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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who do you pick when more than one guy is interested in a meet???

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

The one you feel more attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have two separate quickie socials thfn choose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Who do you pick when more than one guy is interested in a meet???"

That why they invented three somes

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "

Awkward but it’s your right to cancel any previous agreement to meet

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "

You could see if a threesome is appealing to all.

But there are other nights, why restrict yourself to one person?

Just arrange a second meet.

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

Arrange a social with both. This isn't a dating site so you don't have to stick with one person. The pint is kind of the opposite

Have some fun.with both if you like both, either individually orntest the waters for a threesome.

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "

Why can't you meet both? if they really want to meet I'm sure they'll be patient if time is a factor. A couple of socials and choose the best connection if you really don't want 2 playmates.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

The one who survives the duel to the death?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who do you pick when more than one guy is interested in a meet???"

You pick n mix

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You meet them both just not at the same time unless you want a threesome

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "

Wow. Why is this difficult. You have already decided you like this person enough to arrange a meet, simple meet said person. Other who has come along who is nicer, although you have not met yet so how do you know, should be arranged for another time. To many on fab just go with the best choice and f##k the person with whom a meet is already arranged. Why do you think there are so many threads on time wasters

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Arrange a social with both. This isn't a dating site so you don't have to stick with one person. The pint is kind of the opposite

Have some fun.with both if you like both, either individually orntest the waters for a threesome."

This

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

The riches

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By *agariWoman
over a year ago

South Lincs

The one who shows up

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "

Rearrange the second one for another time.

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By *khot1Couple
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

I hope you arrange to meet the so called nicer guy.... And then he finds someone nicer than you and fucks you off

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "

I think so long as your honest with both, it's fine. We can change or minds or postpone or cancel. Decide who you want most and crack on!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "

Why not just arrange to meet on another night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don’t need to pick one or the other. We’re not dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "

There are 7 days in a week. Pick 2 of them and problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along

Wow. Why is this difficult. You have already decided you like this person enough to arrange a meet, simple meet said person. Other who has come along who is nicer, although you have not met yet so how do you know, should be arranged for another time. To many on fab just go with the best choice and f##k the person with whom a meet is already arranged. Why do you think there are so many threads on time wasters "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "

How will you feel when someone dumps you because someone nicer came along?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wondering if they'll both read this. Could be interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "

ask yourself how you'd feel if someone cancelled you because they had a "better" option...

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By *tsJeanLucMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along

ask yourself how you'd feel if someone cancelled you because they had a "better" option..."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id meet them both at different times. Im a swinger and not looking to date guys .

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By *969BewitchedWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Meet the one you first said yes to first. Tell the other you have already made arrangements but would like to meet another time.

If he wants to meet he'll wait. If not and gets the hump then he's probably not a nice guy so you had a lucky escape anyway x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd have the obligatory social with both of them separately. Then sex with them, again separately, but with a view to all getting together at some point to, if that appealed to them both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "

Hope they don't read the forums

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "

We have a hard rule for this and have used it a few times. For us once a meet is arranged we won't cancel it, illness preventing. We'd had a meet arranged then an offer we would have jumped at came along a few days later, we explained to the second offer that we had a meet arranged and although they were our preferred meet we wouldn't be cancelling, a lot of respect was gained that day. The subsequent meet was, well, let's say, well worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who do you pick when more than one guy is interested in a meet???"

the one who i am attracted to and gets my knickers damp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see the issue really. You meet the person you arranged to meet then arrange a meet with the other person for another day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along

How will you feel when someone dumps you because someone nicer came along?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who do you pick when more than one guy is interested in a meet???"

I see you are looking for a meet today? Did they both read this thread and fuck you off?

karma is a bitch in heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who do you pick when more than one guy is interested in a meet???"
the oldest, ugliest and wealthiest is that the wrong answer again damnit

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "

Even though it's your right to cancel. Just think how you would feel if someone did it to you. If the other one is nicer and is really interested then he'll still be there. Have a social with the one who've you've said yes to and then go meet the nicer one at a later date. Pretty simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I should just give the first lot a polite sorry email.

The trouble is if you tell a porkie and you want to post that veri then you'll be busted LOL. So best to come clean and say, really sorry but I've decided not to take things further after all, and leave it at that.

If they ask why, ignore and probably block to avoid any unpleasantness. Go back some other time if you change your mind. Hey this is supposed to be fun

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Oh I should just give the first lot a polite sorry email.

The trouble is if you tell a porkie and you want to post that veri then you'll be busted LOL. So best to come clean and say, really sorry but I've decided not to take things further after all, and leave it at that.

If they ask why, ignore and probably block to avoid any unpleasantness. Go back some other time if you change your mind. Hey this is supposed to be fun "

WOW........Your profile should come with a disclaimer 'WARNING TIME WASTER'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go all X factor on erm and meet them both st the sane time for a social

You could like them both as much and arrange two meets from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along "

Keep my agreed meet that's what, as it's courtesy and respectful.to do that.

Never make anyone feel like your 2nd best. That's just low and shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along

Keep my agreed meet that's what, as it's courtesy and respectful.to do that.

Never make anyone feel like your 2nd best. That's just low and shallow.

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yes I agree but all to often it's the one who has the most appeal that gets the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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yes I agree but all to often it's the one who has the most appeal that gets the meet "

Exactly, and although nothing can be done except to conduct our own affairs accordingly.

I can only imagine how different this thread would be had it been a man post.

And the replies if a woman started a thread about being cancelled on for a better offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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yes I agree but all to often it's the one who has the most appeal that gets the meet

Exactly, and although nothing can be done except to conduct our own affairs accordingly.

I can only imagine how different this thread would be had it been a man post.

And the replies if a woman started a thread about being cancelled on for a better offer.

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You know full well that a man would be hounded off the sit ans added to more block lists than you can shake a cock at...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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yes I agree but all to often it's the one who has the most appeal that gets the meet

Exactly, and although nothing can be done except to conduct our own affairs accordingly.

I can only imagine how different this thread would be had it been a man post.

And the replies if a woman started a thread about being cancelled on for a better offer.

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yes agreed but it just highlights all things happen all ways....... Man or woman

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt


"Who do you pick when more than one guy is interested in a meet???"

Treat people how youwa t to be treated yourself.

There are enough days in a montht to meet them both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One in the morning and one in the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along

Wow. Why is this difficult. You have already decided you like this person enough to arrange a meet, simple meet said person. Other who has come along who is nicer, although you have not met yet so how do you know, should be arranged for another time. To many on fab just go with the best choice and f##k the person with whom a meet is already arranged. Why do you think there are so many threads on time wasters "

Good point

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Meet both,but dont drop the 1st one for someone else,its not a nice thing to do imo.

Meet the one you initially planned,then arrange a meet with the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who do you pick when more than one guy is interested in a meet???"

Said no man on fab ever!!

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Both or all, see whos best for a repeat

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

bring them in one after another other huni who ever last long gets an other meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along

We have a hard rule for this and have used it a few times. For us once a meet is arranged we won't cancel it, illness preventing. We'd had a meet arranged then an offer we would have jumped at came along a few days later, we explained to the second offer that we had a meet arranged and although they were our preferred meet we wouldn't be cancelling, a lot of respect was gained that day. The subsequent meet was, well, let's say, well worth it "

This!!!!! Exactly what they have said! Winning!

What has happened to people just being direct and honest! This couple above do exactly what I do! It pays off big time.

I’ve had some awesome meets and follow ups are even better. This isn’t a dating site it’s a swinging site.

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By *agariWoman
over a year ago

South Lincs


"Id meet them both at different times. Im a swinger and not looking to date guys . "

I’m looking to date, but would still meet both. And more until the right man shows up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But what if you already said yes to someone and someone nicer came along

You could see if a threesome is appealing to all.

But there are other nights, why restrict yourself to one person?

Just arrange a second meet. "

Agreed

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