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By *orthing1 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

So I’m getting on a bit, overweight, not a great looker with a smallish penis but a good personality. Where am I going wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sticking a candle in your knob for starters

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By *ndianas bonerMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Sticking a candle in your knob for starters "

*Spits beer over phone

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By *orthing1 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

It was a birthday treat and I thought it might get them to blow ! (They didn’t)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got to be honest but your photos aren't brilliant. The candle one and the one with your cock stuck between your legs do nothing for you at all. Try and take some in better lighting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got to be honest but your photos aren't brilliant. The candle one and the one with your cock stuck between your legs do nothing for you at all. Try and take some in better lighting."

I agree.

Your written profile isn’t very enticing either and doesn’t say much about you.

So for me, it would be another profile I pass.

Try posting different pictures and updating your written profile a bit.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"So I’m getting on a bit, overweight, not a great looker with a smallish penis but a good personality. Where am I going wrong?"

What on earth is that first picture! Auditioning for silence of the lambs not looking past there so no idea on the rest.

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Sticking a candle in your knob for starters "

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I can't see a candle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't see a candle."

It melted

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By *orthing1 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing


"I've got to be honest but your photos aren't brilliant. The candle one and the one with your cock stuck between your legs do nothing for you at all. Try and take some in better lighting."

Thanks I really appreciate your honesty and constructive criticism. I have only just put those pics up recently more as a bit of fun I guess as They are certainly not attractive but my warped humour is obviously not appropriate. Will take them down xx

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By *orthing1 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing


"I've got to be honest but your photos aren't brilliant. The candle one and the one with your cock stuck between your legs do nothing for you at all. Try and take some in better lighting.

I agree.

Your written profile isn’t very enticing either and doesn’t say much about you.

So for me, it would be another profile I pass.

Try posting different pictures and updating your written profile a bit. "

Thank you I appreciate your points and taking the trouble to comment x

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By *tsJeanLucMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Maybe ease off with posting just penis pictures, have a few selfies oncthere so people can see what you look like too, put more detail into your profile, I can remember if you’re verified yet??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve made the feature you feel least confident about the main focus of your pics. Maybe decide on the body features you are most pleased with and feature them? It looks like you have a decent body..

You really need to punctuate your profile text and make it a bit more dynamic and positive. Omit the stuff about making mistakes. Outline what you think you can offer and any particular sexual interests or kinks that might help differentiate you from others, if you have any. Aim for something positive, light, inclusive and witty. As if you were describing yourself with your tongue in your cheek to a sexy best female friend.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"So I’m getting on a bit, overweight, not a great looker with a smallish penis but a good personality. Where am I going wrong?"

Some people may find your profile rather negative, which could be the reason why you’re not doing so well. You mention you have a good personality, make that show through your profile with humour and being positive, and how you would love to treat any prospective play mates, without being too crude. Most people would like to see other parts of your body, than just cock pictures. Bum, back, torso, etc. are favourites.

IMO, I don’t think your cock is smallish. A noticeable erection under briefs, taken at a good angle can be appealing, as it gives an air of mystery.

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