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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that I get stood up?

He is 15 mins late. I’m going to give him 30 mins due to the distance he’s supposedly coming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope not for your sake,he’s a fool if he does ,fingers crossed for you

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

hope not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully not

Floppsy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you.

I’m home in my PJs having a glass of wine and a cheese toastie watching trash on Netflix.

Onwards...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss hon xx

What an idiot!!

Hope you find someone worthy of you soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly ..... what a knob! Why do they do it?

Well enjoy your toastie..... probably lasts longer than he would have!

Xx

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By *enguymidsMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Privately responded to you X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly ..... what a knob! Why do they do it?

Well enjoy your toastie..... probably lasts longer than he would have!

Xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly ..... what a knob! Why do they do it?

Well enjoy your toastie..... probably lasts longer than he would have!

Xx"

That made me properly laugh out loud, thanks. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to those of you that messaged on here or privately really appreciated. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to those of you that messaged on here or privately really appreciated. xxx"
he didn't turn up then...... Damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a plonker for not turning up

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

On behalf of the males, I’m truly sorry, he’s probably home currently looking for his own dick....

HG

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On behalf of the males, I’m truly sorry, he’s probably home currently looking for his own dick....

HG

X"

Thank you, your comment made me giggle. x

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"On behalf of the males, I’m truly sorry, he’s probably home currently looking for his own dick....

HG

X

Thank you, your comment made me giggle. x"

Good xx

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

I get it a lot. Sunday, arranged to meet in a hotel before going to Chams together. At 5pm he said he’d left and was in his way. 8pm he texted to say he couldn’t make it, leaving me with the full hotel cost and no club partner I really wish we could name and shame all these tossers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get it a lot. Sunday, arranged to meet in a hotel before going to Chams together. At 5pm he said he’d left and was in his way. 8pm he texted to say he couldn’t make it, leaving me with the full hotel cost and no club partner I really wish we could name and shame all these tossers "

Oh I’m really sorry to hear that, that’s a really awful thing to do to you. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get it a lot. Sunday, arranged to meet in a hotel before going to Chams together. At 5pm he said he’d left and was in his way. 8pm he texted to say he couldn’t make it, leaving me with the full hotel cost and no club partner I really wish we could name and shame all these tossers "
that really is rotten I had that in the early days of doing this, not any more though

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"I get it a lot. Sunday, arranged to meet in a hotel before going to Chams together. At 5pm he said he’d left and was in his way. 8pm he texted to say he couldn’t make it, leaving me with the full hotel cost and no club partner I really wish we could name and shame all these tossers "

Believe you can report to admin, not sure if they act on it though x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get it a lot. Sunday, arranged to meet in a hotel before going to Chams together. At 5pm he said he’d left and was in his way. 8pm he texted to say he couldn’t make it, leaving me with the full hotel cost and no club partner I really wish we could name and shame all these tossers

Believe you can report to admin, not sure if they act on it though x"

It’s crazy how much these things happen to people. I’ve changed my mind or chickened out/ got cold feet in the past but I would always at the very least message the other person if not call them. However embarrassed or awkward I might feel it’s just mean not too.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"I get it a lot. Sunday, arranged to meet in a hotel before going to Chams together. At 5pm he said he’d left and was in his way. 8pm he texted to say he couldn’t make it, leaving me with the full hotel cost and no club partner I really wish we could name and shame all these tossers

Believe you can report to admin, not sure if they act on it though x

It’s crazy how much these things happen to people. I’ve changed my mind or chickened out/ got cold feet in the past but I would always at the very least message the other person if not call them. However embarrassed or awkward I might feel it’s just mean not too."

Totally agree, would completely understand if a lady gets cold feet, meeting what someone you don’t know well is a risk, and of course a lady (or man) has the absolute right to change their mind at any time, but please just be honest and open about it ?? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get it a lot. Sunday, arranged to meet in a hotel before going to Chams together. At 5pm he said he’d left and was in his way. 8pm he texted to say he couldn’t make it, leaving me with the full hotel cost and no club partner I really wish we could name and shame all these tossers

Believe you can report to admin, not sure if they act on it though x

It’s crazy how much these things happen to people. I’ve changed my mind or chickened out/ got cold feet in the past but I would always at the very least message the other person if not call them. However embarrassed or awkward I might feel it’s just mean not too.

Totally agree, would completely understand if a lady gets cold feet, meeting what someone you don’t know well is a risk, and of course a lady (or man) has the absolute right to change their mind at any time, but please just be honest and open about it ?? X"

Exactly this!!

As for me, I just put it down to another life experience, am quite philosophical about it and lucky that he’s just one guy and the majority aren’t like that. So onwards. xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Beggars belief that guys go to so much trouble to actually get a meet in the first place then don't turn up or ghost. I can see why people are choosing to meet at clubs and parties now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Beggars belief that guys go to so much trouble to actually get a meet in the first place then don't turn up or ghost. I can see why people are choosing to meet at clubs and parties now. "

I suspect women are just as bad when it comes to this.

The guy I was stood up by he played the long game, we’d been talking a few weeks.

I guess people get a kick out of it or something. Oh well.

For me knowing it happens and not unusual helps me be philosophical about it and not internalise it as being a reflection on me as a person/ appearance etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beggars belief that guys go to so much trouble to actually get a meet in the first place then don't turn up or ghost. I can see why people are choosing to meet at clubs and parties now.

I suspect women are just as bad when it comes to this.

The guy I was stood up by he played the long game, we’d been talking a few weeks.

I guess people get a kick out of it or something. Oh well.

For me knowing it happens and not unusual helps me be philosophical about it and not internalise it as being a reflection on me as a person/ appearance etc. "

Your beautiful ...he cocked up ...

He's the looser not you x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Beggars belief that guys go to so much trouble to actually get a meet in the first place then don't turn up or ghost. I can see why people are choosing to meet at clubs and parties now.

I suspect women are just as bad when it comes to this.

The guy I was stood up by he played the long game, we’d been talking a few weeks.

I guess people get a kick out of it or something. Oh well.

For me knowing it happens and not unusual helps me be philosophical about it and not internalise it as being a reflection on me as a person/ appearance etc. "

Definitely not gender specific lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ghosted....

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt


"I get it a lot. Sunday, arranged to meet in a hotel before going to Chams together. At 5pm he said he’d left and was in his way. 8pm he texted to say he couldn’t make it, leaving me with the full hotel cost and no club partner I really wish we could name and shame all these tossers "

I'd be so tempted to message him asking him to bank transfer half of the hotel costs if not all.

You might not get your money but this fantasist may think twice before scamming another lady

3 hours between leaving and calling it off is ridiculous especially knowing that you were going to be out of pocket.

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