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By *abulouss OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I have been on fab for a while now and slowly find it harder to strike up chat with females! Is it it my profile doesn’t give enough or is it a case my messages aren’t enough ?

I will normally start my messages off with something to show I have read your profile and not just randomly sending messages. Follow that up with a few general questions to get the conversation going and finish off with a comment normally to do with photos etc of a certain photo or something I like about the person.

What changes should I make to get the chats flowing again as I’m loosing interest and about to quit fab.

Thanks s.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

You have no public pics - end of story most of the time.

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By *abulouss OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"You have no public pics - end of story most of the time. "

Fair enough. Unfortunately this is due to work and on request if I feel comfortable would never be an issue. May have to state this on my profile.

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW

I haven’t even clicked on your profile because the fact that you have no profile pic is enough for me not to bother

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Your profile is poor. No pics and no information about you. I know you say you don’t put pics up due to your job but surely no one would recognise you from a body shot or two. Most people will just bypass your profile

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"You have no public pics - end of story most of the time. "

I bet it's his well thought out profile attracts absolutely nobody at all

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW

You can have a profile pic without revealing who you are. It just shows a very small amount of effort

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By *abulouss OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"You can have a profile pic without revealing who you are. It just shows a very small amount of effort "

Thanks will take some time to work on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have a profile pic without revealing who you are. It just shows a very small amount of effort

Thanks will take some time to work on my profile."
no pics . No avatar. Cannot accommodate or travel . There's not a lot there to go on mate

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Google “man sexy photo hand” and you’ll see lovely black and white pictures of hands. Recreate shots like that as a starting point.

You’ve acknowledged that the things that are attracting you to particular women are their photos and profile text. But you aren’t giving the women you contact the same amount of information about yourself.

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By *abulouss OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"You can have a profile pic without revealing who you are. It just shows a very small amount of effort

Thanks will take some time to work on my profile. no pics . No avatar. Cannot accommodate or travel . There's not a lot there to go on mate "

Thanks mate

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By *abulouss OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Google “man sexy photo hand” and you’ll see lovely black and white pictures of hands. Recreate shots like that as a starting point.

You’ve acknowledged that the things that are attracting you to particular women are their photos and profile text. But you aren’t giving the women you contact the same amount of information about yourself. "

Thanks made some small changes and will continue to do so over coming days appreciated from everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start you messages with "Hey, you're the fourth best looking girl I've seen on fab today". They'll love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have a profile pic without revealing who you are. It just shows a very small amount of effort

Thanks will take some time to work on my profile. no pics . No avatar. Cannot accommodate or travel . There's not a lot there to go on mate

Thanks mate "

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