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By *ung_london OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Had a group encounter a few days ago where there was an incredibly hot guy (not on here, I think) with a small cock. He was sexy, fun and intensely exciting to be with. I know everyone has their preferences and this isn’t intended to be one of those threads which tells anyone what they should or shouldn’t do. (And I’m also aware that the profile name I chose falls into the trap of selling the appendage not the person!) But I thought it would do no harm to say how hot a guy can be even if he’s not hung like a donkey. I wonder how many really sexy guys get a bit overlooked on here when cock size becomes the deciding factor...

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

helooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer average sized guys, I don't think I'm alone in that. I've never met well hung guys, they don't interest me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fwb is my favourite fuck ever and super hot but doesn't message alot of ladies he likes the look of because they want hung guys and his size is about average. I think it is them that are missing out but each to their own I guess, I have played with some very hung guys but always prefer closer to average

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London


"My fwb is my favourite fuck ever and super hot but doesn't message alot of ladies he likes the look of because they want hung guys and his size is about average. I think it is them that are missing out but each to their own I guess, I have played with some very hung guys but always prefer closer to average "

im the same, some say they want an exact measurement so i dont waste their time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb is my favourite fuck ever and super hot but doesn't message alot of ladies he likes the look of because they want hung guys and his size is about average. I think it is them that are missing out but each to their own I guess, I have played with some very hung guys but always prefer closer to average

im the same, some say they want an exact measurement so i dont waste their time"

Really?!? I don't blame you!

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London


"My fwb is my favourite fuck ever and super hot but doesn't message alot of ladies he likes the look of because they want hung guys and his size is about average. I think it is them that are missing out but each to their own I guess, I have played with some very hung guys but always prefer closer to average

im the same, some say they want an exact measurement so i dont waste their time

Really?!? I don't blame you! "

but they can ask for what they like, some ladies dont want a shaved head so i dont waste their time either

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By *hatterbox 2Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

To me its quality not quantity xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good point, and guys can get so touchy if they are not huge as well, go figure on insecurities!

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

2 of my fwbs have rather nice cocks for me it does matter when it comes to size

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By *ung_london OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Some people blame porn for creating unrealistic ideas of what is a normal and average endowment. And I also think maybe with so many guys on here it’s a way to quickly narrow the options. But of course for some it’s genuinely an important factor. It’s a shame if it creates feelings of insecurity or self-dislike though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a group encounter a few days ago where there was an incredibly hot guy (not on here, I think) with a small cock. He was sexy, fun and intensely exciting to be with. I know everyone has their preferences and this isn’t intended to be one of those threads which tells anyone what they should or shouldn’t do. (And I’m also aware that the profile name I chose falls into the trap of selling the appendage not the person!) But I thought it would do no harm to say how hot a guy can be even if he’s not hung like a donkey. I wonder how many really sexy guys get a bit overlooked on here when cock size becomes the deciding factor... "

Was the guy at the mingles bi night?

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By *ung_london OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Had a group encounter a few days ago where there was an incredibly hot guy (not on here, I think) with a small cock. He was sexy, fun and intensely exciting to be with. I know everyone has their preferences and this isn’t intended to be one of those threads which tells anyone what they should or shouldn’t do. (And I’m also aware that the profile name I chose falls into the trap of selling the appendage not the person!) But I thought it would do no harm to say how hot a guy can be even if he’s not hung like a donkey. I wonder how many really sexy guys get a bit overlooked on here when cock size becomes the deciding factor...

Was the guy at the mingles bi night? "

No - I didn’t get there! But he’d be quite a hit if he was. There were some loud and enthusiastic responses to his attentions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot guys with smaller cocks to the front of my queue please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a group encounter a few days ago where there was an incredibly hot guy (not on here, I think) with a small cock. He was sexy, fun and intensely exciting to be with. I know everyone has their preferences and this isn’t intended to be one of those threads which tells anyone what they should or shouldn’t do. (And I’m also aware that the profile name I chose falls into the trap of selling the appendage not the person!) But I thought it would do no harm to say how hot a guy can be even if he’s not hung like a donkey. I wonder how many really sexy guys get a bit overlooked on here when cock size becomes the deciding factor...

Was the guy at the mingles bi night?

No - I didn’t get there! But he’d be quite a hit if he was. There were some loud and enthusiastic responses to his attentions..."

There were lots of appreciative noises from upstairs at one point haha

Then I went up and scared everyone away .

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By *andy cock queenTV/TS
over a year ago

Aldershot.....Hants

Like a lot of tvs....its all about size....never big enough......mm

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

There is no correlation in my experience between looks and cock size.

I like it to be a surprise.

Been with some guys you would not look twice at on the street and . . . well, i've been left panting like a dog in a state of near-collapse.

And vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think one may need to start trying small to average penises as smaller the cock size more they work on foreplay and technique to satisfy

Are you with me??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot guys with smaller packages please stop by ,love pleasure not pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot guys with smaller packages please stop by ,love pleasure not pain "

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

How about a warmish older guy hopefully bordering on hot with a curved cock x I’m joking but self promotion never hurts at my age x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no correlation in my experience between looks and cock size.

I like it to be a surprise.

Been with some guys you would not look twice at on the street and . . . well, i've been left panting like a dog in a state of near-collapse.

And vice versa.

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I totally agree, no correlation in my experience.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Luckily, a lot of people already know size has nothing to do with skill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very true.

It’s always the ‘average’ guy that I have the most fun with. The main reason is that I like pleasure not pain, and I prefer to focus on more then just the size of a cock for pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would much rather a humble nice hot guy with a small cock than a guy with a big cock and a big ego to match.

Give me average any day. Big cocks do absolutely nothing for me and I avoid them, especially those who feel the need to harp on about it, usually when they do that it means they have nothing else to offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" very true.

It’s always the ‘average’ guy that I have the most fun with. The main reason is that I like pleasure not pain, and I prefer to focus on more then just the size of a cock for pleasure. "

Totally agree.

I’d go as far as to say the guys on the smaller side I’ve had sex with have been better at it and far more attentive, I’ve found those on the bigger end and above average a lot of the times haven’t a clue and think bashing away is the way it goes haha! No thanks!

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford


"Would much rather a humble nice hot guy with a small cock than a guy with a big cock and a big ego to match.

Give me average any day. Big cocks do absolutely nothing for me and I avoid them, especially those who feel the need to harp on about it, usually when they do that it means they have nothing else to offer. "

I'd like to prove you wrong on that one...oh hang on, think I might've just fallen at the first fence harping on? D'oh!!

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Bores me and puts me off when the say things like "I'm hung" and or "how u fancy 9/10inches"

Prefer how well they can use it not the size of it...

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By *roticaCouple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I think girth is important ..it is not all about length

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By *adcat1961Woman
over a year ago

colchester

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By *adcat1961Woman
over a year ago

colchester

Seems to me the only ones worry and preoccupied by cock size are the men having a big Cock does not make you a great lover and I think it hilarious when thay got pic of there dick next to remote control or can spray like why lol and just to add I do realise that not all men are like that but quite a few on here are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people blame porn for creating unrealistic ideas of what is a normal and average endowment. And I also think maybe with so many guys on here it’s a way to quickly narrow the options. But of course for some it’s genuinely an important factor. It’s a shame if it creates feelings of insecurity or self-dislike though..."

Love watching interracial porn the contrast of skin colour is so sexy imo... but I agree with your point about porn and unrealistic representations....

most IR porn seems to have a lot of comments about bbc being much better than a pathetic small white man, why would any woman want a Tony white guy, all whites will be bred out and become “extinct” because white woman only want a huge bbc.... of course the pathetic part is this point of view, I enjoy a big cock as much as any other and skin colour does not dictate size or performance in my experiences. Shame we love in a world where folk come out with this bull to undermine others... but then it’s the same in all walks of life I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And to answer OP original question... yes I know a lot of small-average size cock guys get overlooked as a lot of women seem to be on the hunt for the ever elusive monster sized cock. Size is only important in perception when looking at it, looks meaty and powerful and has me lusting... but I’ve met small guys who are incredibly skilled at what they do with theirs

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I find it strange that people looking for above average are seemingly treated with distain, but if they seek average not so much.

Are people who desire larger bottoms or taller playmates treated the same or labelled?

Size queen is used as a derogatory term Ive noticed.

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

Met some lovely people in Cap D’Agde but being a nudist resort the good are on show from the off.

Doesn’t matter how nice the guy is but the Mrs ain’t playing if he’s just average size.

She’s used to bigger men and wants to feel it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly I am Bisexual and get to see lots of cocks - and from a man on man perspective, size as got bugger all to do with enjoyment - undoubtedly in some instances it is nice to have a big one between your legs, but its never the most important thing for me

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By *hatterbox 2Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

I agree totally its all about the quality n enjoyment not the quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone looking for the ugly guy with average cock asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree totally its all about the quality n enjoyment not the quantity "

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