good the message is.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Trying taking some more imaginative pics of yourself and yourself and partner, I find more women on here don’t like direct dick pics but full body ones, also try writing more about yourself.

You shouldn’t have too much more trouble as your a couple and this site is geared more towards that."

He's a single guy.

As mentioned, try to include something from the profile you are messaging, as it shows you have read it.

Let people know what you can offer, what you like etc

Good luck. Jack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not always the message that means people don't reply. Good advice from other users but a lot of people look at the profile before even opening a message so if that doesn't appeal sometimes what you've written in an opening message is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can’t tell you what to message others! Look at the profile of the person you want to mail, complement their pics, pick out any similar likes you have and strike up a friendly conversation. It’s not really that hard "

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